The 57-year-old aunt confessed: 3 times of partnering experience, let me finally understand that "dusk love" is a pit

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The 57-year-old aunt confessed: 3 times of partnering experience, let me finally understand that "dusk love" is a pit. What happened and what was the process? Let me take a look!

Aunt Kang, 57 years old

My wife died a few days ago, and after I retired, I went to the choir for the elderly, which made me know very few new friends, and I felt that I found my own interest after retirement, so I would go to the group every day to practice. In the choir, a 63-year-old man cared about me in particular.

Later I learned that he now lives alone, his wife is gone because of cancer, his only son went to the big city to develop, we got along very well, and then we got along, and then we got along, I felt like I met Twilight Love, and I was very excited at that time. I thought that the days after the partnership would be very happy.

However, what I did not expect was that he was a macho, housework is for me to do, will not take the initiative to cook, I feel that I am a free nanny, partner for a month, I really feel very tired, such a partnership is not as easy as a person's life, so later I proposed to break up.

Later, I felt that I could not stay in the choir, so I went to the tour group to relax, at this time a 65-year-old man pursued me, we were together soon after, but then he kept looking for me to borrow money, I learned that his purpose was not pure, so I left him.

In October last year, I partnered with a 60-year-old man, this family is my third time to partner, originally look at others honestly, this time can get along well, did not want less than a month, he told me that he has a chronic disease, a month need 3,000 yuan to buy medicine consumption, let yourself pay for him to buy medicine.

I was really very angry, I felt that I was deceived by him, he did not confess to me before the partnership, and now the partner said to me, I really can't accept it, I think "dusk love" is a pit, so after three failed partners, I did not find a partner to partner again, and now I live a free and comfortable life alone.

epilogue:

No matter how old you have the right to pursue happiness, the elderly looking for a wife to be cautious, should understand each other's character, so that two people can get along well, for people with impure purposes must be away in time, the most important thing about two people's lives is appropriate, to achieve mutual tolerance and understanding, feelings can be stable and long-lasting.