Pisces people tend to give a kind, natural impression, and can quickly close the distance between people, but Although Pisces seems to have high emotional intelligence, it is not easy to give people this intuitive impression.
As if their emotional intelligence is innate, not deliberate, or disguised, it has to be said that they are good at conquering others with emotion, so what are the unique ways pisces socialize?
What are some unique ways Pisces socializes?
Pisces people are often a seemingly passive, but actually active type, they are good at using emotional power, to conquer the hearts of others, many people may have a sense of wariness about people, do not dare to establish contact with people at will, but Pisces is not, they will not take the initiative to be wary of others, but eager to get close to others.
In this process, they can easily empathize with the emotions of others, at the same time, they are also very good at giving the right medicine, Pisces actually has the talent of "acting", sometimes, they are not so quick to be emotional, but they can show a very heartfelt look.
They can easily break through the inner defenses of others, but they may not really open their hearts, so if Pisces intends to approach you, it is difficult for you to refuse, and even, you can easily fall into their gentle country, it can be said that it seems that you are conquering them, but in fact they are conquering you.
First, it is easy to have a sense of dependence on people, but the heart is not dependent
Pisces people actually need people very much, they are also prone to a sense of dependence on people, at the same time, in this process, they are cared for and protected, therefore, they are very dependent on others from life, but from the spiritual world, they are very independent and free.
Pisces just wants others to give them a sense of security, like adding a hood to their world, and then allowing themselves to roam freely in it, unfettered, and without worrying about material things.
Therefore, their dependence on people may only be a habitual dependence, not a spiritual dependence, but many people are easy to confuse this, so that it is difficult for Pisces to leave themselves, underestimating their strong side.
Second, for the consideration of others, it is easy to sacrifice dedication
In interpersonal communication, Pisces is often easy to win the favor of others with the spirit of sacrifice and dedication, and they are easy to unconsciously pay their own efforts to meet the needs of others.
Perhaps, they don't need to do so much at all, but still want to do it, not deliberately, or for some ulterior motive, but an instinct, a natural outpouring of emotion.
Pisces is often easy to be soft-hearted, when they see the needs of others, they can not sit idly by, they tend to use this sacrifice, to move others, but also to move themselves, therefore, they often make people feel very good.
Third, the mind is exquisite and clear, and he is good at empathizing with others
In life, Pisces' mind can not be described as transparent, many times, they are very good at empathizing with others, can feel each other's emotions and feelings in an instant, and even only need an expression, or an action.
This kind of sensitive mind makes it easy for Pisces to win the favor of others and enter the hearts of others by means of three words and two words, or some simple behaviors.
Their means of comforting others, or of drawing closer to them, is an emotional force, not a courtesy or reciprocal exchange.
The power of this emotion is so great that it can cross the background of class and education, unify everyone together, and even "win" the hearts of the strong, which is why Pisces can be soft.
Fourth, good at showing weakness, people can't help but protect
Pisces are also often very good at showing weakness in long-term relationships, and they don't mind showing a look that needs to be protected, or a feeling of sadness or vulnerability that is not big enough.
This "sense of brokenness" often allows them to easily break through other people's defense lines, completely crush other people's resistance, and reach the depths of their hearts.
Therefore, this sense of brokenness is so deeply rooted in people's hearts that people can't help but take care of them, and Pisces often enjoys it, and sometimes, they also use this way of retreating to make people pay them, so that they can't do without them.