Love is a human instinct. It is the best thing in a person's life. Which girl is not pregnant with spring, which young boy is not in love. A positive and healthy view of love is an important prerequisite for a person to obtain sweet love and a happy marriage. Prejudiced, naïve, and deformed views of love not only do not get sweet love, but may affect their marital happiness. If a relationship can make you more optimistic, confident, and cheerful. Then such a relationship is worth having and should continue to be maintained.
Recently, I was watching a TV series "Red Shark Assault", in which the protagonist commando captain Wang Changlin fell in love with the sister of Savin Po, an officer who came from the Kuomintang uprising, the original petite Miss Sa Wenlan. Although the two people come from different backgrounds, their experiences are different. But now they are on the same front against a common enemy for the sake of a common goal. The two can appreciate each other's strengths, and even when Sa Wenlan is in danger, Wang Changlin disregards her personal safety and does his best to save her. It can be said that they are two lovers who share life and death. But for 50 yuan to buy flowers or use for dinner, the two people argued, and they were not happy. Ideally, Savin Hopes to be able to sit by the sea every day after liberation and enjoy the blue sky and sea, while Wang Changlin hopes to return to his hometown to farm and raise children. In the end, Wang Changlin compromised. In the process of fighting together, Savenlan used his strengths and talents to continue to grow. In order to make their own expertise better play. She asked to go out to study several times. But at this time, Wang Changlin had been obstructing, trying to prevent her from leaving him. Machismo makes Savinian sad.
Such two people in the war years, fighting for the common ideal, is a good partner, a good partner. It can be placed in today's era of peace. They get married and have children and face different tastes in life. Daily chores, macho Wang Changlin and the intellectual, romantic Sa Wenlan. There may be a lot of quarrels due to different opinions, where is there any happiness to speak of?
Now some materialistic girls think of themselves as money-making women. When you are in love, you specialize in finding rich people, although money can make you happy, but you can't match it without growing. This kind of love or marriage is unlikely to make you happier. Only by agreeing with each other, helping each other and making progress together can we make ourselves grow more and happier!