<h1>01 Children's parachute jumping incidents are frequently staged</h1>
Yesterday, a hot news triggered a hot discussion among a bunch of mothers in the circle of friends, and everyone was worried and overwhelmed.
On April 15, in a small area of Wuhu, Anhui Province, a 6-year-old girl, while alone at home, somehow jumped from the window of her home with a small flower umbrella. However, fortunately, the child fell on the balcony on the 6th floor, was found in time, and was sent to the hospital for treatment, which was no longer a big problem.
In fact, this is not the first case of a child parachuting off a building.
On April 15, 2017, a 7-year-old boy in Kunshan, Jiangsu Province, jumped from the fifth floor with an umbrella in his hand while at home. According to nearby witnesses, the boy was alone at home at the time, and this behavior was also imitated in the cartoon scene on TV.
In early 2013, a girl in Shenzhen jumped from the window on the sixth floor holding a small yellow umbrella, when the little girl and the umbrella landed at the same time, fortunately landing on the grass of the green belt. The reason for such a crazy move is also influenced by cartoons.
In fact, the above children's parachute jumping incident is because it imitates the scene in the cartoon.
What cartoons? According to the editor's understanding, at present, there are at least two films related to the plot, one is "Bear Haunting", the other is "Unlucky Bear".
It is deplorable that young lives wither in this way!
<h1>02 The reasons behind the thought-provoking
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As early as a few years ago, many netizens pointed out that the violence, vicious customs and other plots that appeared in cartoons. In 2013, CCTV's "News Network" criticized the animation "Pleasant Goat" and "Bear Haunting" by name for being violent and vulgar. There are also parents who count that in a ten-minute animation of "Bear Haunting", there are 21 dirty words.
I remember that there were three teenage children who imitated the plot of the gray wolf tying the lamb to the tree and roasting it, and actually tied a small friend to the tree and burned it with a torch, causing lifelong damage.
What makes these tragedies happen again and again?
First, it must be inseparable from the neglect of parents.
Many parents lack safety awareness and are lucky when caring for their children. According to the statistics of relevant departments, parents leave their young children alone at home, go out to take out garbage and do things by themselves, and the incidence of children falling from home has increased year by year in China. Look at so many "tonju brothers" in the news to understand how serious the situation is.
Second, in the eyes of children, the world is full of magic.
They have no concept of fear or danger in their hearts, only curiosity, and a desire to explore this unknown world. Cartoons are their way of knowing the world, of understanding the world. Moreover, many children often regard the characters in the animation as heroes and imitate them everywhere.
In the above two incidents, the child imitated the plot of the cartoon and jumped off the building with a parachute. They staggered up to the balcony, facing the wind, holding up umbrellas, imagining the scene in the cartoon, with a smile on their faces, and jumping excitedly.
Thinking about such a scene, the survival jun's heart is like a stinging pain, and his hair is upright. In the adult world, such a dangerous and terrible thing is so wonderful in the eyes of children.
If no one corrects the children in time, it is only a matter of time before an accident occurs.
Third, China does not have relevant penalty laws and regulations.
Because there is no provision for the child to have an accident under the negligence of the parents, what kind of punishment will be imposed on the parents, resulting in the child's accident, more is condemned by public opinion, and there is no legal deterrent.
<h1>03 Watching animations with your baby also requires caution</h1>
As the father of a little girl, Xiaobian talked about his experience with a baby.
My family's Xibao is about to turn three years old and loves cartoons.
Because I am doing safety science popularization, so in the choice of animation, the editor must personally review the film. All those who have violent circumstances are shot. Finally, "Peppa Pig" and "Polly Police Car" were selected. "Peppa Pig" is simply a must-have with a baby, which is full of life knowledge, and there are many small partners. In particular, there is a traffic safety series in "Perry Police Car", which makes her learn a lot of safety knowledge. Later, "Wang Wang" and "Super Flying Man" learned to go to the rescue when others were in difficulty.
In the Barbie Princess series, she also has a special love for the singer Princess.
Favorite animated movies "Journey to the West: The Return of the Great Sage", "Kung Fu Panda 3", "Happy Bigfoot", "The Voice of Joy", "The Incredibles (Big White)", "Frozen" and so on.
Xibao's safety awareness
Once took Xi Bao to wait for the car on the side of the road, because he was in a hurry, he walked off the sidewalk and stood on the side of the road to look. Xi Bao, who was standing on the sidewalk, took my hand and said, "Daddy, you come up, it's dangerous below"!
A burst of warmth and surprise!
Another time, waiting for a bus in front of a school, three young boys were climbing the hardcore of the road sign, and Xibao shouted to them: "Brother, danger"! The three little guys, looking at Xi Bao, ran away with a giggle.
Once, Xi Bao said "I'm going to kill you"!
I chuckled in my heart, and quickly told her that I couldn't say kill or die to others, which was impolite, and Xi Bao nodded as if he understood.
I wondered what cartoons I'd watched recently. Finally thought of "Crazy Primitive Man", this Hollywood blockbuster for all ages, there is a plot, the end of the story told by the primitive father is dead, and the camera also uses a huge blood handprint to enhance the visual impact. So, XiBao learned.
Children have no concept of "death", but feel that it is a way of expressing emotions, like "injury".
Why can't magic stop the car?
XiBao likes to watch "Ice Legend", and especially loves Aisha, and even makes a fuss about her mother buying a blue dress. You have to ask her why she likes Elsa, and she will tell you that Elsa can do magic.
Every time I went to the stone bridge on the small lake in the park downstairs, I let Yao Beina's "Let It Go" be played, while imitating Aisha's action of building an ice bridge.
Usually, when we play games, we often shoot magic at my mother and me, and we will also cooperate very cooperatively to fall backwards and make a sound. At this time, Xi Bao's joyful laughter was as proud as if he really knew magic.
But, at one point, I realized the dangers of imitating magic.
One weekend afternoon, I took Xibao downstairs to play with a group of small children. A little boy riding a small bicycle, rampage, Xi Bao was a little unhappy, so he blocked the front of the bicycle, pushed out with both hands at the little boy, and made a magic blocking action. But the little boy's bicycle did not stop, and in the instant that Xi Bao was stunned, the bicycle knocked her down. Fortunately, the speed of the bicycle was not fast, and Xibao was not injured or crying, but was very confused and unhappy.
At this point, I realized that Xi Bao might be wondering, why didn't magic stop the bike?
Seizing the moment, I quickly explained to her that magic is only available in Aisha in cartoons, and that we can use it when making games, but not in real life. When you encounter a bicycle or someone else is about to hit you, quickly avoid it.
Xi Bao, immediately understood. In the future, when playing at home, Xibao would often use magic, but now she understood that magic could only be used when playing games.
What if there are thieves in the house?
Personally, I think this is a cartoon with super bad graphics and wrong storytelling. But Xibao liked it.
Now, what if you ask Xibao, what if there is a thief in the house? She would say loudly with a firm expression, fight the demon spirits, and find the police.
In the eyes of the child, the world is full of magic. However, the danger, which is nearby, requires parents to patiently explain and guide.
<h1>04 The danger of children around them may stem from the fact that parents do not take the lead. </h1>
Once, while waiting for a red light, a grandmother led a boy who looked like a schoolboy to see that there was no vehicle, and before the green light came on, she forced the boy to cross the street. The boy kept struggling and said that the teacher taught us to stop at the red light and the green light line, and now we can't cross the street. Grandma took his hand and said, Little children's family, you know what, hurry up and follow me.
This phenomenon may be common, but it destroys the child's belief in safety and the sense of following and revering the rules.
Imagine that the tiger bite incident in the Beijing Wildlife Park, and the incident of the tiger being bitten to death by the ticket evasion, is not the reason for not following the rules?
The story of a kidnapped girl.
A 5-year-old girl was forcibly taken away on her way to school, and after seeing the police on the highway, she hugged the policeman's leg and cried "She is not my mother" and was rescued by the police.
This little girl not only knows how not to resist excessively when isolated and helpless, so as not to be hurt. When the police are spotted, quickly break free for help. Be able to accurately describe the abduction process, as well as clearly report the name and contact information of the parents. It can be called a "anti-abduction teaching material" for children.
The reason why the little girl can be saved is because of the parents' conscious safety education.
Here Xiaobian should remind that parents must not use "the police to arrest you" to scare children when their children are crying, otherwise, they will not dare to ask for help when they see the police in the future. In normal times, children should know the police, know what the police do, and when they encounter danger, they can ask the police for help.
As the saying goes: three years old looks big, seven years old looks old.
If you do not establish a correct concept of safety from an early age, how to prevent children from imitating dangerous actions? So when you grow up, will you be prone to unexpected injuries?
Every child is as innocent as an angel and needs careful care and affection!
We cannot deprive
The right of children to watch cartoons
But tell the child
Reality and cartoons are two different things
Safety awareness starts small
After all, life is only once