"Children go to college, many parents are more worried"
Especially the parents who are daughters at home, that is even more worried, when they report to their children for school and profession, they deliberately let their children be closer to themselves, so that it is convenient to take care of them.
But the child thinks very differently from the parents, because the child has experienced the baptism of compulsory education, and they are eager to go far and fly high, just like a bird longing for freedom, it flies out at the moment of coming out of the cage.
But college is also equivalent to half a foot into society, so it is normal for parents to worry about their children, but many children do not appreciate it at all, as long as they enter the university, they feel free.
The various instructions of parents are completely forgotten, but it should be known that although the university is more free, it is still very concerned about the safety of students, otherwise it will not be checked in the university dormitory.
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To say that the most feared thing about checking the dormitory is the college girls, because when they go to college, they can finally dress themselves and do what they want to do, so there will often be a lot of contraband in the girls' dormitory.
The reason why the school controls this problem is because if a building is overloaded with electricity, it will explode, which will threaten the safety of students, and the school cannot bear the consequences, so even if you go to college, you will face a check.
And girls have more small things, electricity consumption is easy to exceed the standard, so college students often check the most wonderful is the girls' dormitory.
On the Internet, I saw a university suddenly inspect the girls' dormitory, and the contraband was placed on the ground, and the female college dormitory was also on fire because of this, and seeing those contrabands, it can really be said that it was dazzling.
There are many kinds of tricks, the most common of which are all kinds of curling irons, straight clips, and then there are all kinds of pots and pans, I don't know if I think I am going to open a canteen in the dormitory, as well as hair dryer kettles, electric mattresses, etc.
I can only say that the electrical appliances you can think of are in the girls' dormitory, and in a pile of contraband, you can also see a few living creatures, such as kittens and puppies, etc. Looking at these things, many children's parents said: "I can't control it at all, before going to college, I said don't use these things and don't listen at all." And many netizens also said: "I can play!" ”。
Parents also take pains to ensure the safety of their children, but unfortunately they are too far away to manage at all, although they went to college, they are also a child, and they lack a sense of proportion, so it is easy to have problems.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="36" > children who go to college to liberate their nature are all loopholes in parental education</h1>
First of all, you will find that some children after going to college seem to be liberated by nature, their personalities have changed greatly, and there is a great contrast in dress and behavior, even parents are difficult to recognize.
This actually shows a problem that we have overlooked, that is, this is the child's retaliatory liberation nature, that is, you discipline your child too strictly during school, and the child is like a dead spring that is crushed.
It bounces off immediately when you let go slightly. So the child doesn't really want to do these things, it's just that the more you don't let them do it, the more they have to do it.
Secondly, going to college is originally a kind of letting go and exercising for children, and the tighter the children who are caught before going to college, the easier it is to take a crooked road, but children who are not much supervised by their parents before going to college are more likely to do serious things.
Because for them this freedom is already the norm, normal, and going to college is just a new challenge for them, and the child who has been disciplined feels that everything is fresh, and others are hooked if they are a little better to her.
Finally, if you do not want your children to go to college to overly liberate their nature, parents should master the degree of education in the usual time, and it should be strict and strict to open a house, which is the correct way of education, and when you find that your child's college has changed, it means that there is a problem with your education.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="37" > know how to let go of children's education</h1>
Supportive education is the most failed education
This is like the process of each child learning to walk, if the child learns to walk, if the parents have been holding the child, or have not let the child be independent, then the child will always grow up with your support.
They will feel that this is the norm, and if we learn to let go, the child will have already relied on their own instincts to go independently, so this is the appropriate letting go of education.
And some parents just can't let go of learning, then the children they raise, mommy, selfish, self, very unpopular, supportive education will also make children have no bottom line, and even one day will touch the bottom line of the law.
Because one day when you can't support your child, then at this time the child will be like a liberated bird, flying around, which is very dangerous.
Wu Yifan is a good example, his mother's supportive education for him eventually sent his son to prison, so I hope that all parents will learn to let go.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="38" > Mom Alpaca message:</h1>
Girls who go to college love beauty more, because their age is really time to like to dress themselves, so it is very normal, the main parents are well educated, do not have to worry about any problems with their children.
Today's Topic:
Did you sneak in on contraband when you were in college? What is the contraband in the girls' dormitories that you most impressed with? Welcome to leave a message at the bottom of the screen!