Yesterday, chatting with a colleague, chatting about his ex-girlfriend, it is strange to say, when talking about this topic, he is very excited, it sounds like he is more kind than his current girlfriend.
He said, "You say that people are such animals, it is strange to say, according to common sense, she dumped me, I should remember to hate her." But now, instead of remembering her at all, whenever I think of her, I always have a feeling of unspeakable in my heart. Especially in the dead of night, there is always a kind of thought that lingers in the mind. ”
I didn't dare to delve too deeply into the topic of friends, but for this kind of question, I suddenly remembered many things that I had been exposed to before. In fact, in the final analysis, one of the reasons is that the thoughts are deep and the true feelings are revealed. The beauty of your imagination is exactly what you can never get.
Mood:
Late at night, remove the impetuous "heart", only then can there be the most beautiful "realm"
I remember a business trip experience, need to leave very early, it was four o'clock in the morning, the sky is not very bright, and my friend who traveled with me said:
"The view from the outside of the car is beautiful. That kind of beauty that seems to be moving and static. ”
The scenery at that time was indeed beautiful, the sky at four o'clock in the morning, the darkest hour of the night in the past, and there was no hustle and bustle of the day. That kind of beauty is the beauty of the state of mind. In this case, often, the true feelings in people's hearts are most easily revealed.
Emotions:
At this time, they do not hear each other, and they are willing to shine month by month
As the saying goes, man is human because man has one more thinking head than an animal.
So, the description of the friend at the beginning is understandable, because he has been thinking about it. Like the old saying, what you can't get is the most beautiful. And human beings, animals, have the nature of longing for beauty, so that feeling is self-evident.
Both parties in the relationship, whether it is a breakup, or a hot love, are that familiar feeling, a feeling of longing to hold hands but can not do as desired, and it is precisely this feeling that makes you remember deeply. Because it makes you have sadistic pain, but also makes you have the sweetness of missing.
This also explains "why in the dead of night, you think of her"
I remember that there was once a friend with the screen name "Little Boy" who talked to me. That day, he told me that he was in pain, not physically, but hating what he couldn't do. At the beginning, he talked to me a lot, and the feeling came out, he was very conflicted, and he had been struggling with his own heart. Later, I learned that he was in love with a girl who had a boyfriend. That same night, the girl was hospitalized for illness, and he could not accompany him. All of this can only be endured by yourself. Because of fear, fear will cause unnecessary trouble for the girl. The kind of heartache that you are entangled in yourself, if you don't try it yourself, you may never know what it's like.
Not to mention the right and wrong of the "little boy", his story perfectly explains "why, you and I can't let go of that her in our hearts."
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Because of that pain, that kind of silent thought in my heart, "Are you okay?" "The pain is a pain that hurts the heart!
I would like to ask how many people recall the beauty of inadvertently walking in those inadvertent moments, and they all look forward to the beauty of the past with regret.
Especially on that silent night, how many people would silently ask the one who used to ask her, "Are you okay now?" ”。