Jing Tian, who was known to more audiences for his participation in "Si Teng", said in an interview that after the previous relationship broke up, he adjusted for a long time before he came out.
Breaking up will always hurt people, especially for female friends, which require more time to heal and adjust, and for some sisters, even no less than a rebirth.
And the impact of divorce, not to mention, because marriage is not only two people, but also two families, and perhaps the crystallization of love - cute little friends, many reasons have caused us more injury, more pressure.
The divorce rate is rising, and more divorces are attributed to "personality incompatibility", but personality incompatibility should not be the terminator of marriage.
If there is no principle problem and have loved each other, then the personality disharmony is precisely the starting point of a happy life, a perfect opportunity to happiness.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="12" >01 Personality is incompatible and has the love you want</h1>
You like the space where two people are alone, and he likes to call friends and lead company;
You want to have more beautiful future through joint efforts, but he is satisfied with the status quo and seems not to want to make progress;
On your birthday, you want a romantic candlelit dinner, but he thinks a normal meal is enough...
These are the so-called personality discord, for the same thing, two people always have different ideas and opinions, so two people who are so different, how to live?
Don't rush to conclusions, and then take a closer look, there is the love you really want.
For example, you think that love is two people accompanying each other, love is to fight together, building a castle that belongs to the two of you, love is a birthday, receiving roses representing love, and every now and then there is a romantic candlelight dinner.
In this way, you will feel that you are loved and live in happiness, otherwise the daily chai rice oil and salt, division of labor and cooperation, will make the feeling of love dissipate.
Yes, this is what you want the love marriage to look like, but he doesn't know it.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" >02 Personality is incompatible, hiding the secret of love</h1>
Shouldn't he know the love I want?
He loved me so much before, didn't he know me, that can only mean that he didn't love me enough, otherwise he would have had a sharp mind, and I don't say that he also knew.
Wait, let's start with a story:
"Suddenly Heartbeat" is a star blind date variety show, which has a section of Bai Bing because Li Yuantao suddenly came to the house, drank wine, said something that should not be said, and the usual attitude is different, making Bai Bing very angry and helpless.
When they met the next day, Bai Bing said that because of a past relationship, the other party was a person who would lose control of a drink, so she had a shadow and would feel afraid of the fact that drinking was out of control.
Well, the secret of loving Bai Bing is to drink less or no drink, which will give her the sense of security she wants.
Of course, in the end, how they don't judge, the main thing is that we can learn to express the love we want here in Bai Bing, tell each other, what I don't like, what I want to get.
If he really loves you, you'll definitely see him change because he knows how to love you right.
Happiness does not need to be tested whether you have a spirit in your heart, what you want to test is whether you are in his heart and have always been in his heart.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="52" >03 Personality incompatibility, achieve a happy future</h1>
It's normal for two people from different families and different upbringings to live together and have different views on the same thing.
In the early stages of love, we may tolerate and feel that this person is really special, but when we enter the marriage, we will feel that we can't stand it.
And the most dramatic thing is that before marriage, you feel that this person is really honest and has a saying, and after marriage, you will think that he speaks too straight and does not know how to be flexible.
So two people need more run-in, when they know the secret of loving each other, the next step is how to better love each other.
Someone may make a corresponding concession, but this concession will not bring about a big change in principle to themselves, you are still you.
You let me take a step, I let you take a step, slowly write the happiness code that belongs to the two of you, at this time, both people will feel very comfortable, and gradually, in the love marriage, they will be back to their true selves, free selves, relaxed themselves.
There is truth, there is freedom, there is ease, and there is a feeling of being surrounded by love, this is not the happiness we want.
I am the King of The Sons and Daughters of Charm, may you and I live as we want...
Author: The King of The Sons and Daughters of Charm
The tip of the pen has love, there is light in the heart, be a free person, live a relaxed life~