After the Li Lianglei incident, will you still envy your current full-time wife?
After the epidemic in Zhengzhou is basically over, the work mode has resumed today. When you are used to resting at home, you will become lazy, and you can sleep until noon every day, and you feel that your work and rest have changed completely. Sometimes I think that people have worked hard in this life, going out like animals every day to forage for food, and after a tiring day, they can enjoy a moment of comfortable time at night.
Occasionally for a moment will suddenly envy the days of the full-time wife, especially in the north, in the face of the winter early in the morning to get up to work, compared to the full-time wife at home with a nanny or mother-in-law cooking, they only need to take care of the children, go out shopping to buy groceries, free time can be fitness and beauty, but also very moist.
But reason also told me that I work not to live, to make a living, but to make myself better, so that I am not marginalized by the rapidly developing society, and I can continue to grow and progress.
When their parents need themselves, they can share within their ability, they can make suggestions when they encounter problems in their daily work with their husbands, they can have more ability to resist risks in their own small families, they can live with status and dignity in front of their in-laws and husbands, and they can set a good example for a modern woman in front of their children.
Thinking about the previous period of Wang Lihong's wife, such a Kochi woman will also face such a fiasco life, we really should learn a lesson and soberly remind ourselves that only economic independence can have everything you want. Life is not satisfactory, but a job can at least let us wait for the occasional heavenly gift of one-tenth of luck, if you lose the minimum ability to survive, become a vassal of others, reality will be the only one-tenth of the good left to you to deprive you of a point, until the whole body is wounded. Time, health, and opportunity will give up without giving you any chance because you choose to give up in your most youthful years, and the cruelty of reality and the evil of human nature seem to drive people into eighteen levels of hell, making it difficult for you to turn over. Li Lianglei icon only relies on thin strength, although relying on powerful self-media, sending small compositions, it is only a tear in a thousand layers of waves, and finally buried in the deep sea, leaving a lonely and tragic self.
Therefore, female compatriots, we must keep our heads clear, do not be blinded by the ease of temporary life and the sweet words of the husband, and always remind ourselves that each of us is an independent object, from the beginning of a person to the world, and eventually to face a person leaving this world. To know that economic and physical and mental independence is the most basic premise of being a human being, do not rely on anyone economically and emotionally, learn to be alone and meditate, not be confused by the impetuous and red-hot appearance, and live a clear and self-contained life!