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I grew up in an ordinary working family, my parents had a good relationship, and my parents' expectations for me: study hard, and have a more stable job like them in the future. In fact, I was also an obedient child, who kept his academic performance at the top of his academic ranks during his schooling, and after graduating from college, he did not hesitate to return to his parents and pass the civil service. After a year of work, my parents began to urge me to find someone, and it was only then that I felt that I had to face the "grown-up" thing.
My wife and I were introduced by colleagues, and my wife worked in a state-owned enterprise. My parents were actually not satisfied with similar feelings, because my parents were more inclined to find me a civil servant, but my wife was beautiful and had a good personality, so I took care of my wife like a servant during love or after marriage. It is inevitable that some people around me will say that I am a strict wife, and I don't mind such a title at all.
When my married life with my wife came to the 5th year, my wife turned me green for a man with a very bad reputation, and the other party was a well-known flower man. On this matter, the explanation given by the wife is: the other party has more money. What is even more infuriating is that after the infidelity period, the wife is not willing to break up with the other party immediately. Because my wife had such an attitude, I filed for divorce from my wife. On the issue of divorce, my wife continued to act greedy, not wanting to divorce me, nor wanting to be separated from her lover. In the end, I could only sue to achieve the divorce result. Now, I have been divorcing my wife for half a year, and she has also been kicked by her lover. In the face of my wife's request to find me to remarry, I naturally would not agree. I wondered: My wife is really a strange animal, I am so good to her, why doesn't she know how to cherish it?
Muzi Li emotional analysis:
Street Interview: Do you prefer to fall in love with warm men, or do you like to fall in love with scumbags? Many girls replied, scumbag. The reason given is that scumbags can understand women's needs and feel that they will wait until they are tired of playing and then find an honest person to marry. Women will become like this, for two reasons: they have really paid in a relationship, but in exchange for the end of the breakup, so that, before they reach the marriageable age, they find a scumbag to take what they need, do not want to be too serious about feelings; I want to experience the romance of love from the scumbag. However, women ignore the thing: pay attention to the quality of love, not the number of relationships. Therefore, every time you fall in love, you should run love in the direction of marriage, otherwise, you are likely to become a scumbag under the tutelage and influence of a scumbag, after all, making a good person bad is only a matter of minutes.
Cruel truth: always be good to a person, only occasionally because of inadvertently hurting the other party, then, the other party remembers that you hurt the other party; has been mean to a person, only occasionally because of their own kindness to give this person kindness, then, the other party remembers your gentle and benevolent side. It doesn't sound funny, but that's the truth in people's hearts. After all, if it's too good for one person, the other person will take it for granted. So that when you can't take care of each other's emotions anytime and anywhere because you are busy or for other reasons, the other party will feel that you are indebted to the other party. Human nature is sometimes so ugly, so, in interpersonal relationships, in addition to your family, there is no need to be too good to outsiders, once the habit is formed naturally, the other party will forget to be grateful, and even think that you are a fool.
The so-called fresh: In the cognition of many people, they will always feel that they have been with their lovers for a long time, and there will be numbness in the left hand and the right hand, at this time, they want to change their taste. Eventually, something was done that betrayed the marriage. In fact, everything done with the lover is nothing more than a repetition of the behavior between the lover and the lover, and over time, it will also be tired. Therefore, the most correct way to open the sense of freshness: with the lover, more deductions of what has not happened before, to maintain the heat of love, rather than changing one person to repeat the action between them. However, only those who have experienced it firsthand can truly appreciate the meaning of some truths. Therefore, many people who were once obsessed with their lovers, after divorcing their lovers and legitimate lovers, often regret it, and the key is that the former legal lover may not give you the opportunity to eat back grass.
When your wife and lover meet, your wife also knows that the lover is just playing with her, using money as bait. It was only during this time that your wife experienced a different way of life with you from her lover, so she felt fresh and fun. In fact, your wife doesn't want you to know her relationship with her lover, and the paper can't cover the fire after all. The point is that after the extramarital affair is exposed, your wife should take it, but she loves her and luckily thinks that you will not leave her, so she plays a lover and a lover. Your wife also looks up to herself too much: I don't know that your kindness to her is completely based on her fidelity to marriage. In the face of your wife's greed, you divorce her by suing, which is the best place for the relationship. When you sue for divorce: it's true that your wife doesn't want to divorce you, and it's true that you don't want to break up with your lover. During this time, your wife is obviously selfish, only looking for her own enjoyment, and does not take your mood into account at all. Usually, a man who loves his wife will often stage a deep hatred of love after his wife's betrayal. In fact, when you divorce your wife by suing, she regrets it, but the regret is not so thorough, and she has to wait until she is abandoned by your lover before she begins to think about your goodness, but you are not a bad thing after all.
Here, I would like to warn those who are unfaithful to their feelings:
1) Don't fight that the other party loves you, you can wreak havoc in a relationship, after all, the other party can love you, you can also change you, so don't wait until the other party is replaced, only to find that the other party's presence in your life is so important;
2) Others can love you, but others also have the bottom line of love, usually, your loyalty to love is the bottom line of the other party, once you deduce the cheating behavior, then, you are no longer cute in the eyes of the other party, but synonymous with dirty;
3) Everyone knows the thing, after coldly slapping each other twice, saying sorry to each other, in exchange for not that the other party does not matter, but the other party also gave you two slaps, so you do not have to do whatever you want with the other party's love;
4) Sincerity needs to be exchanged with sincerity, and the initial interpretation of love is basically because of the eye edge, but with the march of marriage, the most important element that maintains the length of love must be conscience. Once you have done something that you have no conscience, the other party will stop doing dog licking in front of you.