People with age, will be more and more immune to the opposite sex, when young will often because of a certain detail will produce a heartbeat, so as to fall in love with someone, but when the years pass, people age, experience growth, encounter anything will be very rational, accustomed to the wind and snow, so as to be immune to the opposite sex, and then it is difficult to move people.
When you meet a very good and high-quality man, you will only appreciate, rarely make the next move, appreciate it, and will not possess. Everyone has their own life trajectory, as they grow older, seeing the opposite sex, the first thing that comes to mind is not to possess and communicate, but to appreciate and be peaceful, everyone is different, to tolerate the opposite sex, just hold the scene, no other ideas.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="3" > When was the last heartbeat? </h1>
I remember the last time I was moved, I met a warm middle-aged man on the bus, patiently helped me to guide the way, a kind smile, may sometimes be moved, just a little kindness, the attitude of others to you, can be perceived at a glance, encounter goodwill, will be extremely cherished, may be that there is no one on the bus that day, and you just appeared, with a smile, melted the cold as frost I.
Many times, people are not handsome and handsome on the outside, but inside can warm people's touching emotions, let themselves be warm, let others warm, warm people have a warm aura, will make people close to them, feel like a spring breeze, when the sense of comfort strikes, there will be a feeling of wanting to let people rely on, and then evolve a warm and firm relationship.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="18" > How long have you not been interested in the opposite sex? </h1>
With the growth of age, the heartbeat frequency of the opposite sex is getting lower and lower, more and more people have seen, the requirements for quality and governance have changed, the threshold of heartbeat has increased, and there are fewer and fewer people who can make their hearts move. The current society is full of all kinds of emotional deception information, life seems that people are always easy to see the bad side of emotional relations, so people began not to believe in love and dare not love, out of self-protection do not love, and even appear just play, who is moved by who will lose the value concept. Action, sexual movement, money movement is not moving.
Lack of security and trust in emotional relationships. The phenomenon that the emotional relationship is not well maintained and the emotional needs are not benignly met is becoming more and more prominent. Perhaps many people will say that the heart is like water, where there is the ability to love, life has overwhelmed people, once scarred in feelings, we have long put on the armor to turn away feelings. In emotional relationships, being moved by the opposite sex is an action, not a state, and some people say that they don't love their partners anymore.
I would ask them, has your partner ever hurt you? Do you think your partner is still worthy of your love? If it doesn't hurt you, and it's still worth your love, then love it. Love her (him) from now on. Love is a verb, an action, not an outcome.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" > What will make you feel excited about the opposite sex? </h1>
Speaking of being passionate about the opposite sex, there are no special conditions, there is no fixed standard, it may just be that the sun is shining well that afternoon, and you are wearing a white shirt. When I was in school, I was touched by a person, when the sun was setting, he sat in front of the piano under the sunset and played a moving melody, and the orange warm sun scattered on the ground, shining on him, and suddenly understood what a heartbeat was.
And after work, it is difficult to be moved by people, you can't have any non-division of thoughts about a colleague who only talks about work, there is only the relationship of work partners, the end of the work, rushing to the next future, each cherished, never to be seen again. Pure love, only occurs in the campus and student era, or in the life of abandoning any conflict of interest, there is no conflict of interest, there is no coveting the good life of others, there is no jealousy and taking advantage of the shortcut psychology, I think, the feelings generated in this case are enough to make people move.
Moving is actually very simple, I am standing there, and you are just looking at me.