"There are many ways to live, but there is no way back"
At the end of December 2002,
A pamphlet called "Tongari Body Art Photo" was officially launched after it was officially launched.
There was soon an uproar, when the public's mind was not as open as it is now.
Therefore, at that time, although Tongari "became famous",
But it was also attacked like never before, and all kinds of gossip poured into Tongari like a flood.
And Tongari's father and husband could not accept her dedication to art.
When the father found out that his daughter was shooting this kind of human body photo album,
Not only did he scold Tongari, but he also threatened to break off the father-daughter relationship with her.
And her husband Shen Dong also divorced and parted ways with her after Tongari filmed the photo album.
Faced with such an ending, Tongari chose to shoot the human body photo album in the first place,
Still no regrets, and generously said that it was a memory of his youth.
First, from a young age, he was extremely talented in art, but he participated in many works but has been tepid
In July 1970, Tongali was born into an ordinary family in Hefei, Anhui Province.
My father was a soldier when he was young, and after he retired from the army, he became a people's policeman.
The mother is an ordinary housewife who is responsible for caring for her daughter Tongari at home.
Since childhood, the father has been very strict with his daughter Tongari's tutoring, and it can even be said that it is a bit old-fashioned.
Like other parents in ordinary families, Tongari's couple also hopes that their daughter can have a good future.
When Tongari was 9 years old, her parents sent her to a professional dance training institution to learn dance.
At that time, the teacher of the dance class found that Tongari had a very high talent for dance,
She suggested to her parents that Tongari be sent to a professional gymnastics school to learn gymnastics.
I have to say that this teacher's vision of people is very accurate, Tongari has only studied gymnastics in the provincial sports committee for a few years,
He won two gymnastics gold medals at the Anhui Provincial Youth Games.
And with her excellent performance in this games, Tongari won the title of "excellent athlete".
When she graduated from high school, Tong jiali was successfully admitted to the Anhui Provincial Academy of Arts with excellent results and studied dance.
Because she began practicing dance from an early age, Tongari has a very good dance foundation,
Coupled with several years of in-depth research in the Art Academy, Tongari's dance skills have reached the point of pure fire.
After successfully graduating from Anhui Provincial Art College,
Tongari went straight into the provincial song and dance troupe because of her excellent dancing ability.
Later, because of her beautiful appearance, Tongali was hired as a special actor by Anhui Provincial Television.
And on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, Tongari often serves as the lead dancer.
With several years of work experience, Tongari began to be dissatisfied with her current dance level,
If you want to take on a more important job, you must improve your dance skills.
Therefore, she wants to continue her studies and learn dance.
Strengthening this determination, Tongari immediately enrolled in the classical dance major of the Beijing Dance Academy.
After studying at the Beijing Dance Academy for several years, after successfully graduating,
Tongari entered the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe with her excellent dancing ability.
Compared with the Anhui Provincial Dance Troupe where Tongari worked before, the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe is much stronger.
It is a place where many excellent dancers in China want to enter.
Here, Tongari gave full play to her dance expertise,
She often represents the song and dance troupe in major performances at home and abroad,
Performed many classical Chinese folk dances, such as "Terracotta Warriors", "Tang Guifei" and so on.
But the greater the ability, the greater the pressure, as the number of performances increases,
Tongari gradually realized a problem,
Dancers eat youth, people will grow old, even if they dance well, they can't dance for a lifetime.
So at this time, Tongari made another big decision, she wanted to start participating in TV series and movies.
In 1999, Tongari was favored by the director of "Dragon Phoenix Wisdom Fighting Dragon Fang" with her beautiful appearance.
Appeared in the play as a noble lady who later became a beggar.
In 2000, Tongali was invited to star in the TV series "Kangxi Dynasty" in the Qinglou woman Ziyun.
Ziyun in the play is originally an undercover killer, but in the process of contact with the Kangxi Emperor, he fell in love with him.
Finally, in order to save his sweetheart, the Kangxi Emperor, Ziyun drank the poison himself.
Later, Tongari also starred in many film and television dramas, but did not know how,
Tongari is just tepid, which makes her very anxious to seek a new way out.
Second, he fell in love with the young director Shen Dong at first sight
In 1994, 18-year-old Tongari came to the film studio for an interview.
And Shen Dong, a well-known director of the Bayi Film Studio at that time, also happened to be there.
There, he filmed the MV for singer Su Hong for her upcoming new song.
At that time, Shen Dong, who was busy, raised his eyes and saw the beautiful and elegant Tongari in the crowd.
And fell in love with her at first sight.
Later, in order to pursue Tong Jiali, Shen Dong repeatedly used the convenience of his position to create opportunities for himself.
And Tongari admired his talent before she knew Shen Dong.
Therefore, under the fierce attack of Shen Dong, Tongari soon fell.
On the day that Tongari agreed to Shen Dong's confession, Shen Dong sent a latest ventilator to Tongari.
And the two also agreed on a transmission code that belonged only to the two,
For example, sending 777 means I love you, and sending 888 means I miss you.
Later, the two became long-distance friends because of work, and they often used pagers to convey each other's thoughts.
Once, Shen Dong sent Tongari back to school by car,
Shen Dong saw that there were just small vendors selling fruit on the side of the road, and knew that Tongari liked to eat oranges very much.
So he went to the vendor and bought a large bag of oranges.
Shen Dong bought the oranges and did not give them to Tongari, and the train that Tongari was riding on started.
Therefore, Shen Dong had to throw a whole bag of oranges directly to Tongari,
But Tongari did not catch the car because the car started, and the orange rolled down to the ground.
Many were also trampled by passengers who were in a hurry to catch the car, and Shen Dong had to quickly pick up a few intact oranges.
Trotting to Tongari in the car.
Or it is precisely because of these small actions of Shen Dong that Tongari feels that Shen Dong can marry this person.
Shen Dong and Tong Jiali were in love, so not long after falling in love, the two registered for marriage.
After marriage, the life of the two is still comfortable and sweet as ever,
But because both are still young and have their own careers to be busy, they are not in a hurry to have children.
Third, shoot a large-scale human body photo album and appear on the hot search list with the stars
After getting married, with the help of her husband Shen Dong, Tongari's acting career began to improve.
But she felt that this was not enough, she wanted to become popular quickly, after all, her age was there.
In the summer of 2001, Tongari's friends watched her worry about her career.
He suggested to her, "You're so good-looking, why don't you become a model?" ”
At that time, Tongari seriously thought about her friend's suggestion and felt that her friend was right.
Trying to be a model might be a good way out.
Just when Tongari was worried about having no way to become a model, a partner of a lingerie brand found Tongari.
When shooting the underwear advertisement, the staff and photographers next to her constantly praised Tongari's good figure.
And asked her if she would like to make another photo album?
Because this time the underwear advertising shooting was very smooth,
Tongari didn't think much of it and agreed to shoot the photo album.
After shooting the photo album, there is a website after seeing Tongari's photo album,
The praise is very beautiful, very artistic, they want to stay,
In the future, if there is an art magazine that wants it, you can recommend it to them.
Tongari thought that if she could go to an art magazine, it would be a good opportunity.
Tongaree did not hesitate any longer and signed a contract with the other party.
But it wasn't long before the site found new business opportunities.
They want to imitate this set of pictures of Tongari like those actresses in Hong Kong and Taiwan.
Printed out and then published on the market. After Tongari knew that the other party was going to publish her photo collection,
She was very flustered, she did not know which photos the other party was going to print and publish,
The contract had also been signed, and it was obviously too late to regret it.
Tongari, who had no choice, asked her friend for advice, and the friend suggested her,
It is better to turn passive into active, and publish a group of photo albums by yourself.
Tongaree carefully considered her friend's suggestion and felt that it was feasible.
Then Tongari went to the People's Fine Arts Publishing House, and before shooting the photo album,
Tong jiali told her husband Shen Dong about this matter, and Shen Dong heard that his wife wanted to shoot this kind of photo album.
Immediately stated his position, and resolutely disagreed.
But after a dispute between the two sides, Shen Dong still chose to compromise with Tong Jiali.
But it was this compromise that not only completely changed Tongari's life,
It also had a lot of impact on the marriage of the two.
In September 2002, a pamphlet entitled "Tongari Body Art Photo" was launched.
Immediately snatched up, fifteen thousand copies were sold wildly,
With this photo album, Tongari has spread all over China.
She has become the dream goddess of countless Chinese otaku.
How hot was Tongari at that time? Not only with the stars on the internet hot search list of the year,
Even Lin Chiling, who has been called "Taiwan's first beauty" by countless people, is not as hot as her.
But because of this large-scale attempt, Tongari has received unprecedented criticism,
Her previous conservative image of Wen Jing completely collapsed, no matter where she went,
Tongari was always pointed out by others.
Fourth, the act of dedicating himself to art was scolded by his father
At the end of December 2002, Tongari held a personal signing party in Wangfujing, Beijing.
At that time, major newspapers were discussing the coverage of Tongari.
His father, who was far away in Anhui, was shocked when he saw the news of "Tongari Body Art Photo" published in the newspaper.
But she didn't believe it was his daughter, just someone with the same name as his daughter.
In order to test his own idea, the father immediately called his daughter Tongali in Beijing,
Ask if the newspaper is just a girl with the same name and surname as her.
Face the father asked, Tongari did not dare to speak, and then the father asked Tongari again,
Who is in the newspaper? Tongari on the phone chose silence,
The father faced the silent daughter, and he also had a number in his heart,
He yelled at his daughter Tongari on the other end of the phone, "Don't call me Dad in the future."
"With a daughter like you, I don't know how to go out and meet people." After saying that, I hung up the phone.
The father really did not expect that his daughter was so well-behaved and sensible,
It is possible to do such a "bad manners" thing.
When Tongali went to Beijing to study dance, the father hoped that his daughter could return to Anhui after completing her studies.
But unexpectedly, the daughter chose to stay in Beijing to develop and entered the entertainment circle.
The entertainment industry is a big dye vat, and now my daughter has actually taken such a large-scale photo,
It was a disappointment to him.
Sometimes When Tongari's parents go out to buy vegetables, they can hear the neighbors talking about their family.
This made the father even more disappointed and angry with his daughter Tongari.
The relationship between father and daughter really lasted for half a year,
It was not until his old friend enlightened him later that he gradually forgave his daughter Tongari.
Fifth, divorced from her husband Shen Dong, bluntly said that there is no reason
After Tongari published a photo album that exploded, her husband Shen Dong also began to drift away from her.
In March 2008, Tongali and Shen Dong ended their marriage.
When the reporter interviewed Shen Dong's colleague,
Colleagues said that the divorce between the two is actually related to the photo album.
When Tong gari wanted to shoot a body photo album, Shen Dong did not support it.
But this is his wife's dream, Shen Dong can only choose to respect,
At that time, the influence of Tongari photo albums was very large, and almost many men collected Tongari's photo albums.
At the same time, Shen Dong's side also knew about his wife's shooting of the photo album.
But even in this case, Shen Dong is still unwilling to divorce Tongari,
At that time, it was Tongari's own divorce, and Shen Dong was unwilling.
And that will be Shen Dong's unit is also many times to mediate,
However, Tongari's determination to divorce is very large, and Shen Dong has no choice but to agree to divorce.
The two have been busy with their respective work since marriage, and have no time to have children.
However, it is also good that there is no child's bondage, and the two are quite away.
In 2011, Tongari responded to her divorce from Shen Dong on her social platform.
He said that the divorce between the two had nothing to do with his own photo album.
Now the two are still friends, and they can only say that they have nothing to do with Shen Dong.
When the director Shen Dong was asked about the reason for the divorce with Tongari,
It is also just to emphasize that leaving is leaving, and I am not willing to explain more.
"Born like a one-way road against the road, where there are years to turn back"
Later, in an interview, the host asked Tonga, "Do you regret filming the human body photo album in the first place?" ”
Tongari did not hesitate to return and said, "I have regretted it countless times, but now I do not regret it. ”
"If I were given another chance, I would still choose to shoot."
Now 45 years old, Tongari is still single and living freely
At the beginning, the people's incomprehension and accusations, Tongari may have long been relieved
As she herself put it, "Life has been stormy, and there is no need to mention the past."
Looking ahead is the best option