Text: Wind chimes blow
Figure: Network
Life is like a boat on the sea, it is not smooth sailing, and there will always be difficulties of one kind or another.
In the face of difficulties, everyone can decide their own attitude and future.
It doesn't matter what environment you are in, what matters is that you can give in and you can become stronger.
In the constellation, clinging to the old things, the self-contained constellation belongs to Cancer.
First, lack of self-confidence, accustomed to defense.
Cancer lacks self-confidence, prefers to stay in safe and comfortable places, is used to being defensive, and does not like to take the initiative.
Cancer is obsessed with his own way of thinking, likes to knock on the side, twist and turn, and explore the end. But still follow the principles of experience and follow the rules.
Cancer looks tough on the outside, but in fact, it is soft and wet on the inside, often after yelling and angry, the mood collapses, and the look becomes very lonely.
Cancer's conservative and passive often loses some life opportunities, waiting for awakening, but losing behind those who are active.
Second, Cancer is nostalgic and does not like to change.
Cancer clings to the old stuff, the old order. Whatever you fiddle with yourself, you don't like others to change, and your own things don't like others to use. At the same time, Cancer also hopes that others will follow his customary practices and follow them.
Cancer is usually a gentle personality, but when it comes to his own problems, he will stick to his own ideas, burst out of his temper, and give people a suffocating control of the arrogance.
Cancer has a strong possessiveness in the heart, and sometimes the emotional outbursts also touch this point, and the heart will struggle.
Third, it is better to change the environment than to change yourself.
When I was young, people wanted to change the world, and when they grew up, they gradually matured and wisely, only to find that the world could not be changed.
Sometimes, when we can't change the environment and the other party, it is better to change ourselves.
Cancer:
Staying in your comfort zone is really comfortable, but staying there will narrow your horizons, change your values, and if you can summon up the courage to take a step forward, you may be able to take more steps and enter another wonderful world.
Like the old things, like the old feelings, it is also very good, but do not over-immerse in it, sometimes innovate on the old, accept the opinions of others, calm their fierce emotions, and perhaps have a better mood.
The ancient Greek philosopher Plato told his disciples that he could move mountains, so the disciples asked for advice, and he smiled and said, "It's very simple, if the mountains don't come, I'll go over."
Life is the same, if you don't come, I will pass!
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