Deng Chao and Sun Li have two children, brother and so on and sister Xiaohua, both children, coupled with superior family conditions, so that others are very envious.
But not long ago, Sun Li posted a photo that made netizens drop their jaws and ridiculed: "It turns out that there is no difference between my life and that of a star!" ”
In the caption, I learned that Sun Li got the second-hand clothes of her friend's daughter, which was also unanimously praised by everyone: although the conditions are superior, there is no extravagance and waste, this practice is worth learning.
There are also many netizens who are worried: will her sister Xiaohua be worn by others because of her clothes, which will have a bad impact on her psychology?
What everyone did not expect was that Xiaohua not only did not dislike it, but liked and was very satisfied with the clothes, and planned which pieces to wear after keeping. Good family education is vividly reflected.
The reaction of the younger sister Xiaohua makes people can't help but sigh: the quality of the child's family education has a great relationship with the parents.
In fact, Sun Li often prepares old clothes for children, and these clothes are not damaged, clean and hygienic.
Sun Li is so diligent and thrifty, and the environmental protection practice also has a positive impact on children on weekdays, so that they can develop good habits from an early age.
Seeing this, I believe that everyone and I have the same feeling: the children who are truly "rich" are really not simple!
"Poor support" and "rich support" are often discussed topics, in fact, the real wealth does not only refer to material satisfaction, but also to let the child's inner cultivation.
So as a parent, what should we do to truly "enrich" our children?
accompany
Children grow up in the company of their parents and will be more sunny and cheerful.
Especially before the age of six, children are very willing to share what they have seen and heard in a day with their parents, and many parents can't listen because of busy work and other reasons, and they miss many important moments of their children, resulting in children's enthusiasm for their parents slowly fading, accustomed to life without their parents.
Therefore, parents should often take time to accompany their children and give them spiritual comfort.
Lead by example
Parents are the child's first teacher, and the child's development is closely related to the parents' usual words and deeds.
When children are young, many things cannot make their own judgments, and parents need to make choices for them or guide them.
At the same time, strict parents will also influence their children subtly.
Reduce negative emotions
Many parents are usually busy and stressed, and they will feel irritable when they encounter difficulties, and some parents will bring negative emotions to their children at this time. Children grow up in such an environment, and they will gradually become inferior and unconfident. On the contrary, children grow up in an optimistic, positive environment and will become more and more sunny.