I don't know where I saw the recommendation of this movie. It is about the recommended words that say that it is suitable for middle-aged people to see.
I watched it!
No suspense, no dog blood, no passion. It's a very pure middle-aged life. Everyone inside deserves sympathy, and everyone inside can see their own shadow.
The regret of growing up, the tension of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the difficulty of marriage, the difficulty after divorce, in short, the faint plot makes you feel that life is full of problems, and everyone experiences the pain of loss in the process of pursuing happiness.
The male protagonist, Toshiichi Takamiya, is a coach driver who graduated from a prestigious university and worked in Tokyo for 8 years, then returned to his hometown of Niigata and has been driving long-distance buses. Divorced for 20 years, the eldest son has graduated from a master's degree, worked in Tokyo for a year, resigned because of skin allergies, and returned to niigata's hometown, the younger daughter is a fan of anime characters, is about to get married, and her own things are rarely mentioned with her father. Seeing each other 20 years later, the ex-wife returned from Tokyo to niigata's hometown to deal with the old father's affairs, and now, the ex-wife's life is a mess: remarriage has an 8-year-old child, and the remarried husband is looking for Xiao San, who ignores the family, the only father is hospitalized, he has to work, take care of the children, but also take care of his old father, Tokyo Niigata ran at both ends.....
Seeing her ex-husband, getting along for three more months, and always seeing her ex-husband's warm smile, these make this woman who has reached menopause carefully recall what she has done in her life, and want to return to her ex-husband's side, but she can't go back. The male protagonist Takamiya Did not resent his ex-wife, 20 years later, he finally figured out why his wife divorced, his mother is not a good person to get along with, but he can not personally understand the ex-wife's mood at that time. Fortunately, Takamiya Ishi is a kind and warm person, putting aside his previous grievances, properly taking care of his ex-wife's father to the hospital, family travel, teaching his two children to be filial to Grandpa and not to resent his mother. Later, when her daughter got engaged and met her difficult mother-in-law, she finally knew how much her mother had suffered at that time, understood her mother's choice, and forgave her mother. My son's skin allergies are also good, and he wants to work in India.
Think about it, the ex-wife is also very pitiful, married at a very young age, had two children, the husband works, the mother-in-law always picks her own thorns, the children know from a young age that their mother and grandmother quarrel, always crying, but when they see their father, they pretend to be happy. All these contradictions, but the husband is completely unaware, the wife filed for divorce, the husband did not deal with all these contradictions, but agreed to divorce. Although, the days went on.
It's just that everyone is hurt!
At the end of the story, the ex-wife takes her father back to Live in Tokyo, and Takamiya Toshi really understands the importance of his girlfriend, who is 10 years younger, and goes to find her again. In short, after watching this film, it is very sad, a person's life choice, there is no way back to go.
The male protagonist is actually not very handsome, and he is real like a random acquaintance around him. But it's the kind of person I want to rely on! There are two scenes that make me sigh the most, one is that his ex-wife holds him, so he needs such a lover, but the two hug him tightly and can't go back to the past; one is that the male protagonist goes to find the little girlfriend and finds that the girlfriend has moved, he is crying alone in the car, and he can't help himself, his only fragile display.
The first scene, I also want to be hugged like a person like him, thinking that in my life, there has never been a person who can give me such a solid dependence, never! The second scene, I am too familiar with, because I often collapse so quietly, I want to hug him! Tell him: We're all the same! Most middle-aged people are like this!
In fact, I am the same as the heroine. I divorced without hesitation, and now I am not living better, but I have no children. I also often miss the past, he is positive, enthusiastic and diligent, and can communicate with me culturally! The current one doesn't even want to mention a word.
That's life.
