Lin Qingxuan said: "Third-rate makeup is makeup on the face, second-rate makeup is spiritual makeup, and first-class makeup is the makeup of life." Although Xiaobian does not advocate that everyone divides the genre so clearly, and is skeptical about the shaping of this chain of contempt, it is an excellent choice to transform life's makeup through reading.
The Art of Love
by Erich Fromm
Love is complex, so it needs to be learned. Of course, the love mentioned here does not only refer to love, but also includes all love.
We are born to deal with problems related to love, and a lot of knowledge about love comes directly from our parents. Of course, the love of parents often causes various problems.
Intimacy
By Roland Miller
Human beings have now "been able" to enter the heavens and the earth, and their understanding of themselves has become more and more profound. Regarding the matter of love, we have also found some scientific truths that are universally applicable.
As a science book of love, this book clarifies many misconceptions for us. For example, intimacy is essential for health, and lonely people are not only susceptible to illness, but also at risk of early death.
Unequal Married Life
Naomi R. Cahn et al
Is there an equal married life in the world? This is bound to be a difficult problem. Although the concept of equality is simple, it can correspond to all aspects of life, and if you examine every detail, then equality is probably far away.
This book discusses inequality in married life in the United States, and through expert research, we can see the profound social changes behind inequality.
"Chinese Leftover Women"
By Rosanna Lake
Now many women are "left behind" in fact, it is purely free choice.
This book examines the awkward position of women in today. Because of social progress and the one-child policy, women have received a very good education and finally have the ability to live for themselves; on the other hand, because of backward ideas and traditional concepts, women are required to return to their families, teach their husbands and children, and work hard to inherit the "throne".
How do I choose? It's not just a women's problem, it's a problem that the country and society as a whole need to face.
"Jane Eyre"
by Charlotte Brontë
"If I love you, I am by no means like the climbing Ling Xiaohua, borrowing your tall branches to show off myself..." Jane Ai is such a girl, she did not think about whose high branches to show off herself, but worked hard and became a role model for many people.
Of course, the difference between fiction and reality is that Jane Ai's blessings fall from the sky, and the inheritance of property makes her become a female version of Si Cong in seconds, which is something that ordinary people can't imitate no matter how hard we try, but jane Ai's growth has given many women the direction of their efforts.
The Philosophy of Life
By Jules Evans
When life is lost, what we need may not be a bowl of chicken soup, but a philosophy that can really make the soul grow. Good philosophical thoughts are like doctors of the mind, not only healing the wounds of the heart, but also allowing our minds to grow.
This book is a great introduction to philosophy, and under the leadership of the philosopher Jules Evans, the ideas of 12 wise men were interpreted one by one. If we keep reading, our lives will be completely changed.
"One Step Forward"
by Cheryl Sandberg
One step forward, it sounds simple, it's hard to do. Most people in the workplace struggle with a passing line of 60 points, and if you can push yourself to take a step forward and reach more than 80 points, then you will find the loneliness of 100,000 monthly income.
As the chief operating officer of Facebook, she has also experienced confused moments in her life, passed the civil service examination, and had a brief marriage through blind dates, but then she took a step forward and worked hard to become Zuckerberg's right hand. As a rich man, she did lose a lot, such as troubles.
"Wrong" Behavior
By Richard Seiler
When it comes to spending money, everyone has a lot of wrong behavior. So what? At least chopping hands is happy. From this perspective, Richard Thaler found a loophole in traditional economics and won the 2017 Nobel Prize in Economics by filling it.
This book analyzes why normal people are confused from the perspective of psychological accounts, self-control, fairness issues and financial markets, ordinary people can read the operational logic behind their own happiness of being fooled, and professionals are certainly more able to get more things to consider when formulating policies.
How to Change Everything
By Damian Hughesti
Camus once said, "All great thoughts and actions have an insignificant beginning." "Although it is difficult for us as ordinary people to have great ideas, if we want to achieve something, we often need to start with change.
Only by changing yourself can you change the environment and trigger a series of chain reactions. But if you want to cause a good chain reaction, you need to use a regular, comprehensive, systematic solution, and the author of this book provides us with a "ten-step method".