preface:
"Love looks romantic and pure, but in the end reality is cruel.
Because he can't stand the cooking of oil, salt and vinegar. "---- Zhang Ailing."
Many couples will find that after more than ten years of getting along, the relationship between each other becomes more and more delicate,
These changes can be seen in some signs,
As the saying goes: a thousand years of repair to cross the boat, a hundred years to repair a common sleep.
Two people meet in the vast sea of people, which is not an easy task.
To become a husband and wife, we should cherish each other even more.
But since there is a fate, it means that there may be a day when the fate will end,
And in many cases, many things have been buried before,
It's just that we don't know it yet, and the following signs will be there after the fate between husband and wife is exhausted.
It is useless to be reluctant, so I hope that everyone can cherish their other half.
Two people together will never be as sweet as when they are in love, and they will encounter difficult and tricky things.
After entering the marriage hall, the test of the couple is the real beginning.
Some people can withstand this pressure to live better and better,
There are also many people who can't bear this feeling, so the social rate is getting higher and higher nowadays.
When married life becomes a torment for each other, such feelings become a shackle.
Every time I think of each other, it is not the original beauty. Even if both parties still have love for each other,
Their fate is also coming to an end, let's take a look at what signs will be when the fate between husband and wife is exhausted.
1. The economy is clear
After marriage between husband and wife, if the income of two people is kept separately, it will be quarreled and suspected in the future.
Most couples are financially reckless, except for a fixed car loan every month.
The rest of the money is generally very clear, and the husband and wife can discuss together to decide that it must be a good thing.
If two people do not tell each other the truth financially, then for a long time two people will have a gap,
In my opinion, economic changes can see the changes in the relationship between two people.
If the money is very clearly divided, it is the distance of not loving.
2. Extramarital affairs
The speed of social development is getting faster and faster, and the temptation around us is also getting bigger and bigger.
There are many people who can't keep their hearts so they will have the idea of extramarital affairs.
Husbands and wives can tolerate each other's indifference and disregard, but they must not tolerate each other's betrayal.
At this time, the principle between each other is also the bottom line.
No matter how good the relationship between two people is, once the extramarital affair is touched, the marriage will break down.
After all, we all know a truth, there are only 0 times and countless times of cheating.
3. There is no common language
Many couples have a lot of common language together at the beginning, but after a while together, they don't bother to talk to each other.
After repeated indifference, the enthusiasm between each other will be consumed.
Couples for more than ten years slowly feel that each other is very strange, so that the feelings of two people will gradually drift apart.
In this way, the existence or non-existence of marriage is not important to them for a long time, there is no other party in their hearts, and marriage is like losing a soul.
Only two people knew the feeling of an empty shell.
4. Ignore the other person's discomfort
Husband and wife will quarrel over some trivial matters,
Some couples have good feelings and husbands will care about their wives' feelings.
But many couples are very good at first, and slowly because of small quarrels will ignore each other's feelings,
However, when the other person begins to ignore your feelings and no longer actively face life with you, it means that you are not so important anymore.
At this time, men have not put you in their hearts, so they will ignore your feelings,
It is said that recognizing a person can start with whether the other person has ignored your feelings.
Conclusion:
In fact, if the husband and wife do not care about each other's feelings and thoughts, slowly there is no topic for each other, which means that a relationship has come to an end.
Marriage is a matter between two people, good and bad are also produced and accepted by two people.
I hope that everyone can be kind to their feelings and marriage, and do not miss the person they love because of a momentary willfulness.
When the dependent arising in life, remember to firmly grasp it, and when the fate is extinguished, it will conform to the will,
No matter what, we must follow our own hearts, this life is for ourselves, do not be too reluctant,
Some feelings can not be forced to stop holding on, otherwise they will make themselves very tired.
It is not easy for men and women to be good, and if you want to make your feelings better, you must learn to understand and respect each other.
Because a marriage with love and tolerance will last long, and good days will come to us.
END.
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Between husband and wife, what are the "signs" of fate?
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