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Tang Ruoxin learns original works, and those who violate them will be investigated
Some people say that the feelings between husband and wife are managed, which shows that the feelings between husband and wife will get better and better than the real heartbeat and know how to manage.
If you do not manage feelings, it is often easy to encounter the itch of seven years, if you do not know how to manage, it will make the feelings of husband and wife gradually wear out in trivial matters.
Good feelings must be talked about, so how do we manage feelings, we must first learn to show love correctly, correctly express feelings, the more we know how to show love correctly, the feelings between each other will be better and better.
Learn to be grateful and relive the bits and pieces of acquaintance
Couples often relive bits and pieces between each other. Choosing a quiet day to look back on the days they have walked with each other will make the feelings continue to ferment. Marriages with a sense of ceremony are more flavorful.
People's feelings need to be revisited in order to be rejuvenated with new vitality and passion. The most important thing between husband and wife is the need to have a good sense of ceremony.
Many people may think that the sense of ceremony is somewhat contrived, but in fact, the sense of ceremony is to make the ordinary life have some fun, to create sparks and passions for our married life.
In the corresponding days, we can recall more of the journey we have traveled, let the other party see the process of your growth with him, and see that it is not easy for you to go through ups and downs with each other.
Good couples know how to choose a quiet time, and everyone slows down together to feel the common growth that the years have brought you.
The feelings between husband and wife also need to master a good rhythm, which comes from the fact that we know how to often appreciate the common company.
If there is no sense of ceremony, the feelings between husband and wife will slowly fade, and having a sense of ceremony is a re-fermentation of feelings, rekindling the feelings between husband and wife, so that couples have a full sense of happiness.
I know a couple who are very fond of gratitude, and every marriage anniversary, they will be together to express their gratitude to each other, recall what the other party has done to themselves, thank each other for their efforts, and every time the two parties go through this link, the eyes between the husband and wife are full of tenderness and sweetness.
Gratitude is not a form, but a kind of heartfelt to see each other's companionship and pay for so many years, because of seeing, so understand, because understand, so compassion, husband and wife feelings through the sense of ritual edification, will become more firm, easier to resist the temptation of the outside.
Know how to encourage worship and appreciate lovers
Everyone has their own vulnerability, life is actually not easy, and know how to encourage and worship the lover, in order to stimulate each other's fighting spirit and courage, so that the other half becomes better and better, but also let each other's hearts connect together.
Good feelings are all held out, whether it is men or women, they are very afraid of praising people, in fact, good feelings need to be praised.
Behind the praise is a kind of heartfelt appreciation of one's lover and appreciation of one's other half. Many people are afraid that our own appreciation will make the husband have a sense of expansion, in fact, appreciating the lover is the best way to stimulate the potential of the lover, and it can deeply stick to the lover's heart.
In the bones, everyone is eager to be appreciated and recognized, if we can know how to praise our lovers in the relationship between husband and wife, we can often mobilize the enthusiasm of our husbands.
Cai Shaofen is known as the person who loves to praise her husband the most, and every time her husband goes, she can't help but say, husband you are so handsome, you are so powerful.
The reason why Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen have become a model couple in the entertainment industry is inseparable from Cai Shaofen's praise and support, a man, especially in the case of lack of confidence, give men a little more applause and support, often let them have more courage to create better conditions.
Don't be afraid to exaggerate your lover, the light in your eyes can give the lover the greatest strength, but also make the lover and your heart closely connected.
Express yourself positively and let your loved one see your needs
Husband and wife need to express themselves, and only by expressing themselves can they achieve the collision of hearts and the continuous sublimation of feelings. While expressing themselves, inviting their lovers to participate in marriage construction, the feelings of husband and wife will be as stable as Taishan.
How to show love correctly, you also need to express your heart. Showing love correctly is never a matter of saying I love you. Expressing love correctly also includes expressing oneself, and it is important to express one's needs.
The reason why people need to communicate is because two people are completely different people, if in the relationship, we do not know how to express ourselves, the lover's understanding of us is limited.
Active self-expression can be expressed from personal growth experiences, including work experiences, and even what you think and think in life.
Many people often say that they don't know what to say to their lovers, and if we don't know how to express ourselves, we will lack common intersection.
Only by actively expressing yourself and telling your lover what you need can you make your lover achieve more intersection. Expressing oneself is never self-talk, but expressing one's feelings, expressing one's own thoughts, expressing one's needs.
Husband and wife need to achieve deeper feelings, more importantly, we need to open the heart, if we do not know how to open the heart, the feelings between husband and wife can not flow normally.
Couples do not need to dress up, learn to actively express themselves, more from our courage to present their true inner world to another person to see, more know how to expose their true thoughts to the lover, we also need to make our own requests.
Without the collision and communication of hearts, the lover may not really understand you. Active self-expression is actually an advanced way to show love, which is to tell the other party about your world, but also to let the other party really understand you.
Usually, you can express yourself more, whether it is your own efforts, or your views on home, we need to actively express it, only by releasing ourselves, can we make the feelings of both sides become better and better.
Learning to show love is never as simple as saying I love you. Learning to show love is to establish an intimate connection with the lover in life, and let the other party become each other's biggest supporter, only in this way can the feelings of both parties become stronger and firmer in the ups and downs.
Today's topic: How do you think it is appropriate to show love, welcome to discuss and communicate.