35-year-old Chloe's world collapsed overnight, her boyfriend who had been in love for many years cheated on others, and Chloe, who was out of control, found that with the disappearance of love, friendship and affection became precarious. After many failed attempts to get herself out of the chaotic world in front of her, she announced to the world that she would marry herself and learn to love herself well, to love herself who was in a mess and had broken feelings.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >why all people are so obsessed with love, all movie songs and books are about love, and love for yourself should be equally important. </h1>
Chloe is a blogger, when she posted on social platforms that she was going to marry herself, set off a hurricane of topics about marriage, love, and self-growth, like wildfire, spread across the internet overnight, some people did not understand her, sarcastically insulted her, some people supported her, expecting to see her marry herself, her sister asked her incomprehensibly: Why can't you live your single life quietly like everyone else?
Chloe thought that she and her boyfriend Ant could go to marriage, she had begun to plan and buy a house with her boyfriend, build her own warm home, did not expect to return to her boyfriend's apartment from the forest to participate in the company team building, the beloved puppy inadvertently tore the cruel truth to her, she cleaned up the puppy feces, found a piece of women's thong, it was not her underwear! After not seeing each other for many days, her boyfriend refused to make love to her, and she was sensitive to realizing that her boyfriend had slept with other women!
Like a thunderous Chloe seeking the truth from her boyfriend, Ant reluctantly admits the fact that he cheated on others. Chloe was in pain, and her world collapsed.
Friends persuade her to dispel the shadow of Ant through a new love affair, Chloe begins to make friends on the Internet, and finally a man slowly enters her heart, she thinks their feelings can be on the right track, but finds that this man is a polyamorous, he has a girlfriend, he and his girlfriend agreed to be free to make other lovers, Chloe, but it is a supplement to his relationship, he even made more absurd demands, he, his girlfriend, Chloe together for a night of revelry!
Chloe and her friend, who have once again suffered emotional trauma, are drunk, and when the drunkenness strikes, she thinks that she must love herself, give herself a commitment, and love herself well! She declared to the world that I am my true destiny, that I need to love myself, give myself enough respect, and marry myself!
Her articles set the world on fire, and her own world began to burn.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > don't teach me a lesson in marriage, Dad, you screwed up your marriage. </h1>
Chloe's parents had parted ways when she was a few years old, and the reason for the breakup was that her father had cheated on her, Chloe's mother chose celibacy after another failed marriage, and the marriage between his father and his current wife was also very different, and the two had long been separated.
After the father learned of Chloe's wedding plan, from the initial anger, to slowly accept and understand, began to join the wedding preparations. He hoped that his daughter would pass through such a ceremony and walk towards a perfect self.
Mom was initially filled with self-blame, blaming herself for being unladylike and not giving Chloe a good example so that she stopped believing in marriage. After participating in a public welfare event with Chloe, she began to think about her life and began to think about how to make the rest of her life no longer regret.
Chloe's sister Emma, full of incomprehension and disdain for Chloe's behavior, she thinks that marrying herself is an extremely stupid thing, when Chloe is preparing for the wedding, the people around her have thought and examined their marriage, Emma's husband also began to reflect on her and Emma's stagnant marriage, Emma looked at Chloe, although she had experienced blows, she still pursued her true life relentlessly, she began to look for the long-lost self, the lost in the diaper, The scolding of children, the self lost in the trivialities of housework.
In the process of reading this book, I thought of more and more older unmarried women who are in this world, subjected to too many inquiring eyes, as if they were single because of their own mistakes. Many people pursue the empty shell of marriage, in order to maintain the essence of the empty marriage, they do not hesitate to lose themselves, completely lose their true love for life, but still hold the shaky mask of the marriage, laughing at those who are single and unmarried.
Chloe, who announced her marriage to herself, thus triggered a storm in people's hearts, triggering extensive thinking about self-love, self-improvement, marriage, and family.
The author of the book Isufi. Tanner is the prototype of the book's protagonist, Chloe, who in 2015 sparked an incident that swept the British Internet, took to the streets, announced her marriage, and accepted everyone's curiosity, doubts and blessings.
This is a very readable book, open the book and fall into Chloe's world, with her to experience various dog blood events, truly experience her joys and sorrows. The book covers various fields of friendship, family affection, and love. The deceitfulness of me, the workplace fight with the knife in the laughter, the absurdity and ridiculousness of various negative characters, and the ups and downs of the dramatic plot all make people unbearable to release the volume and cover up the contemplation.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > love yourself is as important as loving others, self-love is the basis of all love blossoming, and love will come in many unexpected forms</h1>
Chloe's relatives and friends, in the process of chasing their favorite self with her, someone gave up the marriage that had long died, broke the shell of the failed marriage, and let himself and the people around him have a way to live, to pursue their true happiness.
Some people reflect on their own shortcomings, begin to mend the looming cracks in marriage, look for the self lost in the conflict of married life, find the person who loves life, and strip away the increasingly cold and violent self.
That fifty-year-old self-driving trip Su Min, is such a pursuit of the real self, long-term lack of temperature and love of the marriage, let her gray head, no fun to spend half a life, when the rest of life is not much, when the children have their own family and life, she finally bravely stepped out of the world that imprisoned her life, ushered in the highlight of a lifetime, she never thought that her life, can actually live a glorious, never thought, the real self that was imprisoned for a lifetime, You can break through barriers and happily stretch your whole body and mind in the sun.
Loving yourself is just as important as loving others, self-love is the foundation of all love blossoming, and love will come in many unexpected forms! Such a passage is worth repeating and remembering!
At the end of Chloe's story, Ante brazenly reappears in front of her, telling Chloe that he does not love Chloe's roommate, and that he really loves Chloe, and that only Chloe is the one who understands his true needs, but at this moment, Chloe no longer loves him!
Chloe's love is creeping in!