There is a word in the term psychology called "subconscious", which refers to the part of human mental activity that cannot be recognized or is not recognized, and the subconscious mind of people is a very magical thing, although you can't see or touch it, but it invisibly affects people's thoughts and behaviors. For example, the advertising posters we see on the street, as well as the advertisements before the TV show is broadcast, is an influence of the business on our subconscious. Although once or twice we will not be attracted to these ads, but under the influence of the long time, as long as we need to buy such products, the first reaction in the subconscious mind will be the brands in those advertisements. In addition, we are constantly affected by the subconscious mind in life, even in gender relations. Today I will teach you how to use the subconscious mind to make men fall in love with you unconsciously in the process of interacting with men!
No.1 Mirror action, close the distance
At the beginning of acquaintance with men, using the "mirror principle", doing some of the same actions with men in sync, saying some similar words, you can let him be quickly attracted to you in the subconscious, and have a feeling of "familiarity" and "closeness" to you. For example, you can imitate the tone of the other person in the conversation with the other person, make some gestures like the other party, and if the other person stops to take a sip of something during the conversation, then you can also pick up the cup with him at the same time. If you especially like to eat a dish during the meal, you can also show that you like it too. To know that people like people who are similar to themselves, when you are like his "mirror", always surprisingly in tune with him, you will create a kind of same frequency with his emotions, then he will naturally emerge from the bottom of his heart to you a "sense of intimacy", to you more than ordinary people.
No.2 Body touch, breaking the sense of comfort
Sometimes we encounter such an embarrassing situation, although the other party thinks you are very kind and has a good feeling for you, but after two people have dated several times, the relationship still does not upgrade. You know, if men and women interact for a long time in a more "comfortable" environment, it is difficult to be broken, then it is easy to fall into the "friendship zone" and it is difficult to climb out. So in order to avoid this situation, you must know how to use the "subconscious" to make men realize that the relationship between you is not just friends, but can develop in the direction of male and female interaction.
How do you do this? For example, when you're chatting and walking together, you can intentionally or unintentionally touch the back of your hand with the back of his hand. Most boys are very sensitive to this kind of physical touch, and this kind of "touch" beyond friendship will make them think otherwise. Or, while you're eating, you can suddenly reach out and gently wipe the corners of his mouth and say, "The corners of your mouth are stained with oil." And he looked at him for a few seconds the moment he withdrew his hand. Although, at such a moment, both parties will definitely feel a little embarrassed because of this action, but it is necessary to know that before the men and women interact, this "sense of embarrassment" that breaks the comfort of the relationship is very necessary. Because only when this "feeling of embarrassment" appears and causes the other party to take the initiative to repair the previous comfort, the other party is more likely to be attracted to you.
No.3 Judging the value of the other person's interest in you from the subconscious behavior of the other person
In addition to using the subconscious to stimulate a man's liking for you and make him attracted to you, through the subconscious, you can also judge whether a man is currently interested enough in you. So, if you want to know if a man is interested in you enough, you might as well take a closer look at his body movements and subtle expressions. If when he is with you, whether standing or sitting, his body is always in favor of you; when crossing the street, he always unconsciously raises his arm behind your back and subconsciously protects you; when many people are present, he is always by your side and wants to be closer to you; whenever you speak, he will immediately turn his face to you and listen to you. Then even if this man has not yet expressed himself to you in words and confided in you, then his heart has already planted a different feeling for you. The next thing you need to do is continue to increase your attraction while continuing to test the guy's attitude towards you and guide him to fall in love with you.
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