I am 59 years old and married 59-year-old Wang Qi 10 days ago. Yesterday, I was lying in bed and was about to rest. When Wang Qi walked into the bedroom, I thought he wanted to take a break, so I gave him room

I am 59 years old and married 59-year-old Wang Qi 10 days ago. Yesterday, I was lying in bed and was about to rest. When Wang Qi walked into the bedroom, I thought he wanted to take a break, so I made room for him and said, "Honey, hurry up and sleep!" You have to go to work tomorrow. "Who knows, after he lay down, he made an excessive request of me that made it difficult for me to choose.

My name is Chen Fang. I am 59 years old. My husband died of illness five years ago. We have a son who was married and had children while living abroad. My son is filial piety. He used to take me to live with him, but for a few days I felt unaccustomed, so I went back to my hometown.

My son was always worried that my life alone would be dangerous, so he suggested that I find a wife, but I went to square dancing every day and went shopping with my sisters. Also, I was in good health and could take care of myself completely, so I refused.

But my peaceful life was disrupted by an accident and encounter. That day, I went square dancing normally. But the sisters both said that Aunt Li was gone, because Aunt Li lived alone, and when she left, she did not find that she had been treated in time.

At that time, there was an inexplicable worry in my heart. I was afraid that one day I would leave inexplicably like Aunt Lee, so I thought I'd better find a wife! So at least someone can take care of it!

I'm not happy with a couple of blind dates. First, the family conditions are good, and the pension is 3500 yuan per month. But swear words. Later, I found out that he divorced his ex-wife because of domestic violence, and I chose to break up.

second. There were no bad habits, but the pension was only 1800 yuan per month, which was not enough to support both of us, so I decided decisively.

Just when I was about to give up, I went to the market that day to buy vegetables and bought a lot of things. When I needed to pay, I found that I had forgotten to bring money. In this awkward situation. A man pays for me. I am very grateful to him.

He saw that I had bought a lot of things and suggested that we take them home and talk as we walked. I know. His name is Wang Qi, and he is 59 years old. His wife died 10 years ago and a son got married. He also lives alone now. Our situation is similar.

When I got home, I gave him the money and left the contact information of the other party. I wanted to invite him to the restaurant downstairs to express my gratitude.

But Wang Qi said, "It costs money to go out." Haven't you bought food? I'll show you a few small dishes to eat. "Hearing him say this, I can only promise to let him work in the kitchen.

What I never expected was that Wang Qi's cooking skills were really good, the dishes were delicious and delicious, and they were done quickly. Soon, a large table was prepared, which greatly satisfied people's appetites.

I'm not good at cooking. Always cooks when my husband is away. In the years since my husband left, I have eaten such a rich and delicious meal at home for the first time, which suddenly made me feel at home.

Later, from time to time, I asked Wang Qi about his cooking skills. He joked that I was his apprentice, so we got in more contact and got closer. We often go to the market together to buy something, and when we finish eating, we go home and cook. Over time, the neighbors had a discussion, and I didn't care.

One day, I learned two new dishes from him, and I tasted them together. Wang Qi said: "Look, we are all single, so let's live together! This makes sense. "I was also very excited to hear him say this, because I had a good feeling for him, so I agreed."

In this way, with the consent of the children, we registered for marriage, and after getting married, Wang Qi moved to my house. Yesterday, I was about to rest after taking a shower when he came to my bedroom. I thought he needed a rest, so I hurried to make room for him and said, "Honey, hurry up and sleep!" You have to go to work tomorrow. "

At this time, Wang Qi said, "Wife, I have something to ask you." My son has been renting an apartment since he got married. Now his daughter-in-law is pregnant. They want to buy a house, but still need 300,000 yuan. Can you borrow me so much savings? ”

I was unhappy. We were only married for 10 days. At this point, he offered to borrow money, which made it difficult for me to choose. I said at the time, "I don't really have much money, so I don't get a lot of money at all." I only have a pension of $5,200 a month, and all my savings go to my son. ”

Wang Qi said, "Then don't worry that your son will come out and lend it to me!"

I said, "The money was left by the child's father." I gave it to my son. How can I ask for it? "Besides, if you have a house, give it to your son!" You're going to be with me anyway. "

Wang Qi said, "Otherwise, your house will be bigger." Give it to my son! We moved in. The house is relatively small but just right for two people. ”

I said, "That's not okay! This house was left to the children by my ex-husband, and we also managed it painstakingly, so we could not exchange it. ”

Wang Qi said angrily, "You can't do this or that. Do you think I'm your husband? I see you treat me like an outsider? When we get married, my son should be your son. How can you ignore a stepmother? I also understand that it really doesn't make sense for you to take out 300,000 at once. Look, you can get me 150,000 yuan first. Don't be too much this time! ”

I was stunned by his words. I really admire Wang Qi's perseverance. He really doesn't stop until he reaches his goal! Who gave him the courage?

What do you think I should do?

@Emotional Story Lao Wang has the following views

Thanks to Chen Fang for the story. The above story is provided by netizens. Please read rationally.

In fact, second-marriage families have problems of one kind or another, especially when it comes to money and property. This is because there is no better communication, no better solution. The other party has a lot of premarital property, you are afraid that I have taken your share, I am afraid that you have occupied my share, making the other party feel uncomfortable. This is the lack of tacit understanding and trust between second-married couples, so these are your normal performances. Now you need to consider whether to borrow money, but you have to take precautions.

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