True love can be met but not sought
One of Chekov's novels, "About Love," is about the love of Arexing and Anna Alexeyevna.
When I was a university student in Moscow, I had a life partner, a lovely woman.
Every time I took her in my arms, she wondered how much I would give her a month, and what price a pound of beef would sell for now.
The love of Alesin and Anna Alexeyevna tells us that true love is encounterable and unattainable, not the result of your search.
Even if you find it. You go east and he goes to the right not in one direction, it is a combination of spear and shield. It won't be long- There's a good saying: the loneliness of two people is more terrible than the loneliness of one person.
The suffocating feeling of relative speechlessness is not as open as a person's slow breathing. So, love, is not to be asked for is to meet!
You don't have to look for it, you have to wait
Agree with this statement; don't worry, you go read your book first, and I'll go see my movie.
Someday, we'll be huddled together, reading the same book, watching the same movie.
Mr. Bingxin, a literary titan, once took Tie Ning's hand and asked her: "Do you have a boyfriend?" ”
Tie Ning said embarrassedly, "Not yet, I'm looking for it." Bing Xin clapped her hand,
He said a very Zen word: "Don't look for it, you have to wait." ”
At that time, the 90-year-old bingxin old man, with the wisdom precipitated by her nearly 100-year-old life experience,
Concisely and profoundly explained the mystery of love, and opened up a dose of love for the then 34-year-old Iron Condensation.
There is a classic line that goes like this: "The right person will eventually meet, and the good person will eventually meet, as long as you are good enough." ”
Fun is a very beautiful word, only with people with similar tastes, will not be lonely and lonely, will have the same words to comfort each other.
You will definitely find your lover and you have to wait
Hong Kong's powerful film emperor Zhang Jiahui and his wife Guan Yonghe have gone through a long road of love for 25 years.
Now the sweet love between the two is enviable, but all this is because Guan Yonghe kenyu waited for Zhang Jiahui.
When the two were together, Zhang Jiahui was just a poor boy who ran a dragon suit, and Guan Yonghe was a TVB red flower Dan who was popular all over the country.
At that time, the relationship between the two was not optimistic about everyone, and they all thought that Zhang Jiahui was not worthy of Guan Yonghe, not only was there a huge gap in career, but the family conditions of the two sides were also very different.
But Kwan Yong Ho still chose him and told Zhang Jiahui, who was under great pressure: "Just because you are like this now does not mean that you will be like this in the future." ”
Finally, with the encouragement and support of Guan Yonghe, Zhang Jiahui became a hot movie emperor step by step with his own efforts.
We all know the story of waiting for the rabbit, and the farmer picking up a rabbit by coincidence is a joy in itself.
Sadly, the farmer waited idly for the rabbits and never took care of the fields until they starved to death.
Even the best people need to be self-reliant, and they also need to be good enough to attract equally excellent people.
People who smell the same will always encounter the problem of time sooner or later
Yang Changyi said: People with similar smells will always encounter the problem of time sooner or later.
The law of attraction means that when thoughts are concentrated for something or something, the people, things, and things associated with that thing or thing are drawn together.
As the saying goes, "things are clustered, people are grouped", which confirms this truth, people prefer to get along with their own type of people,
In this group of people who get together, they can more or less find some commonalities, and these commonalities are the attraction between them. ”
The same habits, the same views, the same views on things, will make each other more intimate on the long road of life, and carry each other all the way.
There are many things in this world that can only be done with effort. But in the matter of love, the harder you try, the more you may not get it.
Love itself is a very mysterious thing, when it happens in a second, it is the so-called love at first sight, and sometimes, getting along for more than ten years may not produce a spark.
Everyone encounters love at different times, some early such as Romeo and Juliet, when Juliet fell in love, the age was just fourteen years old.
Some late, such as mathematician Chen Jingrun, who fell in love with 27-year-old Yukun at the age of 45 and stayed together for 16 years, may not have thought of meeting the only love in his life at the age of 45.
A quote from the Tuscan sun (the 2003 American film directed by Audrey Wells) puts it very well: Good things always come. And when it comes late, it is also a surprise.
Give it a thumbs up, for the rest of your life, may we stay with good people and spend the Spring and Autumn together!