Many people say that Sun Lei in "Perfect Partner" is a sexually transformed version of the housewife role, he has been smoothed out under the life of "family cook" for many years, he once won the award in his profession, but for the sake of the family, he chose to give up the opportunity to go abroad for further study, let Chen Shan rush according to his own wishes, resulting in Sun Lei, who is now unable to resist pressure, but is this really the case? In fact, no, when Chen Shan's strength is no longer an excuse, Sun Lei's character shortcomings are at a glance, and a series of events that occurred after Chen Shan's pregnancy chose to rest and Sun Lei exchanged battlefields have proved that Sun Lei is indeed capable but a little irresponsible.
Home cooker?
In fact, we should put a question mark on Sun Lei, the so-called sexual transformation of the "family cook"? Sun Lei is not a full-time father, he has been working for 10 years, he has indeed given up a lot for the family, but he also has a little use of the family as an excuse to escape and just want to be satisfied with the status quo, Chen Shan has not asked Sun Lei to get by himself. It turned out that Sun Lei had an early departure every week, and obviously he had signed up for the custody class to ensure Sun Lei's work, but Sun Lei was not at ease, his new job was not so lost, there were classes in the afternoon after the rainstorm at noon, but Sun Lei ignored the meeting and ran to pick up his daughter in the rain at noon to help his daughter take leave to go home.
Chen Shan's strength
Some people will say again, it is life that smooths out Sun Lei's edges and corners, enterprising, then it can also be said that life has created Chen Shan's strength, in the play once mentioned that when Chen Shan just jumped in arms, Sun Lei did not look at the situation sympathy for others to help others carry the pot to lose 200,000 yuan, at that time the family was still carrying 2 million mortgages, it was Chen Shan who worked overtime for the 200,000 days and nights, which is not counting sun Lei's usual loans that have not been recovered. It can be said that almost all the houses in the family are saved by Chen Shan, Chen Shan has to have a baby and raise a family, just because she carries the weight forward, and Sun Lei is usually an old and good person, with Sun Lei's character Chen Shan does not fight, is not strong?
Family character
It is true that Chen Shan was not forced to be so strong after marriage, because she had a "chicken blood" mother, but Sun Lei also had a doting mother, so he may also be that his original personality is not very good at resisting pressure. When Sun Lei found a high-paid foreign company to work, Chen Shan was happy that he could realize his personal value, and he was happy to change roles for a good job and a good salary, but at this time, there was one person who was not very happy, that is, Sun Lei's mother, and the first reaction was to worry that his son was too hard (daughter-in-law who had worked overtime for 10 years:?). After meeting Sun Lei who was working overtime, he said that Sun Lei was premature and could not work overtime or stay up late.
Sacrifice and dreams
So as far as Sun Lei's personality is concerned, even without Chen Shan's strength, it is difficult for him to have edges and corners, but he does not recognize himself, he is aggrieved by his own sacrifice, in the quarrel between the two Sun Lei also talked about this, he likes this profession, but for the sake of the family and retreat, but how does he treat the work? Sun Lei often leaves early in the last job, work time to open a small guess, he has been transferred to another post is still touching the fish to help Wu Min to start a business, the new job pressure resistance is not good to use the family as an excuse, and at the same time grievances feel that Chen Shan forced, but who and Chen Shan said that they like the pharmaceutical profession, do not want to grow old in a muddled way?
Sun Lei is indeed capable, but he is also indeed not responsible, Chen Shan is pregnant with a child, the second child is still so, failed to take responsibility, was complained by netizens that there is Chen Shan's burden forward, there is Sun Lei's freedom and looseness, but he still feels that he is sacrificed, and he can't move to mention divorce. However, if Sun Lei can realize his personality problems and no longer feel aggrieved by Chen Shan's career and feel that he has sacrificed Dafa, he can probably be regarded as a complementary partner.