"When God closes a door for you, he will open a window for you." In fact, this sentence is deceptive. The correct way to say it would be: When God closes a door, you have to smash open a window, and instead of leaning against the window and looking at the view, you have to find a way to climb out of the window.
Yu Xiuhua is the woman who dared to climb out of the window.
Because of the lack of oxygen at birth, cerebral palsy since childhood, unable to speak, not good at walking, such an encounter spread on a girl, this is really cruel and ruthless. Did Yu Xiuhua fall? No! She grew up shakily in her impoverished rural home.
Having experienced much discrimination from others, Yu Xiuhua can't remember clearly. But she remembers her hobby, and works tirelessly for this hobby, from childhood to adulthood, no matter how embarrassing life is, she never gives up her dreams. When her poems finally came into the public eye, she succeeded, and who can say that her success was accidental?
With a disabled body with cerebral palsy, she made achievements that many normal women could not expect, and became a poet. Because of what? The answer is only two words: persistence. Persistence is a person's best quality, Yu Xiuhua did it.
When Yu Xiuhua was ignorant and did not know how to get married, her father took the initiative to marry her to a tramp who was much older than her. After getting married, this man did not treat her as a person, and even let the physically disabled Yu Xiuhua block the boss's car in order to ask for wages. This made Yu Xiuhua sad, and she felt that the man did not regard her as a wife, but as a beast.
For his own writing, the husband is also a vigorous sarcasm and irony. Finally, when Yu Xiuhua earned herself a piece of the sky by writing poems and books, she did something that this man who brought humiliation to herself could not have imagined, divorce. At this time, the man was instigated, hiding from the divorce, and there were words: I can't earn money now, you want to divorce me.
Yu Xiuhua can not eat the man's trick of crying, making trouble and hanging, she said with a loud voice: "Hurry back to divorce, give you 150,000, and then don't come back, don't give a penny!" ”
Bad marriage in time to stop the loss, even if the loss of 150,000 and a house to anger the ex-husband, this decisive arrogance and how many women can do it, Yu Xiuhua did it, because of what? There is confidence, and this confidence is to rely on yourself.
Time into 2022, Yu Xiuhua once again refreshed everyone's brain hole, after the 70s she and the 90s handsome guys fell in love, although the Internet is full of doubts, but the two people swinging the swing, you love me strong look, who can be sure that this must be a conspiracy is not love? Yu Xiuhua is a person who dares to follow her heart, just like her blunt confession to Li Jian in the poem: I like you, Li Jian!
Love if you want, don't care about other people's eyes, follow your own feelings. How many women can take this step? Yu Xiuhua did it, because of what? Be yourself, be brave to be yourself, and be brave yourself.
I am who I am, and I am a different firework in the world. Write poetry in life, live in writing poetry. Although God does not care for me, I take care of myself. This is the wonderful life that Yu Xiuhua walked out of in a shaky way.