"Do you know the school rules, you are not allowed to fall in love during school, you two are so close, what is the relationship?"
"Yes, we're just together."
The teacher was angry at Zhao Mingming's arrogant appearance,
Zhao Mingming and Yingning's parents were directly called to the school.
After Zhao Mingming's parents learned of this, they hurried to dissuade their daughter.
But Zhao Mingming's personality was stubborn and he was not moved at all.
The parents persuaded their daughter to no avail, so they found Yingning,
I hope that Yingning can end this relationship and not delay each other,
And Yingning pursued Zhao Mingming for a long time, even if the school had to give punishment,
The two still have no intention of compromise.
Zhao Mingming even said to everyone: "We will get married as soon as we graduate!" ”
However, it was such an unforgettable first love that made her suffer the most serious injury in her life.
I can't go out for a lifetime.
01
Zhao Mingming was born in Shenyang in 1970.
She was Manchu, her father was an editor, her mother was a doctor,
The family conditions were average, but they never suffered.
As the youngest child in the family, the two sisters also love this sister very much.
What is delicious at home, Zhao Mingming is always the first to taste,
Housework was never her turn.
Zhao Mingming has been living a carefree childhood,
Under the favor of the whole family, Zhao Mingming's personality became more and more arrogant and stubborn,
This also laid the groundwork for her future marital misfortune.
Zhao Mingming inherited the appearance of her parents, and from a young age, she can see that she is a beautiful embryo.
The neighbors are very fond of the beautiful Zhao Mingming,
She is the "little group pet" of that piece, and everyone will always praise her:
Obviously getting better and better, growing up must be a big star!
When he was a child, Zhao Mingming did not understand these praises,
As she got older, she listened to these praises,
Gradually, I also felt that I was the most beautiful.
Pretty is sometimes indeed a kind of capital, and people around her like her,
Zhao Mingming also began to bully some honest children with his beautiful face,
She thinks she's good-looking and that everyone else should listen to her.
When her father found out, he loudly reprimanded her: "No matter how good-looking you are, it is not a reason for you to bully others at will, if you dare to do this again in the future, see I will not teach you harshly!" ”
Zhao Mingming, who has been pampered since childhood, has heard such heavy words,
Frightened and crying, my sister rushed to comfort her.
Since then, Zhao Mingming has never done anything to bully others.
Zhao Mingming has been interested in film and television dramas since he was a child.
She especially likes Gong Li, and she herself has the idea of becoming a star.
Zhao Mingming is a child with an idea when he is young,
Parents know their children's thoughts, and they have no intention of blocking,
Not only that, but he also signed her up for an acting class.
"You can study art, but you also have to learn culture, otherwise you still won't be able to pass."
For the sake of his dreams, Zhao Mingming's learning has gradually caught up.
After an exam, the examiner teacher especially loved Zhao Mingming,
At this time, the teacher came and said, "Little girl, are you eating too well?" ”
Zhao Mingming bowed in shame when he heard this sentence, and quickly ran out of the examination room.
She has never suffered since she was a child, and she has never cared about the management of her body.
He is 167cm tall and weighs 120 pounds.
Although not fat, the baby fat on her face made her look heavier than anyone of the same weight.
But that didn't affect her grades, because one of her faces stood out in those days.
The 18-year-old Zhao Mingming was admitted to the Jilin Art School as he wished.
02
After entering the school, Zhao Mingming conscientiously followed the teacher to learn acting,
Her grades were at the top of her class, and her teachers especially liked her.
In his sophomore year, he filmed his first TV series "Iron Man".
After that, I also made several dramas one after another, but the response of the works was not great,
The audience did not remember Zhao Mingming as a person.
In 1992, Zhao Mingming, a graduate, starred in the TV series "Women Are Not the Moon".
In the play, she plays a rural girl, and most of the shots are plain-faced,
But this did not affect Zhao Mingming's beauty in the slightest.
Clear water out of the hibiscus, natural to carve ornaments,
This sentence is not exaggerated at all to describe Zhao Mingming.
This drama also made Zhao Mingming get a nomination for Best Actress,
The pure face impressed the audience and received widespread attention.
In 1993, Zhao Mingming starred in the youngest daughter "Jia Xiaofan" in "I Love My Home".
Song Dandan is the heroine, Zhao Mingming is only a small supporting role,
Although the role is small, it is definitely the face value of the play.
Song Dandan was on fire after this drama, and few people will remember "Jia Xiaofan".
Many years later, the actors of the "I Love My Home" crew gathered together,
Zhao Mingming naturally went,
Met the "brother" Yang Lixin in the play, she happily took the initiative to go to say hello,
But Yang Lixin was stunned: "Are you?" ”
Yang Lixin thought about it for half a day and really couldn't remember,
"I'm your sister in the play!"
Yang Lixin quickly apologized: "I'm really sorry, I really didn't think about it." ”
It can be seen that she has completely become a "small transparent" in this drama.
After that, Zhao Mingming also took some works one after another.
Until 1997, Zhao Mingming was on fire again,
She starred in the role of "Zhao Feiyan" in "Han Palace Feiyan".
Everyone knows that Zhao Feiyan is a red face and a curse of water,
But Zhao Feiyan, played by Zhao Mingming, can't be hated.
A pair of eyes with emotional pulses made her look even more moving.
When the director found Zhao Mingming, she originally refused to star.
Zhao Feiyan is known for being as light as a swallow, which is obviously inconsistent with her own figure.
The director thinks that Zhao Mingming has a unique temperament,
"You have a different temperament, I think you can."
Affirmed by the director, coupled with her stubborn personality since childhood,
Think of what someone said about her before: you can only play a good woman, you can't play a bad person.
Zhao Mingming accepted the director's invitation.
In order to better interpret this role, Zhao Mingming's crazy weight loss,
The fastest way to lose weight is not to eat,
She only eats a few bites a day to survive, and the rest only relies on drinking water to fill her hunger.
She sometimes regrets taking on the role, thinking when she's so hungry that she thinks:
I can't think of anywhere to suffer this sin.
Such a pattern, only let her hold out for a while and then something went wrong,
At that time, I was filming a scene of Zhao Feiyan dancing on the ice,
Big summer wear heavy clothes, dance while spinning in circles,
Coupled with malnutrition, she fainted on the ground at once.
Sure enough, kung fu pays off,
After this "Han Palace Feiyan" was broadcast, Zhao Mingming was on fire,
Zhao Feiyan, played by her, has become an insurmountable classic in the hearts of many audiences.
Zhao Mingming once said bluntly in the show that he did not like this role,
Struggling with fat all day, I couldn't better interpret her.
This drama has caused major directors to throw olive branches to Zhao Mingming,
However, Zhao Mingming chose to take the shadow at this time.
Give up the popular career? Everyone wondered.
Can make a woman give up her thriving career,
Probably there is only one "love" word.
This man is Zhao Mingming's first love, which is her husband, Yingning.
03
When Zhao Mingming first entered the university gate, he was selected as the "school flower".
There are countless boys who pursue her, but this has become Zhao Mingming's trouble.
Letter after letter, gift after gift sent to the dormitory,
Not only was he jealous of his roommates,
It also makes Zhao Mingming often unable to devote himself to learning.
Among Zhao Mingming's admirers was a special person named Yingning.
Yingning is the cousin of director Yingda, and his father is a painter.
Not only that, but each of the ancestors was an elite.
Yingning's appearance is not outstanding, and his appearance is absolutely unworthy of Zhao Mingming.
But Yingning has extraordinary talent and strong family background,
Unlike Zhao Mingming's other suitors, he never caused trouble to Zhao Mingming.
Has been silently guarding her side, can be said to be a crush.
The two came into contact at an event organized by the school.
Yingning has long regarded Zhao Mingming as a goddess,
Zhao Mingming also felt that Yingning was a very talented person.
After several contacts, Zhao Mingming also gradually developed a good feeling for Yingning.
Yingning did not know that the original goddess had already secretly promised him,
He suffered from a mediocre appearance and never dared to confide in himself.
Zhao Mingming's suitors have seriously affected her life,
It just so happened that she also liked Yingning, so she decided to "start first to be strong".
Zhao Mingming found Yingning and sought his help.
"There are too many people chasing me, can you help me block them?"
Hearing the words of the goddess, Yingning's heart blossomed,
It turns out that the goddess is also concerned about herself, and there are so many suitors,
I chose him, but what else could I be interested in him?
Yingning naturally agreed to Zhao Mingming's "invitation" without hesitation.
The two came together.
The relationship between the two people was soon known to Zhao Mingming's suitors,
To get rid of it is to get rid of it, but to get into other trouble.
In the past, when everyone liked Zhao Mingming, they were love enemies,
Now the lovers are on a front, with a common "enemy."
Everybody can't swallow this breath,
How could the goddess be with such an ordinary person?
So they stabbed the teacher.
At that time, the school rules were very strict, and it was not allowed to fall in love during the school period.
Upon learning of this, the teacher immediately called the two to the office.
It is said that it is not allowed to fall in love, but there are also many who secretly engage in "underground love",
There has never been a situation in which the teacher has been directly sued,
Even if the teacher doesn't want to deal with it, he thinks that as long as they deny it,
And that's it.
Zhao Mingming has a stubborn personality, doing is doing, there is nothing he does not dare to admit.
This sentence made the teacher confused, and did not expect that the two were not afraid at all.
So he called the parents of both sides over,
But even if the parents came, they couldn't stop the two.
Zhao Mingming also said: "We will receive a certificate when we graduate." ”
Sure enough, as she said,
As soon as they graduated in 1992, the two received a marriage license.
No wedding, no car, no house, only two red books,
Zhao Mingming thus became Yingning's wife.
04
After marrying Yingning, the two did not wait for the school to allocate units,
Zhao Mingming resolutely followed Yingning to Beijing for development.
Yingning has relatives in Beijing, originally they could live in relatives' homes,
But Zhao Mingming, who wants to be strong, does not want to disturb the lives of others,
I also don't want my parents to worry and let others look down on me.
So the two lived in the coal shed.
Zhao Mingming already had experience in filming during his college years.
Yingning naturally became the agent of his wife Zhao Mingming.
When the producer of "Woman Is Not the Moon" approached Zhao Mingming,
She hesitated, not knowing whether she should pick it up or not.
"Pick up, I've shown you the script, and it's a good fit for you."
Zhao Mingming's personality has always been stubborn, but he listens to Yingning's words extraordinarily,
Since the husband said it was good, he would definitely have to pick it up.
I have to say that Yingning's vision is good, after starring in this drama,
Zhao Mingming has a lot of fame.
In 1993, Yingning and his cousin Yingda wanted to work together on a sitcom.
Zhao Mingming is Yingning's wife, and Song Dandan is Yingda's wife.
So under the discussion of the two brothers, their respective wives were sent to the crew.
Song Dandan is the female number one in the play, the eldest daughter-in-law "Peace",
Zhao Mingming is young and plays the youngest daughter "Jia Xiaofan".
Unexpectedly, many years later,
The fate of Zhao Mingming and his sister-in-law Song Dandan is almost the same.
Left: Zhao Mingming Right: Song Dandan
With the help of her husband Yingning, Zhao Mingming's career is booming,
Of course, it is inseparable from her own efforts.
Due to work reasons, the care of the family is neglected,
Although husband Yingning cannot say that nothing has been achieved,
But compared with Zhao Mingming's achievements, it is still a big difference,
Many people say that he is a "little white face" who lives on women.
These words gradually reached Yingning's ears,
His temper also gradually became grumpy,
At the same time, he was worried that his young and beautiful wife would betray him.
He often yelled at Zhao Mingming and complained that she had too little time at home.
Once the husband and wife were interviewed by the media at the same time,
When the reporter asked what he thought of Zhao Mingming's thriving career,
Directly triggered Yingning's tight strings.
"She rarely goes home now, she didn't go home for the New Year when she was filming abroad last year, and this year it will still be like this, and others will gossip again."
Without the slightest regard for Zhao Mingming's feelings, he vented all his emotions in front of the public.
Zhao Mingming was not angry, but his heart was full of guilt,
She knows why her husband Yingning is angry, she has been busy filming for a long time,
Yingning was insecure and dissatisfied.
But Zhao Mingming is also helpless, Yingning has no income, she needs to make money to support her family.
Zhao Mingming could only smile awkwardly: "This year, this year will definitely go back." ”
The two have been married for many years and have not had children, which is also Zhao Mingming's regret.
After filming "Han Palace Feiyan", Zhao Mingming announced that he would stop the film.
She is ready to return to her family and prepare for pregnancy at home.
Her decision made many people who liked her express their confusion and pity,
For the sake of her small family, she still resolutely quit the entertainment industry.
05
Soon after returning to the family, Zhao Mingming became pregnant.
Since busy with his career, the relationship with her husband has become more and more distant,
Now with this child, you can definitely ease the relationship between the two,
When she thought about it in her heart, she felt even more happy.
Yingning also began to get busy during this time,
Busy not caring for his pregnant wife, but busy running outside.
Pregnant Zhao Mingming also has to do housework and cook by himself.
In the middle of the night, Zhao Mingming made the food on the table hot and hot,
But the person she was looking forward to did not appear for a long time.
It wasn't until Zhao Mingming waited until he was sleepy and closed his eyes that her husband crept home.
Hearing her husband's footsteps, Zhao Mingming hurried up.
"Why is it so late, hungry or not?"
The tone of concern was exchanged for the husband's impatience.
"You think I'm willing, I'm not for you, for this home?"
Zhao Mingming was still like that, and Yingning listened to everything she said.
Zhao Mingming was very moved, thinking of her husband who was working outside, his eyes were full of pain.
Since then, even if her husband returns late, she has no doubts or complaints.
However, it is such wholehearted trust, in exchange for Yingning's doing whatever he wants,
But what awaited was the news that the husband was divorcing.
In the blink of an eye, it's time to give birth,
After a hard october pregnancy, anyone who has been a mother can understand this feeling,
Before Zhao Mingming entered the delivery room, he saw her husband Yingning's face full of anxiety.
She felt relieved and comforted her husband: "Don't worry, I'm fine, the child will be safe." ”
She didn't know that Yingning's anxiety wasn't because of this.
Zhao Mingming gave birth to a daughter,
Yingning pushed open the door to see his weak wife and looked at her daughter again.
Zhao Mingming looked at the child, and his mind was full of the happy life of a family of three.
She was just about to open her mouth and let Yingning take a good look at her daughter.
At this time, Yingning's words made Zhao Mingming's brain buzz.
"I... Let's get a divorce. ”
The infant daughter, the weak wife in the hospital bed,
None of them could arouse a heart that Yingning had already flown away.
"I don't know what you're talking about, I'm tired, sleep a little."
Zhao Mingming desperately wanted to pretend to be stupid and escape, but Yingning was very insistent.
Later, Zhao Mingming knew that her husband had already transferred his feelings and did not fall in love.
Fell in love with a female translator.
She didn't insist anymore and agreed to divorce.
It was the last shred of dignity of a woman.
In 2000, the two officially divorced, and Yingning had no intention of raising her daughter.
It didn't take long for Yingning to remarry.
Thinking of how desperate I was for this man,
Look at Yingning's fierce face now,
Zhao Mingming only felt ridiculous.
Three years ago, Yingda fell in love with Liang Huan and abandoned Song Dandan and his son Batu.
Now, Zhao Mingming has also followed in the footsteps of his sister-in-law Song Dandan.
Looking at her newborn daughter, she could only cheer up.
In order to take care of her daughter, after filming a drama in 2002,
Zhao Mingming gave up his career and took care of his daughter wholeheartedly.
The daughter has lost the love of her father and can no longer live without her mother.'
For the sake of his daughter, Zhao Mingming decided not to marry again.
When my daughter is 18 years old, in order for her to have a better development,
Zhao Mingming sent her abroad to study.
The healthy growth of his daughter is Zhao Mingming's only wish.
06 Conclusion
Now that Zhao Mingming is 52 years old, I don't know if her broken heart has healed.
Every thorn hidden in the heart can be slowly smoothed out with the passage of time.
It is also a blessing to be able to live a simple and ordinary life with my daughter.
The saddest thing about women is not to grow old, but to lose themselves.
If Zhao Mingming can stick to his dreams and career,
Now it may be another dazzling presence, but unfortunately everything has no ifs.
Undefeated beauty over the years, Zhao Mingming of this age still has a unique charm.
As long as you can live your true self, it will never be too late.