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Elderly men, if they are single, as long as they have certain economic conditions, the vast majority of them will not choose to end up alone, but want to find a partner to spend their old age together.
They feel that it is happier to have a companion in old age than to live with their children. A full house of children is not as good as a halfway couple, this is the reason.
For those single men who have a monthly salary, it is still easy to find a partner, as to whether they can get through to the end, it depends on what kind of partner they are looking for.
If you are looking for an old partner who sincerely spends the old age together, you will definitely be happy for a long time; on the contrary, everywhere is bad, and the group is also fast.
01
I am Old Nie, a company cadre, 57 years old, due to a heart attack, and later after the bypass surgery, I retired early.
At the end of that year, my wife and child, who were in the fruit wholesale business, died of a cerebral hemorrhage, so I had to live in my son's house.
My son's family is in a city in the north, I have lived in the south since I was a child, and at this age, I went to the north to live, and there were many adaptations.
After staying for more than a year, I still went back to my hometown.
When my wife was alive, although she was very busy with business, she never let me do the housework, and she squeezed the time to do it herself.
To be honest, I was at home alone, and eating was a problem. In order not to worry my son, I wanted to hire a babysitter.
At this time, an old friend of mine came up with me, saying that it was better to ask a babysitter than to find an old partner and give her a little money every month, so that not only was there someone to take care of in life, but there was also someone to accompany her at night.
If you think about it, it makes sense.
Anyway, people at this age, no longer pursue careers, the economy also has a little foundation, no longer worry about children, only for good health, every day to live comfortably, there are people around to accompany not lonely, there is such a day will be satisfied.
02
I think that although I have undergone surgery, my body is no longer in serious trouble, and if I want to find a wife, I have to find a condition that meets my own conditions. That is to say, the body should be healthy, the housework should not be pretentious, and the appearance should be able to enter my eyes, as for whether there is a pension, do not consider.
Because my conditions are not bad, I live in an elevator room of more than 100 square meters, I have a car, I have more than 6,000 pensions every month, and I have a deposit in my hand. My son has a successful career and is the vice president of a company, and my daughter-in-law is a university professor, and my money is at my disposal.
When my son and daughter-in-law learned that I was looking for my wife, they were very open-minded and very supportive.
In the following days, I began to go to my wife and children according to my own requirements.
I went to kiss a few times, but I didn't look at it. Some people say that I am about to become an old antique and still picky, doomed to a lonely old life. I don't care, although looking for an old partner is not better than finding a partner when I was younger, but I still have to find a satisfactory one, because I want to live together, where can I do it? I just want to meet someone who is satisfied early.
A home without a woman really doesn't look like a home, not clean not to say, the home is cold, there is no warm breath. Sometimes I go to a friend's house and don't want to go back to my own home.
I miss the days when my wife and children were alive, and looking back now, those noisy days are so memorable.
I remembered what Chen Daoming once said: "Instead of smoking, drinking, playing cards, going to bars and discotheques, I am more happy to sit with my wife at home under the window, she embroiders, I cut her leather bags, and make clothes for my daughter." After all, the leaves outside the window are silent, and the time in the house is quiet, which is the greatest happiness! ”
03
I no longer go on blind dates, thinking that finding an old partner is also dependent on fate, and I believe that what should come will always come.
That day, as usual, I went to the tea house that I often went to, and saw a woman of about 50 years old working in the shop, I thought I had changed the boss, and after inquiring, I learned that this woman was the boss's newly hired helper.
At that time, I muttered in my heart, it is a pity that such a charming woman has come to help cook.
Later, when I found out that the woman was divorced and still single, I thought about it.
I am a regular customer of this tea house, and I have a friendship with the boss. When the boss learned of my thoughts, he actively matched us.
The woman's name is Yingju, 55 years old, tall, extremely well-maintained, not fat or thin, which I admire.
Her family lives in the suburban countryside, her son works in the field, her husband works outside the home to find another woman, divorced him, and then came out to find something to do.
After the owner of the tea house introduced me to her, he promised to communicate with me first, and I was overjoyed.
During the months of dating, Yingju came to see me every day, dressed up exquisitely, and appeared gentle and virtuous in front of me, and I wanted to marry her home early.
04
I have a wife again.
Yingju quit her job and moved to my house, and the house became clean and tidy again, and there seemed to be happy notes beating in every room.
I discussed with Yingju to live together for the time being, and when the time came, I would go to get the license, and she gladly accepted.
Our consumption level here is not very high, and I can't spend much on her monthly living expenses. But I am not the kind of miserly person, I give Yingju 5,000 a month, as a living expense for two people, the rest has to spend money, another to give.
The days are as beautiful as expected, and some people say that I have found Angie, an old partner, and the more I live, the younger I am. Also, not to say that getting younger and younger, at least every day is a good mood, every day has a spirit.
Just over half a year later, Yingju gradually increased the number and number of additional money in my hand, which she said not only bought high-end cosmetics, but also opened a card in a beauty salon and gym.
I think that Yingju is my woman, and the more beautiful she is, the more I like her, and I must also support her.
That afternoon, Yingju said to go to the gym, I went out for a walk after my nap, I wanted to see her by the way, if there is a sport that suits me, I also go to register.
The gym was on the third floor, and as soon as I entered, I saw Yingju with a blue nose and swollen face, her face full of blood, sitting on the ground crying. I was so frightened that I asked why, only to learn that she had just been beaten by the coach's wife, because she was hiding in a room with the coach and was arrested.
I was so angry that I turned my head and left, almost hitting the wall.
A few days later, someone told me that Yingju divorced because she found a good relationship, and her ex-husband retaliated against her and also looked for her outside, and the family was separated.
It seems that my partner days are about to end.
Write at the end
Dare I say that any man who meets a woman like Yingju will be very angry.
Old Nie Dong chose the west and chose a satisfactory old partner, but it ended in such a way, not to be angry and crazy.
Love does not distinguish between ages, no matter how old you are, you must finally feel affection.
Be a person to be peaceful, to be self-disciplined, no matter how old you are, do not ask for too many things, especially emotionally.
There are people around who really treat themselves well to cherish, and if they are lost, they can never be found again. At the same time, when you are old and looking for your wife, you must also polish your eyes, choose the wrong regret, not only miss the time, but also block your heart.
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