The "sunk cost effect" is a great way to make the other person love you continuously
In life, many things become more and more profound. When people work hard for something, they always subconsciously want to be rewarded. But in fact, in many cases, heaven is a failure. People's efforts are not rewarded accordingly. At times like these, people are often reluctant to accept the past. In an emotional state of impulsive regret, make some decisions that may be the opposite of the original. The same is true in love. When a person gives a lot for love, he does not give up and leave. I hope the two of them can continue to develop. This effect is called the "sunk cost effect." It comes from economics itself and discusses the impact of paying costs on subsequent decision-making behavior. In fact, this effect can be seen everywhere in life. When you love someone, people always want to love each other forever. However, blind payment is sometimes not easy to use. If you want the other person to continue to love you, you might as well try: sunk cost effect. This should be a very effective and good method.
02 Increase the cost paid by the other party, increase its "difficulty". Love itself is a game. In the eyes of another, the other is like a strategic replica. The harder it is to copy, the more effort you need to put in. And often, the more strenuous things are, the more impressive they will be and always unforgettable. It will even become an obsession, and it must be successful to attack and reach the other side of success. Therefore, increasing the difficulty of their own pursuit; increasing the cost paid by the other party will deepen their position in the other party's heart and make the other party want to stop. Huang Bo once starred in a movie called "One Hundred and One Marriage Proposals". Huang Da, who is engaged in decoration work, fell in love with the female artist Ye Fu and began his crazy pursuit. Because of an accident, two people from different worlds met. Huang Da gave Ye Fu a break, and Ye Fu also helped Huang Da recover the money. In the process of getting along, Huang Da was touched by each other's kindness and beauty, and then bravely pursued love. He tried again and again and was rejected again and again, but Huang Da never gave up. In the end, he touched the heart of the goddess with his sincerity and persistence and won love. In fact, after repeated failures, Huang Da may also want to give up, but the price he paid in the past has become a knot in his heart. Try again and you'll probably succeed. Those who have easy access to hands often do not receive special care. Therefore, if you want the other person to love you more, it is best to make the "sunk cost" pay by the other party higher and higher. At the time, it was difficult for him to resign.
03 Increase the "loss aversion" psychology and make the other party "panic". It is often said that when something is lost, its importance is felt. In real life, in fact, this sentence is even higher. When something has a sign of loss, people's hearts will unconsciously begin to drift to that side. The same is true when this situation is reflected in love. Once people feel that they have given a lot to their lover, they may leave when. People will subconsciously think about whether they have not given enough. Then, increase your own investment to stabilize your love. While watching the TV series Mischievous Kiss, I saw a special couple: Mary and Ah Qiao. In Ah Qiao's view, being with Mary is a blessing. Therefore, as long as he can make Mary happy, he will be considerate of Mary and respond to Mary. But this state made Mary a little uneasy. She wasn't sure if the other person really loved herself. In order to confirm this, Mary deliberately approached Jiang Zhishu to create a sense of crisis for Ah Qiao. The truth is, after all, let her get what she wants. The intolerable Acho finally spoke his heart, showed jealousy, and confirmed his love. The sense of crisis in love can stimulate the feelings buried in the other party's heart. Many times, love is always there, but people don't find out. Try to make the other person "panic" for a while, and you may see these loves.
04 Improve yourself and make yourself attractive. Facing love and enhancing your attractiveness is the king's way. Whether it is to increase the cost of the other party, or to let the lover feel "lost"; the first thing to do is to continue his attraction and let the man love himself all the time. The love between men and women is to fall into each other in the process of appreciating each other. Striving to improve yourself is to constantly raise the appreciation value and love of the other party, and naturally it will be pulled up. To be bold in yourself is to respond to love, the best response. When you want your lover to continue to love themselves, try this effect. To improve the feelings between two people, but also in the process, to change the way they think about themselves. For the rest of your life, be brave and bold in being yourself and live the most beautiful way. At that time, the cost and loss will naturally come to continue the feelings between you. May every couple work hand in hand with love and accompany the white head. #Emotion##Emotion##情感情感 #