But all the men who can make women willing to be the third child have unusual charms, they have taste, patience, gentleness, generosity, life experience and sexual experience are very rich, talk and dress as decent, subtle and noble. For single, elderly young women, such men undoubtedly have a fatal attraction. But for such a man, the most extravagant behavior is not to change cars and houses, not to have more children, not to let the whole family emigrate abroad, but to divorce. Because divorce means that the life he has already fixed will be broken, it means that he will give up part of his property, even the custody of his children, it means that he will have to re-enter a circle of relationships, it means that he will have to re-adapt to living with another woman, and for a middle-aged man who has been stereotyped everything and has become a habit, it is too difficult to make such a transformation, and the many troubles make them afraid to make plans to re-establish a family. Therefore, they prefer to continue to live so peacefully while seeking some stimulation beyond the calm.
So, when a man says something like " I'll divorce her and marry you " , don't be silly, we're not beautiful Helen, we can make 1,000 warships go to sea, and the other party is not the prince of Troy, willing to go to the soup for us. The wisest thing to do is to stay away from the men who are already married, and then polish your eyes to distinguish which men are the real diamond king and which men are dressed in unmarried clothes and actually have a family. In general, married men have the following characteristics:
Usually married men have wives to take care of their lives, so married men are dressed neatly, while unmarried men are dressed more casually, and some are slightly sloppy.
Married men have a sense of responsibility because they have a family, which can give people a sense of maturity and stability. He is also older and older, not as casual as unmarried young men.
Men who deliberately conceal their marriage, when they receive a call from their wives, their words are very brief, most of them reply with words such as "know" and "okay" that do not reveal any information, and sometimes show a very impatient look.
In order to facilitate their own flowers and weeds, married men usually hide their true identity, such as: the specific address of the residence, the circle of friends, etc. So, when a man never takes you into contact with his social circle, then you have to pay attention.
Married men usually stay at home with their wives on holidays, so the busier they are on holidays. Single men, on the other hand, are more idle the more they get on holidays.
Usually, a man who sincerely associates with you will take the initiative to bring you to his parents, and this is the most likely place for married men to show their feet, if you offer to meet his parents, but are rejected twice, and finally even jumpy, then you have to be careful.
Any woman with dignity and self-love will not take the initiative to choose to be a small third, more is confused by the sweet words of men, there is no woman who does not desire to have a complete love, does not desire to have a complete family. So, don't be gullible to believe the "I will divorce her" words, a good man, will not make such a commitment, if he really loves you, will not let you from the first appearance of the grievance in the position of the third grade.