The world often says that the most important thing for a man in this life is his career, conquering the world, and good women will come back and forth. What about women? It will also be said that women conquer the world by conquering men. I think the world of women is not only about men. What women need is self-help. Zhang Ailing, a bright pearl in the modern literary world, grew up under the pinch of both parents, escaped after being imprisoned by her biological father, worked hard after losing the first contribution fee by her biological mother, and gave 300,000 breakups after being split by Hu Lancheng, and I think I love her not without reason, not only because of her words, but also for her vivid soul. There is also Xiao Hong's escape from marriage, Lin Huiyin's talent makes Jin Dacaizi never marry in his life, but he has never jumped into a complicated love, but looks for inner strength in his own world. Maybe you will say that there are several Zhang Ailing in the world, Lin Huiyin? We are all sentient beings, all demanding survival, and men can bring us a better life. I'm not a feminist, I just think that women should take themselves seriously and be rational. Career or work brings us an unprecedented sense of fulfillment, sometimes just to avoid family chores, avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, let work give us a chance to breathe, whether the job is decent or not or whether the income is high or low, the palm of the hand is up, the soul is not unreasonable. Young girls who hope to cry in Bmw seem to have endless fantasies about men, taking the rich and rich as the highest goal in life, not knowing that women are springboards in men's hearts, old age is a crutch, when needed is a strong needle, when not needed is a scum. Maybe your one is a wonderful man, who will not abandon you all his life, then you need to enrich yourself, love yourself, and make a better self worthy of his love for you.
Women spend their whole lives in harmony with the world and confronting themselves, such as me, a pampered post-80s only daughter who often ignores others and feels that everything is taken for granted, but the world is not always as you wish. Sometimes I get hysterical and say to myself I don't hold back, I want to turn out all the unhappiness in my heart. But afterwards, I will feel that I am not atmospheric enough, not open-minded enough, life is in the world, what is not to be able to live? Guide yourself, let your mind be at peace, and grow slowly. Ordinary people always have many can't see through, can't put down, born as a woman, everything is very beautiful, I am actually a small woman, is not big in the heart, stingy, small family, of course, there are petty bourgeoisie, but I am still full of hope, crying, making trouble, calm down, everything is clear and transparent, just like the blue sky, white clouds, vast and boundless, maybe I will never grow up, but I will slowly reconcile with myself, not stuck to the past, hoping for the future.