The ancients said: It is better to argue between right and wrong than to observe for a moment. To take a look at the chaos, it is better to be quiet and idle.
Yes, in life, in fact, personal likes and dislikes are not important. Because whether you like it or not, it may not be able to follow your heart. Life gives everyone only one chance. In the same amount of time, the more you experience than others, you have more.
So: hold out your best hopes, do your best, plan for the worst, and live with the best mindset!
It is said that when a flower blooms in spring, people live for a lifetime. There are many things you might not be able to say clearly about why and what's going on. However, man does not live because he has figured out all the mysteries and reasons, but because he inquires, perceives, feels and believes and doubts, he enjoys the taste of life.
I don't know, I don't know, I have expectations, I'm disappointed, that's why everything is so fascinating!
At this time, some people will definitely say, stop pouring me chicken soup, come to some practical success? Well, I'll give you some of my usual specific practices and understand them.
First, meditate at least twice a day, fifteen minutes in the morning and fifteen minutes in the morning and fifteen minutes in the morning.
Second, take time out of your day to observe the changes in the nature around you and experience them.
Third, practice without judgment or judgment.
Fourth, no matter where they go or who they meet, they will bring them a gift (praise or smile counts)
Fifth, be grateful and accept all that life has to offer.
Whenever you make up your mind, ask yourself: What will be the consequences of the choices I make now? Will this choice bring me and the people around me satisfaction and happiness?
Seventh, use the heart as a guide, and judge and make choices through the message of comfort or not.
Accept the status quo without fighting it, because society is supposed to function the way it wants it to be. You can hope that things will be different in the future, but for now you have to accept the status quo.
Nine, will take responsibility for the situation at hand, and will not blame anyone, including themselves.
Ten, understand that every problem contains opportunities, understand this, you can let yourself grasp the moment, and then transform the greater niche.
Eleven, do not presuppose positions on today's cognition, do not defend their own views and stick to one's views, do not force others to believe their own views.
Twelve, list all desires, sit still, meditate, look before going to bed, look at it when you wake up, and put into action.
Thirteen, don't care about the result, focus only on the present moment, and don't let any obstacles drain the attention of the moment.
Fourteen, face everything seriously, and let yourself and the people around you have the freedom to express yourself.
Fifteen, regard impermanence as the only way in life, accept impermanence, and countermeasures will naturally emerge from problems.
Sixteen, discover your own unique talents, get along with the people around you in the way that suits you best, and put them into action.
This is the process of mind cultivation. When you make up your mind not to be a slave to your desires, you can have enough strength to support your life.
Wash and go to bed, good night.