Female college students take their boyfriend home during the holidays, and after only one night, their parents have a big change of attitude and shake off their boyfriends
Near the New Year, many universities have begun to take holidays, such a long holiday can not only allow students to relax and relax, for some couples who are committed to love is also a good time to let the love affair see the light, so many parents in the receipt of their own children are buy one get one free, with another family's children.
Mr. Liu is a parent of a female college student, after his daughter goes to college, he no longer strictly controls the child's love affair, and even secretly hopes that his daughter can make a boyfriend in college, although the boy at this time is not mature enough, but the relative risk is small, so as not to have time to drag into an older leftover girl after graduation from work or be cheated by people. Therefore, as soon as he received a call from his daughter saying that she wanted to take her boyfriend home for a few days, Mr. Liu readily agreed and personally drove to pick it up.
After returning home, Mr. Liu and the child's mother also warmly welcomed the daughter's boyfriend, made a good table, understood each other's family situation, the boy's answer was also decent, and the two were still relatively satisfied. However, the next day, Xiao Liu's parents changed their attitude greatly, bluntly saying that they wanted their daughter's boyfriend to go home early, which was obviously the meaning of picking people up, making Xiao Liu and her boyfriend embarrassed and dazed, Xiao Liu also had a dispute with his father for this, and Mr. Liu, who thought that he had done nothing wrong, sent things to the Internet for netizens to comment.
So why is this shift happening? It turned out that the night before Mr. Liu and his wife specially prepared a temporary cot for Xiao Liu's boyfriend in the study, although small but also enough for a person to sleep, the mattress will not be uncomfortable, Xiao Liu's parents' meaning is obvious, do not want the two to be too close now, but the next day When Mr. Liu went to the study, he did not see the traces of someone sleeping in the small bed, quietly pushed open the daughter's room and saw that Xiao Liu's boyfriend was lying on his daughter's bed, obviously Xiao Liu's boyfriend slept with his daughter yesterday, which made Mr. Liu very angry.
In his opinion, the two have not yet been engaged to marry, should not live together and sleep together, especially in the woman's home, under the eyes of the elders, knowing that the girlfriend's parents have arranged another bed for him, but he still secretly sleeps in the girlfriend's room, which will make people think that he is very rude and tutored, and does not respect the girlfriend and the woman's parents. His ideas have also been praised and endorsed by many of the women's parents.
However, some netizens feel that Mr. Liu is a bit fussy, his thinking is too conservative, and he should not use their ideas to influence the lives of his children.
Some netizens think that Mr. Liu's starting point is correct, but the way is not right, Xiao Liu's boyfriend's behavior is indeed inappropriate, but is there nothing wrong with his daughter Xiao Liu? The boyfriend can stay must also be agreed by Xiao Liu, otherwise the other party cannot be so unscrupulous, Xiao Liu himself has not achieved self-respect and self-love, Mr. Liu questioned the tutoring of his daughter's boyfriend, but obviously he was also negligent in his daughter's education. Netizens said that "he should first ask his daughter about the situation privately, and education should also educate his daughter first, so publicly accusing her boyfriend of being too irrational will make it difficult for her daughter to do it." After such a fight, Xiao Liu and her boyfriend's relationship is afraid that it will not last long.
