The Ten Commandments of My Life

Admonishes children to smoke. Every time I pick up a child at the school gate, I will always see some people smoking in places with such a large density of children, most of them, spitting while smoking, a mouthful of old phlegm is on the side of the road where the children pass, I don't like this, but I can't control it, I can only control myself. Smoking a cigarette and leisurely seeing Nanshan, can't you see the disgusted expressions of the people around you? When I used to smoke, the people around me were not particularly disgusted, and I asked myself so. I think the campus is a pure land, is the place to cultivate the flowers of the motherland, cigarettes will appear very out of place here, in addition to the health impact, will have a negative impact on the minds of young people, this does not need to be said, in short, I need to take a warning, but also hope to see this article of friends, take as a warning.

Admonition to interrupt someone else.1 I have a very bad habit, that is, interrupting others to speak, very unreasonable, in fact, I am sometimes completely in a subconscious state to interrupt others to speak, others should be very disgusted, but suffering from the people around me, few people will be the head of the stick, so that they find out that it is too late. Therefore, first modify from yourself, slowly reduce the number of times you do not interrupt others to speak, listen mainly, and listen to others quietly and carefully.

The commandments often keep a straight face. Accustomed to a serious face, a bitter melon face, in fact, when I was a child, I loved to laugh, but I didn't like to smile when I was long, I also knew that it was inconsistent in appearance, I was very calm inside, but the face hung two bitter melons, this phase is not the original appearance, but it is born from the heart, and anyone who sees this forced look wants to punch the feeling. So, stick to smiling, get up in the morning and smile in the mirror, usually keep smiling, relax your face, and be a simple person with a clear face and a smile.

Behind the commandments say gossip about others. No matter what the good words are bad, don't say it behind the scenes, I can't do it, I still have to gossip about others behind my back, sometimes saying that others are good, but also saying bad, saying that others should be the opposite behind my back, setting off my meanness and envy and jealousy, is my own self-righteousness, sitting in the well and watching the sky. Although we all know that people are floating in the rivers and lakes, even if they are not knifed, they will talk about others behind their backs, and the old man often says that those who say right and wrong are non-people, and I am advised not to talk about others behind my back, but the happiness brought by gossip and the happiness brought by sugar to the body are the same, which makes people excited, as long as people are still people, the discussion behind them will always exist, unless people are no longer people. I have found that I am defending myself, which means that the poisoning is profound, and although it is slowly changing, I do not believe that I can become anything good.

Commandments to speak dirty in front of small children. When the child was very young, sitting in the car, what he heard was that an arrogant bastard father driver with a driving age of two or three years often exploded, and occasionally did not leave the car, and the wife sitting in the co-driver and the father in the back row heard that I often taught me a lesson, asking me not to do this, but I was a young man who forced me to do this, never thought it was, finally, my child was very young and would say that I was grass, and so on, I slowly woke up, but it was too late. A few years later, I will still speak foul and swear, but it is much better than before, but there will still be this shameful behavior. Today, I hope to erase the foul words of my father, whose son still remembers, perhaps, it is impossible.

Admonition to emotional instability. This point is a little difficult for me, I am a person in my own temperament, said to be a person in temperament, in fact, a person with low emotional intelligence, born in the countryside, happy to laugh, unhappy not to laugh, too self, this is serious irresponsibility to myself, but also a serious harm to the people around me, before because of various emotional behaviors to hurt others, but young and vigorous, do not want to take care of it, afterwards, even this is ignored, then what kind of person to live, how good to be a dog, always not satisfied with themselves. In fact, I should be a garbage man, unstable emotions are the first to be hurt by the wife, but he understands my instigation, ignores me, I quickly heal myself, if entangled with me, I want to trash can, hurt her. After a few years, this has not been done, and I feel deeply remorseful, and every time I tell myself that I want to find a point to release my emotions, this is a excuse and a reason. Because now I love the world more and more, more and more love for my wife, so I think it is time to break my bones, give myself a heavy hand, and make myself emotionally stable, although it is difficult, but I am not afraid to go forward.

The admonition speaks frivolously to girls. Like to joke, but jokes will always hurt others, especially girls, must respect others. One of my very bad habits is to make some jokes with women, although it is harmless, but it eventually falls into the cliché, belongs to the inferior, Hiroko once told me, let me not make some yellow jokes in front of unfamiliar women, although nothing, but others think you are frivolous and annoying, I remember this sentence, although it is still to open after that, but like the floodgates, every time I open my mouth, I will always think of this sentence, I will swallow the words to my mouth hard, pretend to be a personable gentleman and interact with others, On the contrary, my wife and I often joke together, make some small yellow jokes, but the feelings are getting better and better, it is really lost in the east corner of the mulberry, of course, or take it as a warning, especially after drinking, we should firmly recite the tight hoop curse.

Admonition to be frivolous. Sitting on the chair and cocking Erlang's legs, and then began to shake his legs, while shaking his legs, while talking to others, and then read the book to see this bad habit, slowly changed, but Erlang legs This habit has not changed, I thought about it carefully, it should be to cover up my inner uneasiness, because I have always been a strong person with a strong appearance, a soft heart like water, don't spray, I just think this word is used very well, unwilling to replace it, I have always known that I have bad habits on my body, especially in terms of manners and speech, It's a weak chicken, frivolous, very annoying, has been committed to change, the effect is not very significant, I think it is not the reason why I did not go to the civil service sequence to hone a hand. If this is the case, it is estimated that there is no chance.

Admonishment to dishonesty. Immediately arrived, in fact, has not yet gone out, this is a word that friends often use to make fun of Jian Brother, I have always liked to be punctual, arriving ten minutes early, if I can't get there, I'd rather not go than be late. Another point, do not say big words, the words said are the water that is spilled out, the man spits is a nail, he agrees to it, he can't do it absolutely not blindly agree, and finally loses his faith in people. That's fine.

The commandment is credulous. I have always liked to believe in others, I think there are not so many bad people in the world, and let me meet the odds of bad people are even less, ten years ago in Chengdu North Station was cheated of a hundred yuan of counterfeit money, I still do not regret the choice to believe in others, I have always felt that you do not believe in others, how can others believe you, later, Lao Zhao often persuaded, there are no credible people in this world, only their own most credible, others are liars, he is in business, I also scolded him this treacherous businessman, but the age is getting older, Slowly choose to believe that most of what Lao Zhao said is right, not believing in others is one thing, that is a thought in my heart, but what is really rare is that after knowing that I can't believe a person, I still choose to believe this person, which I think is very good, after experiencing twists and turns, still wearing thorns and thorns, without fear, is the true color of manhood.

To sum up. Forming a bad habit is very simple, but it is really difficult to change a bad habit, and the feeling of frustrating and peeling, but I am still willing to walk alone towards this difficult road, let the fate of the cause disappear, slowly understand, and slowly change.