The world is divided into many countries, each country has different beliefs, different backgrounds, different origins, all kinds of people have different lives.
All kinds of life
People in the world often say that reincarnation is a technical job, and if you can reincarnate into a rich family and your parents love each other, it is the best thing. Otherwise, after a lifetime of hard work, it may not be possible to achieve a happy life of one in ten million of the people who are born well.
As everyone knows, there is another type of person in this world, compared with ordinary people, when born, the body is not sound, or the body is defective, or the brain is not perfect, or with congenital heart disease or congenital autism, severe mental retardation and other diseases.
Being able to live well is also a luxury for them, so having a healthy body at birth is already a rare blessing.
There is also a kind of person who lives a very painful life, that is, people who have cognitive impairments about their gender. For example, she is born with a female body structure, but psychologically identifies herself as a man. Others are male in appearance, but consider themselves female in gender.
This kind of person also has a very difficult life, cannot identify with his own identity, and will be criticized in society. If you live with the gender of your own physical characteristics, you may live a depressed life all day long, and you will be unhappy.
But if you live with a psychologically identified gender, you will not feel happy, because after all, this is only a disguise of appearance, not to mention your own relatives, how can friends accept it?
Society will also marginalize such people, and most people will not accept them, and may also think that they are psychopathic.
Therefore, for people with gender cognitive disorders, not changing the essential physiological characteristics, no matter what kind of identity to live, is undoubtedly living in pain and endless despair every day. This feeling of pain and inability to identify with oneself is incomprehensible to ordinary people.
Therefore, there are also many people who will save money to go through sex reassignment surgery in order to get a new life and have a new identity to live their lives.
Life changing
The most well-known Lady Venus, who has extraordinary talent and achievements in dance, has won dance awards at home and abroad, and has been invited by many countries to hold dance parties for her personal works.
Although he has made great achievements in his career and in the dance profession he loves, Venus, who spent the first half of his life in flowers and applause, did not live happily, he psychologically identified himself as a woman, but from birth he had male characteristics, which made him always grumpy.
The great achievements in dance have not dispelled the psychological knots, and as I grow older and mature my thoughts, I am more and more unable to accept such a self.
Therefore, after careful consideration, Venus underwent sex reassignment surgery at Beijing Xiangshan Hospital in 1995, and recorded the whole process of the operation as a souvenir of the transformation of life.
Even for this operation, Venus almost ruined her beloved dance career, and her left leg would become disabled for life. Fortunately, kung fu pays off, and heaven is also touched by Venus's persistence.
Thanks to Venus's unremitting efforts and rehabilitation, the nerves of his left leg recovered, from being judged to be second-degree disabled, to full recovery, achieving a medical miracle. Today's Venus has changed from him to her, and from Mr. Venus to Lady Venus.
And relying on her perseverance and persistence, she was able to stand on the stage again, and she also re-carried out her beloved dance career as her identity, realizing the life she wanted to live.
For a celebrity like Venus, especially a successful person, the road to transgenderism is still difficult, and it is very difficult to get social recognition, not to mention to get the understanding of his family, but also to lie in the operating room where life and death are unknown.
It is conceivable that the road to transgenderism is more difficult for ordinary people with less social recognition. Lei Xiaochen, who was born in Zhejiang, has been very distressed since childhood, although he has masculine characteristics. But psychologically, Lei Xiaochen thought she was a girl.
Since he was a child, he did not like to play with male classmates, preferred to stay with female classmates to play quietly, and was more interested in girls' clothes and skirts, and would secretly use his sister's cosmetics to try on his sister's high heels.
However, the family did not understand his behavior and behavior, but only thought that the child might be something different. But as he grew older, his desire to be a girl grew stronger, and he hated himself for why he wasn't a girl, but a male body.
Reborn
Therefore, as he grew older, Lei Xiaochen understood why he was like this, and began to understand the transgender thing from various sources.
After learning that there are people with gender cognitive impairment like him who have changed their identities through gender reassignment surgery, I am extremely excited, as if my life has seen the dawn.
Lei Xiaochen began to travel from place to place, hoping to find a way to correct his life, but he was even more miserable when he had no way to ask for help.
Fortunately, Lei Xiaochen's persistence was answered, and heaven could not bear to see him running around in such pain. Ningbo Union Medical Beauty Hospital decided to sponsor Lei Xiaochen for surgery free of charge.
In June 2004, Lei Xiaochen underwent a heart-to-heart sex reassignment surgery as he wished, and his heart was full of anxiety and excitement, both looking forward to the gender transition after he had done the operation, and fearing that the operation would fail.
However, Lei Xiaochen did not intend to leave a way back for himself, since there was no way to retreat, it was better to bravely pursue the life he wanted.
After waking up, Lei Xiaochen's surgery was very successful, she completely became a woman, no longer had to live in pain day and night, nor did she have to struggle with her gender.
Lei Xiaochen, who received the new ID card, cried with joy, and his gender and identity were finally recognized. From now on, you can live as a woman.
And happiness always comes unexpectedly, and After becoming a woman, Lei Xiaochen began a new life. Whether it is at work or in love, there are new gains.
Knowing her current husband Yang Siyou at work, I originally thought that my lover would dislike her past and dislike her inability to have children, but I did not expect that Yang Siyou would not abandon her.
The two received their marriage licenses on December 13, 2004, and lived a plain and happy life. This kind of life was something that Lei Xiaochen could not imagine before, but unfortunately he could not have children.
Heaven seems to be the only one who loves Lei Xiaochen, and one night in the second year of marriage, the couple picked up a baby on the way home. The baby, named Ray Willow, became a member of the family.
To this day, Lei Xiaochen's family of three lives happily together.
More people with gender cognitive impairment may not have the courage of Venus and Lei Xiaochen, and still live in pain in some corner of society, enduring this pain alone. No matter what the outside world thinks or comments, all sentient beings are just a handful of yellow earth in the end.
It is better to live freely and freely, be brave enough to be yourself, and live the way you want.