Brothers, you must have had a moment of love at first sight, suddenly found that the goddess appeared in your life, and took the initiative to come forward to talk? Or quietly waiting for the girl to come to you?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="39" > the first one – to pick up strangers</h1>
Don't worry, let's first look at the things you want to think about before talking, two principles:
First, don't let others feel embarrassed, directly rush up to ask the phone, name, the girl is a subtle animal, you may be directly embarrassed to death, think you are inexplicable, do not know your purpose.
Second, is not too strong purpose, girls have practiced a body anti-hooking mechanism since childhood, if you do not have that two or two gold, it is recommended not to be too direct
First of all, let's talk about the complete stranger, basically divided into two occasions
The first is a very quiet and fixed occasion, that is, people do not walk around, and the girl you like sits relatively stably in a seat, such as: library, Starbucks, at this time, I recommend you a good method———— "sharing method".
It means discovering something very interesting. For example, there is a boy sitting opposite you, just took off his shoes, in the foot, at this time you use your elbow to touch the girl next to you, gesture to look at the opposite foot cut man, at this time, the opposite foot cut man touched his foot, raised his hand and smelled on the nose, I think this time the girl will immediately laugh.
So you will quickly become good friends with common secrets, and the relationship will suddenly become closer, so this example just tells you that if you want to talk, the focus is to have something to share that is worth seeing, to say, and to make you who have never spoken become accomplices
The second is a very noisy, very lively occasion, such as a bar, of course, before going to this occasion, you must dress up and clean yourself up and go again, in the bar to talk to the most needed is "confidence" and "nature", if you look at the girl, you stare at your goal, if she also looks at you, you can smile with her friendly and raise a glass, if she responds to you, whether it is action or expression, then you can directly bring a glass of wine to her, first toast with her, Then try inviting her to play with your friends.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="43" > the second ———— to pick up a colleague or a friend they don't know</h1>
The above to tell you about the method of picking up strangers, here is the main study with you, if the conversation is a colleague who is not familiar with the new, friends of friends, what to do?
Personally, I think the best way to amplify is to organize a party through people you know together and then get acquainted in the party.
What if there are no people we know together?
If this girl is your colleague, things are still very easy to handle, because you have a very big convenience, that is, you can see it every day, so it is best to ask the girl you like to help you a little favor.
If you know her professional background better, then help can be related to work, remember, after the other party has helped you, no matter what, you have to praise others for doing a good job, say some gratitude and other things
What if your work has nothing to do with it? Then you do some manual work, learn to observe the color, when you take the elevator together, see that people have a lot of things in their hands, help to take it, this does not have the opportunity to speak, in or find her to borrow something, after the end of the matter to find an excuse to invite her to eat, once born twice cooked, try a few more times
So what if you are not in a department and can't beat eight shots in your usual work?
Here you need to pay attention, do not expose your purpose too much, do not run directly to people in front of the whole company to ask for contact information, or invite her to dinner———— absolutely prohibited!
As the saying goes, when the opportunity comes, we must seize it, and when there is no opportunity, we have to create our own opportunities to make ourselves on, so we just need to wait for the opportunity to move and find an opportunity that is not affected by other colleagues in the company. Generally speaking, when a girl commutes to work alone, it is your best opportunity to contact her.
For example, enter the elevator together, just where you and her live "along the way" (not by the way to the road ah brother), then you can run over to introduce yourself: "Hello, I am XXX of XX company, we are in a company, so I want to meet you when I know you ..." Casual chat a few words, you can exchange contact information, as long as you dress appropriately, the general success rate is still quite high.
If it is at a friend party, the friend brought a friend over, it is better to deal with, because such a bureau, this person must be a lot of people do not know, that is to say, people will feel constrained, will sit there stupidly, you, if you are very familiar with the people here, take the initiative to come forward and talk to her, ask her if the things here are good or not, today is a little messy, will not snub her.
You know, in your very boring, there are many strangers in the occasion, there is a person intimate boy to take care of, the girl is very grateful, at the same time will be very impressed with you, it is easy to get the contact information, the girl will also inadvertently mention your move to friends after the break.
So what if you were also brought by a friend?
Master an empathy principle, you will spit together, we are all "dragging oil bottles" Oh, opportunity has a feeling of being a fallen person at the end of the world
If the above methods are not able to establish a communication bridge with the girl you like, you are welcome to say your problem in the comment area, or you can ask me directly, and we will help you solve it together