Interactions between the opposite sex should be as generous as possible, either with a "hello" or with a smile to start a conversation with each other.
Many people can't take the initiative to make friends because of their introverted personality. Only being a responder to the interaction, but not the initiator of the interaction, is a lot less opportunity to obtain friendship and love than others. You know, there's no reason for others to be interested in us for no reason. Therefore, if you want to get rid of the situation of "waiting for the rabbit", you must learn to take the initiative to interact with people.
At a party that is not familiar with each other, you may find that most people are waiting for others to take the initiative to say hello and dare not take the initiative to contact the opposite sex they do not know, and they may think that it is the safest and easiest to do so. The rest of the population, on the other hand, usually walk up to the strange opposite sex and introduce themselves while reaching out. If you happen to be the one who is "hooked up", you will certainly have a psychological dependence on the visitor as you do in other places, because he is the only person you can talk to here and now. You will naturally develop a sense of affection and affection for the person you are talking to. It is not at all considered embarrassing to approach others voluntarily. So, at the beginning of communicating with strange or unfamiliar opposite sex, don't be shy about "opening your mouth first". The person you approach will certainly not cast a strange eye on your "open your mouth first" move, but will be grateful for your proactive attitude.
Usually, for strangers of the opposite sex, it is quite important to catch the first sentence. Therefore, first of all, we must overcome the feeling of inferiority and stage fright. You can casually say something that exists in front of you and use your voice to get the other person's attention. All this should be natural, and if the other party starts to pay attention, you can pick up the conversation and continue to talk. The content of the conversation should not be too in-depth, just as a general chat. At this time, the most taboo mood is nervous, once nervous, it will lead to the inability to find the topic and incoherent.
When two people talk speculatively, they can enter the inquiry stage to understand each other's views, personal situations, family situations, etc., but they must not be able to get to the bottom of the matter. Be good at observation, and once you touch on the other party's privacy and taboo topics, you should diverge in time to maintain a pleasant conversation atmosphere.
In the process of conversation, the most taboo way of talking is to ask and answer. The conversation should be an exchange of ideas between two people, and while getting to know each other, openly and honestly appear to each other. This kind of self-introduction should be frank and honest in principle.
If you have a good feeling for each other in the process of chatting, talk into a comprehensive, deep understanding stage, and can understand each other, then you can shift the topic to test each other, that is, to send a "signal" to each other. Most of these signals contain hints of love, and it is best not to express the signal too bluntly, and the rush will often scare the timid party away. This signal is not immediately echoed, and the other party must be allowed to consider it for a long time, and even after testing you, you can draw conclusions.
Some people are always complaining about the lack of truth in the world, the lack of love. There is no shortage of lonely men and women in this world, most of them are afraid to take the first step of making friends, and they are always on the passive and passive side in dating.
Feelings are naturally revealed, falling generously to communicate, and not losing normalcy in communication is the most basic law of communication with the opposite sex. Mastering these laws, meeting the opposite sex will no longer be rigid, and the interaction will become much smoother.