Life, gathering is also hurried, scattering is also hurried, a lot of love, can not carry the spring and autumn of the years; many people, can not reach the guanshan road far. Life always follows the present, no matter how intoxicating the situation has been, in the end, what is cherished is the present.
As we grow older, the little friends in our original lives slowly fade out of our memories, leaving only a picture in our minds. Like the oldest burner, once you turn this article, you really can't go back to the past.
Childhood friendships are the most innocent
I believe that many people have such a feeling, the original noisy and happy class reunion has gradually become dull and boring, and has become a stage for some people to talk about it; the two people who were originally inseparable from each other could not finally compete with the thoughts of two thousand miles.
Life comes and goes, memories fade away, each of us lost in the crowded sea, watching the memories we want to grasp slowly dissipate.
The word friend, because I want to grasp it too much, often become a thing of the past. People's life, the length is limited, since you can't have it all, it is better to cherish the present, and remember the best friend who accompanies you from the beginning!
Some people will also say that I have so many friends, eating, drinking and having fun one by one, day by day, really occupying all my life.
Some people will say, I grew up without a few friends, should I make new friends?
In fact, as I once said, the interaction between friends is also divided into three, six, nine, etc., and it is enough for a true friend to have three or two. However, if there are the following three kinds of friends and friends, you must cherish them, because adults do not have time to talk about feelings.
One is not asking for anything in return, always helping you. In "Yu Xue", it was once said that "the benevolent giver is obedient, and the one who always gives is safe", a person who really does not ask for return and has been helping you, is either a wise man who is kind to others and does not ask for returns, or a person who really puts you in his heart and does not care about returns. With such a person, you can rest assured that you will give his back to him without worrying that he will have a plot against you.
The second is that the party with you is never absent. There are few sincere feelings in the adult world, and it is difficult to respond every time, because with the needs of work and life, the distance between people will become farther and farther, and the cost of time between each other will become higher and higher. The cost of time has been included in the total cost of interpersonal communication by young people in the new era, so more and more people are beginning to actively or passively put themselves into the sleeve. And in such an era background, being able to squeeze out time to participate in every party with you is really not an emotion that a single friend can express. In this society, many people can't even do it to attend every family gathering with all their might. However, even if it is difficult, he still tries his best to meet you, which is really not the usual deep love.
The third is people with harmonious families and happy lives. I believe that everyone has heard of "home and everything", many people do not pay too much attention to this sentence, only those who have personally experienced it know the amazing philosophy revealed in this sentence. Someone once said that "self-cultivation, family unity, governance, and then peace in the world", this sentence talks about the importance of family harmony, but also shows how difficult it is to produce such a family. A happy man can illuminate the four directions like a small sun; and a sad man can grieve the whole world like darkness. Getting along with people with harmonious families can naturally feel the happiness in each other's hearts, spread love to their own homes, and unite the whole family into a rope.
The above three kinds of friends can be met but not sought, I don't know how many you have met around? Speak up and share together! [Teeth] [Teeth]