The older you get, the more timid you become

The older you get, the more timid you become.

Do you have a feeling that you often miss your childhood, the state of courage and fearlessness that you felt many years ago. But now, no matter what you do, you have to think about the east and the west, and hesitate. Sometimes people say that it is not as good as a child to live. What the child wants directly, directly says, is full of curiosity and curiosity about everything, has the spirit of experimentation with everything, and how to try it first. Simple, crisp, straightforward. So young children know how good or bad it is to test something, and they all know how to test their parents' reactions, rather than just give up.

Adults, on the other hand, know more, worry more, worry more, and then don't dare to think about anything, don't dare to do anything. Many times, we have lost our fundamental judgment, decision-making power and action, and when we encounter things, we only want to escape and give in, and over time, we have turned ourselves into a shrunken-headed turtle, into a walking corpse without self-thinking and thoughtlessness.

It's like someone says they're introverted, socially phobia, and afraid to talk to people. In fact, what does this count? Compared to your work, family, compared to the work tasks you must complete, compared to the way you must try to make your family better, these are not worth mentioning at all. If you need to deal with others at work, even if it is difficult, you must be the scalp, at that time you will still care whether you are introverted, whether you dare to talk to others, whether you can effectively communicate with others. You don't care, or you care about it is useless, because if you can't do it, you have to go, embarrassing, unhappy, quarrelsome, you still have to, no one will care about your sensitive inner drama, whether you can do good things is the problem that everyone should care about.

So, don't be afraid of those you won't be bad at. Not being good at it can become being good at it, no one is born perfect, anything will. Don't pursue perfection in anything, some people are good at it, some people are not good at it, some people understand it and some people don't understand it. Is it because you are not good at not understanding it and don't do it? Always keep a pure mindset, as simple and crisp as a child, and don't be intimidated by useless worries and concerns. You can say what you want, you can do what you want, how you say it badly, how you don't do it well, once at a time you can always be bad. The process is not important, even if you feel that you are humiliated, no matter how sad, no matter how ridiculous, no matter how embarrassing, it is important that you always maintain a belief, a belief that you must get things done.

You don't do it, not because you don't know how to do it, but because you see the difficulties and foresee the possible dilemmas and dilemmas that you don't want to face so much, so you run away. But avoidance is never the solution to the problem, you run away once, you will want to escape more times, until finally you turn yourself into a coward, until finally you can no longer look up and do things with integrity and determination, until finally you become a coward that everyone looks down upon.