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Text: Ten miles
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For most young men and women, love is a process that must be experienced, and in the process of falling in love, everyone will always show some different manifestations of ordinary life. Maybe these manifestations seem childish to others, and even some madness, but when you really fall into a relationship, you will find that these performances are always unintentionally revealed.
Especially for men who are more emotionally obsessed, when they are caught in a relationship that they really like, they will show a variety of childish behaviors. For female friends, I also hope that I can meet an infatuated man, after all, an infatuated man like this will certainly not betray love, and will definitely be good to himself, which is also the marriage partner that many female friends have always wanted to find. Li Fang and her boyfriend have always behaved very closely, and since the two have established a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, the boyfriend's care for himself is really meticulous, which makes the friends next to him very envious. Talking about why she can find such a boyfriend, Li Fang also said to friends around her that in fact, if you want to judge whether your boyfriend or potential object is obsessed with yourself, you just need to judge from the following aspects.
Many men in the process of daily life, in fact, will show some specific characteristics, for example, some men especially like a certain brand of things, whether it is spring, summer, autumn or winter, always like to buy this brand of clothes.
In fact, it can be seen from such a move that this man is more dedicated to feelings, after all, if he has always liked something, then he will be particularly dedicated to feelings. If you always like to change your own things, and there is no specific like for a certain thing, such a man is basically half-hearted about feelings.
So an important criterion for judging whether a man is an infatuated man is to measure whether he will have something in his life that he particularly likes, which can be an object or a hobby. Many people will say that in the process of falling in love, if a person behaves very shrewdly, it means that the person will not treat this feeling very strictly. Especially a male friend in a marriage, sometimes the brain will be affected by love, become insufficient IQ, and even make some kinds of childish actions. In fact, for a man, when he behaves more childishly in a marriage, it means that the man is actually really in love, and he will devote all his body and mind to love, and may become a naïve child. In the face of various things, or when facing their beloved women, they are always at a loss and do not know what to do, after all, this kind of cramped performance is what shows the enthusiasm in the heart, so the boys who have this performance are basically obsessed boys.
Feelings are relatively slow in each relationship, any person will show some emotional heat, some people may have feelings to spread a little faster, some people may have feelings to spread a little slower, if the beginning of the emotional performance is more enthusiastic, may not be long.
However, if you treat a boy who is more obsessed with feelings, once the feelings really explode, then it will be like the water of the Yellow River, out of control. Slow-heat boys are also boys who are very serious about their feelings, because they are careful in every relationship, hoping that they will get a huge return, so they just pay slowly.
Therefore, boys with this kind of psychology show that these men are particularly cautious about feelings, and they are also more responsible for feelings. Therefore, boys like this kind of slow heat type are still very sincere about their feelings. Knowing clearly what to get in a relationship, the terrible thing is not that what you have paid is not rewarded, but what is more terrible is that you do not understand what you want to get in a relationship. In fact, in the process of every marriage, the infatuated man will understand what he really wants. Men and women in the period of hot love, some people may just want to get the feelings in love, but the real infatuated man, he may want to get the life he wants from love.
If you understand what you want in love, it shows that a man's mental maturity and emotional infatuation can only be managed hard in a relationship, work hard to maintain, and finally get the results you want.
Often do childish things in a relationship, if a man shows more infatuation, he will do all kinds of silly things for you, these silly things may make people feel particularly ridiculous at the beginning, but if you really think about it, you will find that if you don't really like yourself, then why do you want to do such a thing for yourself?
Infatuated men always want the women they like to be happy and happy, and sometimes for their happiness and happiness, they can do all kinds of more childish things, willing to do these things for the women they like, in fact, in his eyes, there is no one but her. So when you meet such a boy, the girl will love it, in this impetuous society, it is really not easy to meet an infatuated boy! Willing to bow their heads and admit that the two people stay together will definitely have a variety of quarrels and contradictions, in fact, it is not terrible to quarrel and contradict, more importantly, after the quarrel and contradiction, the attitude between the two people.
If a man really likes a woman, he will not be preoccupied with his own woman, and sometimes even if there is an argument, he will definitely bow his head and admit his mistake first, and then come over to coax his girlfriend, because only real liking can do this kind of first bow his head and admit his mistake. If the feelings of two people are average, after the two people quarrel and conflict, even two people will ignore each other, and even a cold war will occur, in fact, if this happens, the feelings between the two will certainly not reach the fiery level.
Men who are good at planning the future road are always fond of planning their lives in their own feelings, and even when they first establish a relationship with a female friend, they immediately consider their future lives. Sometimes this attitude of considering life and planning goals may make female friends feel a little terrible, after all, the two immediately thought of marriage as soon as they established a relationship, and it is really scary to think of future married life.
But think about it, if you don't seriously want to deal with a relationship, who will think about it for so long? So if a real boy takes a relationship seriously, then he will definitely think a little more, exaggeratedly, and even consider the name of the child in the future. Judging whether a man knows, it can be analyzed from the above aspects, if a woman meets an infatuated man, then you steal the fun, after all, a man like this is obsessed, he treats feelings very seriously, even if two people will live together very sweetly and happily after marriage. Meet the infatuated man, do not be far away from him because of his various childish actions, it is precisely because of these childish actions, it shows that he is very serious about a relationship, serious about the feelings of men are good men, when the two stay together, you will find the benefits of infatuated men. In general, infatuated men are more persistent about love, if they can meet a woman who treats love the same, the two will definitely be able to get along well, if they meet a person who treats love perfunctorily, men who know about it will often make some crazy moves. So the best ending is that an infatuated person meets another infatuated person, so that love can usher in a happy ending.
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