What is love? One song sings well: "Love is the most beautiful language of mankind, and love is the selfless dedication of Chia Tai." ”
It can be seen that love is the most beautiful word, and it is also a kind of whole-hearted love.
In fact, what is love? I think this should be "horizontal into the side of the mountain into a peak, far and near the height of the different things",
It depends on the situation at the time.
What is love? More often, when we talk about love, we often think of love,
In fact, this is just a variety of things in our lives, such as family, friendship, classmates, and camaraderie.
Of course, there are also red-faced confidants, blue-faced confidants, and so on, and so on, although the objects of love are different,
But it all comes from love, and there are reasons to love.
So what is love? Ask what is love in the world, just to be promised?
I think that no matter what form love takes, the essence of love is the same.
Since we talk about love, let's start with love,
There is such a story, titled "Fragrant Snow Osmanthus Porridge", which describes that the hero Dayong's girlfriend Xiao Hui is ill,
The story of Dayong An's careful care.
There is a paragraph in the story that describes the situation in which the male protagonist Dayong feeds his girlfriend Xiaohui Porridge, so let's start here:
Da Yong had brought the bowl to the bed, lifted Xiao Hui up, took it into his arms, and then fed it with a small spoon by a small spoon,
Xiao Hui also enjoyed this warm embrace.
While feeding, Dayong said, "I ran to several places and didn't buy osmanthus flowers, so I found them in a vegetable market street." On the way back, I thought how should this porridge be boiled? If you don't boil well, won't this delay the drink? Let's find someone else to stay up.
I found the lady who sold snacks and asked her to help, and she also lent me the thermos buckets to use. Is it delicious? ”
Xiao Hui said: "Delicious, is the snow outside big?" ”
Dainaga smiled and said, "Forgot." ”
Xiao Hui said, "Silly! ”
This sentence "silly" can be described as how much sweetness love comes from it and condenses.
From this, it can be seen that Dayong has all kinds of compassion for his girlfriend,
It can be seen that the girlfriend Xiaohui is endlessly sweet and infinitely gentle to her boyfriend,
This taste can only be tasted by falling into it (we can reminisce about the past, the "stupid" when we were in love, smash it, and chew on the sweetness of that time. ）。
Looking back at the story, Dayong walked through the snow for an afternoon, and he didn't know the size of the snow.
Only care about whether the porridge is boiled or not, although it is simple and ordinary, it is enough to play with the deep love of the past.
It can be seen that love is not only to be happy, but also to be happy.
Speaking of paying, I think of the college entrance examination essay question many years ago, the title of the essay is "Mother loves to eat fish heads",
Gave a few paintings, that is, when the child was a child, the mother made a fish dish, unwilling to eat meat, eat the head of the fish,
When the child asks the mother why she does not eat fish.
My mother said, "I love fish heads." ”
When he grew up, his son still gave the fish head to his mother to eat and ate the fish himself.
From this incident, we can see that there is something wrong with love, what is wrong?
Insincere question, who can say who doesn't like to eat meat and likes to eat bones?
Of course, there are exceptions (we have exceptions here, you can say it), what is the bone gnawing, or the meat. I think that the mother also loved to eat meat, but out of love for her children, she told a white lie.
Unexpectedly, the son is too honest, too persistent, too wooden, (elm wood knots),
When he grew up, he still thought that his biological mother loved to eat fish heads and hated to eat fish meat.
This is also too stupid. It is really "even more, the widow is not wise".
From the painting, it can be seen that the mother loves fish, but her own pedantic son can't see it.
So now I'm afraid that when I'm old, my teeth will fall.
At that time, my daughter gave me something like fish bones to eat.
Now when I am eating, I express what I like to eat, don't wait for my daughter to understand the wrong meaning in the future.
Hurt myself.
People are clearly well-intentioned, but they are not what you like, so it is not a waste of the kindness of their children.
Once, during a meal, there was a rib dish, and my daughter sandwiched a small piece of ribs to me and her mother.
Her mother hurried to return it to her daughter.
I said, "This is my daughter's love, and you will eat generously, and it is okay to eat it once." ”
Her mother seemed to be unable to sit still. I continued, "Da Yu, do you like to eat such small ribs?" My daughter said, "I like to eat." I said, "You like to eat, and your mother and I like to eat, what does that mean?" ”
My daughter looked at me and asked, "Why?" ”
I said, "Everyone likes such a good thing, just like this ribs, we all like to eat, but why don't we eat it, but leave it for you to eat, it's because I and your mother love you and are reluctant to eat it." ”
The daughter said: "Good things, everyone likes, whoever loves them must give a little more to whom." I remembered. ”
Therefore, when we pay, we must also let the recipient understand the reason, so as not to waste their own good intentions.