Today's headlines were swept away by a video of domestic violence.
In the video, women do not know how to annoy men, and have been subjected to domestic violence by men! That fist fell on the woman's head and body like raindrops, and the woman had no power to fight back! It's terrifying to watch!
I really want to ask from the bottom of my heart: What happened to chinese men? Is there anything that can't be said well, that has to be added up? Do you know that your punches and punches have chilled a woman's heart and broken up the hard-won home? Are you looking for a wife just to use her as a punching bag when you're unhappy? They work hard, without complaint or regret, to pay for the family, and what they want to get is such inhuman treatment?
What exactly does Chinese-style marriage give to women?
Once, I was also a housewife for ten years because I had no one to take my children, and the taste was really heartfelt!
Everyday life is not much better than nanny. Get up early to wait for the family's food and drink, go to school, go to work, go to work, clean up the mess at home: folding, mopping, washing, drying...
Near noon to buy good food to pick up the child, fight like a lunch, eat well to watch the child nap, send the child to school to rest for a while, pick up the child at four o'clock and have to cook to watch the child write homework, busy until the whole family sleeps, in order to have a little time of their own... And so the days go on and on.
Husband thinks that you are at home to eat and wear is not worried about his grace, the wind does not hit the head rain does not hit the face, sit and enjoy its success, the child said that you are useless except nagging! You are full of grievances, but you are speechless!
For the sake of family harmony, you can only bear the burden of humiliation! Only by not arguing or arguing can we maintain the basic harmony of the family.
In order not to let your husband say that you spend money indiscriminately, you save every expense, eat and drink can not buy without buying, but also ended up with the husband asking every day: Where did the money I gave you go?
When your child's learning declines, he will blame you for not even looking at a child well every day, and when your child is sick, he will scold you to the point of dog blood!
You can't help but return the mouth, and your fist will rain down on you! TMD, you eat me, drink, live in me, do what you can't do, and every day the dog is forced to look for things, there is nothing to do...
The woman with a blue nose and swollen face has long been unable to feel the pain in her body, and only feels that her heart is cold to the freezing point! Then single-minded entrustment ended up like this! She wanted to call the police, she wanted to escape! Escape from this so strange man, escape from this so-called home that makes you so hard to make yourself sad!
But looking back at the frightened and crying child, she was in tears, she knew, she couldn't! She must put up with it! Can't let outsiders see the joke, can't make parents feel sad, and can't let the child have no mother [tears] [tears] [tears]
She took a wound, dried her tears, comforted the child, washed the child and slept, hugged the child, and shed tears until dawn!
She knew that she couldn't go out and work for the sake of her child's stable life, so she couldn't make any decisions, she had to swallow everything hard, let everything go back to normal, and end the matter at the least cost! At the moment, she can only choose to bear the burden of humiliation!
The greatest evil of human nature is that it does not know how to be grateful, does not repent, and has to move forward and have no fear!
The man abused the woman, because of the woman's kindness and did not get the punishment he deserved, but also encouraged his arrogance, so the tragedy continued to be staged, and the domestic violence had a second and third time...
Many people who have not been abused by the family will say that women are stupid, women deserve it, and they are beaten several times and do not hurry to escape, I want to ask: Is it so easy? How much courage do you have to summon up to go to society after being trapped at home for a few years, or even a dozen years? What job in society can work without delaying the raising of children? It is okay to suffer on their own, but who wants to take their children with them?
So don't stand and talk without waist pain!
A woman who has been abused by the family, who is not full of bitterness and is alone when no one is sad! Afraid of being laughed at, afraid of parental pain, only endure! Only bitter support!
I asked my daughter to learn taekwondo, and so on to learn a woman's self-defense technique, and I had to take precautions, because I didn't want her to suffer from me.
No matter when, women must love themselves well.
Have a job that supports you, doesn't depend on anyone, and stops your losses in time. In the relationship between the sexes, the word "forbearance" must be deducted, and if you begin to endure, the hard days will begin...
Self-reliance and self-love! I sincerely hope that the girls in the world will always be happy and healthy!