Beckham is being scolded on the hot search again! Previously, he kissed his daughter Xiaoqi mouth-to-mouth, which caused discomfort among netizens, and many people doubted whether such a boundless parent-child relationship was not conducive to the growth of children.
Who thought that after several hot discussions among netizens, Beckham instead got on the bar with netizens. More and more frequently, he showed off his kissing photos with his daughter. A few days ago, seeing that Xiaoqi was almost 11 years old, David Beckham staged a hat-trick and took a picture of the father and daughter kissing again, causing public anger...
The other day, Beckham posted photos of himself walking with his 10-year-old daughter "Little Seven" on Instagram. Little Seven wears thick earmuffs and looks a bit like Princess Leia in Star Wars.
He captioned: "Daddy and Princess Leia are walking happily today", and the second photo of the post is of the two kissing mouth to mouth and making funny expressions.
Although everyone knows that Beckham's picture has no other meaning, there are still many people who think that it is not appropriate to kiss their daughter's lips openly.
One netizen said: "Why did you kiss your daughter's lips?" It looks strange and inappropriate," said another, "and while you can tell you're in a good relationship, please don't send out pictures of kissing your daughter on the lips." ”
Another said: "I tried not to judge it, but she is so old that I don't think It's strange for Beckham to kiss her on the lips. ”
Netizens feel that kissing is a relatively adult way of expressing love. If the child is still an infant, there is no problem for mom and dad to kiss the child mouth to mouth, but XiaoQi is already 10 years old and will soon be 11 years old, and it is time to have a more systematic gender concept.
A female netizen believes that she herself is relatively precocious as a girl, and after the gender concept is established, it will naturally be repelled by the father who is too close to the elderly opposite sex. So she felt that even for the sake of Little Seven's thoughts, Beckham, as a father, should keep a proper distance from his daughter and no longer be able to get along like a baby without boundaries.
Sex education experts believe that after the child is three years old, parents of the opposite sex should no longer sleep with them, bathe together, kiss and other overly intimate actions. Even if you spoil your daughter, you should keep a proper distance.
Because this kind of behavior, which is relatively easy to "cross the line", may bring wrong understanding to children, which is not conducive to establishing a correct sense of self-protection with the opposite sex, and of course, it will also make children shy and uncomfortable.
After all, even if you don't kiss your mouth, there are more suitable ways in the world to express fatherly love. A netizen commented: "Kissing the forehead, cheeks can express love, Xiao Qiqi has grown up, why do you have to show your father's love in a way that is easy to cause controversy?" ”
But Beckham also has a lot of supporters who think the photo is inappropriate for people who are too "obscene." One supporter commented: "I'm in my 40s and still kissing my mom's lips, and I'm still kissing the lips of my 11- and 14-year-old sons, and I think that's okay." ”
Another said, "Well done, buddy." I often kiss my daughter, but because I am not a celebrity, I am not provoked by netizens like you. ”
Netizens kissed each other with their middle fingers in order to support Xiaobei and her 6-year-old daughter
Another wrote: "I think the same thing, how can you make a fuss because of a loving father who kisses his daughter's mouth?" ”
Some people retorted to this: If you think there is no problem in expressing affection in this way, if you let Brooklyn (Beckham's eldest son), or other older male relatives send a mouth-to-mouth photo of Kissing Little Seven, will everyone still think OK?
In short, this matter has been disturbed, but it is worth mentioning that this is not the first time ThatCkham has caused such a storm. You can also see from his deliberately funny expression that he is well aware that this photo will cause worry and displeasure.
In other words, he also knew that he could show his love for his children in other ways, but he would send kissing photos to show that he was "right", which was quite provocative. It's even more of a long story...
In 2017, Beckham posted a photo on Facebook kissing the lips of the then 5-year-old Xiaoqi, which caused strong opposition from netizens. At that time, some extreme netizens directly called him a "pervert", but most people were holding good intentions and hoping that XiaoQi would get more correct guidance.
Everyone has talked about it, and the worries have been said, but Beckham scoffed at it.
When asked by the media about his views on the matter, he said: "I would kiss every one of my children on the lips, probably except Brooklyn, and he might find it a little strange to do so when he was 18 years old." But that's how I get along with my children, and I want to show them love, I protect them, I support them, I'm affectionate to them. ”
At that time, although there was a lot of scolding, everyone also considered that The little seven was only 5 years old, and perhaps Beckham's pet daughter was heartfelt, and it was acceptable to kiss him reluctantly.
Who thought in 2019, after Beckham kissed his then-7-year-old daughter again during a trip to Miami. British pealster Pierce Morgan called his disobedience "creepy."
As a result, Beckham reversed. At the beginning, he deliberately kissed his daughter in front of the camera all day long, although he said that he would kiss other children, but he basically did not send kissing photos with his son, which was considered to have caught the gimmick of father and daughter kissing and repeatedly hyping. (Paparazzi's kissing photo of his young son is there, but he can't show it himself)
In the same year, he was photographed kissing his daughter while watching a game. Both hosts of the British morning show "Good Morning Britain" said that objectively speaking, it is indeed not appropriate for 8-year-olds to do this in public with their parents.
Beckham insisted that there was nothing wrong with his approach to education and began to oppose public opinion. At the end of 2019, he again sent out photos of him kissing 8-year-old Xiaoqi at the skating rink, accompanied by a picture of "A Kiss dedicated to Daddy".
Some Of Beckham's supporters were greatly appreciative, commenting, "Give color to those who are offended by you and your own daughter kissing!" ”
Many netizens once again disagreed with his overly intimate behavior: "Big brother, kissing your daughter is already very strange, as she grows up, you continue to do this kind of thing, it will only become more and more annoying." ”
As Beckham had expected, he relied on this "black and red" again. This year's storm must also be within the scope of his plan, right?
For celebrities, the greatest protection for children is to keep them from overexposing. Even if Xiaoqi's growth is not affected by her father's overly intimate behavior, these discussions and photos may embarrass her when she grows up.
Overall, the high vigilance of netizens is a good thing, Beckham turned a deaf ear to everyone's opinions, but it makes people have some other worries: after seeing suspicious adults kissing minors outside, can the bad guys also use a sentence of "we are father and daughter /mother and son" to prevaricate?
For Beckham, if these photos are sent out of love, you should set a correct margin for this love, and adjusting the mode of getting along and giving the child some privacy will not reduce the father's love much. Of course, if you send these photos with the motivation of hyping up your own heat, you can only leave people speechless.
Perhaps, the argument about Beckham and his daughter's kiss will continue after that, and I wonder what everyone thinks about it?