Success = a question of inquiry

Jewish parents will tell their children that if there is something they don't understand or feel is wrong, they should point it out, ask the teacher for advice, or find their own way to find out the answer, so that they can progress faster.

Many people think of success is very complicated, in order to let children have the quality of success, can be described as hollowing out the mind, in fact, success does not need to be too painstaking, more do not need to work hard to pray to the Buddha, success is very simple, in the words of Einstein: I have no special talent, but like to ask the bottom of the inquiry. So, raise your child to be a "problem basket", this is Einstein's heart sutra!

The child's brain is like a cheerful stream, and the stream flows happily. The farther you run, the more your child will learn. However, in the process of running in the stream, children will inevitably encounter such and such problems, just like a dead wood suddenly crossed in the water, cutting off the flow, slowing down the flow rate, the child's thinking is hindered, then the parents must give the child guidance. Children's questions provide a possibility for them to continue to understand the world, but many parents can not help their children, they often ignore this problem, so in the process of educating children, not only can not help children to guide, and even become an obstacle to children's thinking.

We might as well recall our child's own attitude when asking questions.

As we all know, curiosity is the nature of children, children are curious, naturally love to ask questions, many parents will have such an experience: children always like to pestering themselves twittering questions. Many parents can answer patiently at first, but gradually, they become impatient, always perfunctory, the answer is ambiguous, and finally even ignore it, or rudely stop...

Parents did not think about the impact of such an attitude on their children.

The child is understanding the world, he is eager to understand the world, and the parent's attitude is undoubtedly a blow to the child's enthusiasm, over time, the question is always not solved, he will slowly lose the desire to ask questions, and thus lose the best time to grow.

Jewish parents are aware of this problem, they not only encourage their children to ask questions, and even stipulate how many questions children must ask each day, by doing so, let children stimulate their thinking ability in questions and answers, and learn more knowledge.

Jewish parents will tell their children that if there is something they don't understand and feel is wrong, they should point it out, ask the teacher for advice, or find a way to find out the answer on their own, so that they can progress faster.

Many Jewish parents also like to use the form of competition to stimulate their children's ability to ask questions.

There was a Jew named Ramosses who told his children that they had to ask questions to the teacher every day at school, and that they had to actively answer the questions raised by the teacher in class. Write down these questions with a pen and compete once a week, and whoever asks and answers the most questions is rewarded.

In this atmosphere, the children are more likely to ask questions. Gradually, Ramosses' children's grades were also better than those of their peers, especially some science and technology, natural knowledge was much richer than that of children of the same age.

In ordinary life, Ramoses was also very willing to answer the children's questions, although there were 5 children who took turns to attack, and Ramosses and his wife never felt annoyed. If they can't answer the children's questions, they encourage the children to ask the teacher.

As you can imagine, the children continue to increase their insights, practice their thinking, and improve their problem-solving skills.

The Jews said, "Creation begins with problems, and when there are problems, there are thoughts, and only when there is thinking can there be solutions to problems." It is also in such a process of constantly asking questions, thinking and solving problems, gradually making children full of wisdom and associated with innovation, and a person who has the successful quality of innovation is naturally more likely to succeed!

Nobel laureate Herbert Brown, an American-Jewish man, once said, "My grandfather often asked me, why is today different from other days?" He also always let me ask my own questions, find my own reasons, and then let me know why. Throughout my childhood, my parents encouraged me to ask questions, never teaching me to accept a thing by faith, but to seek knowledge and reason in everything. Perhaps this is where Jewish education is slightly better than others. ”

Success is often hidden in some seemingly insignificant little things, as long as you pay attention, your small actions can bring great success to your child!