Grace is an important condition for your success Author: Zang Jingliang

Grace refers to people's speech, attitude, and behavior, which is the expression of a person's inner cultivation. A personable person who speaks elegantly, has a gentle attitude, behaves decently, and makes people comfortable.

The foundation of grace needs to be nourished by rich cultural knowledge. In real life, some people dress luxuriously and pearlescently, but they talk dirty, behave poorly, speak inferiorly, and have an arrogant attitude, which is absolutely not graceful, can only say that the clothes are good, the jewelry is expensive, and can not explain anything else. A well-dressed, plain-looking person, if he talks a lot, what is revealed between his hands and feet is modesty and civility, people will think that this person is very personable. This shows how important it is to pay attention to inner cultivation for a person in the process of growth.

Among colleagues, classmates, friends, and family, we must follow a concept: big things talk about principles, and small things talk about style. That is, to show the demeanor that should be. Especially in the small things, the demeanor shown can best reflect a person's cultivation.

Tell the story of an ancient Greek philosopher Socrates, once, when Socrates was discussing academic issues with his students and arguing with each other, his wife ran in angrily, scolded Socrates, and then brought a bucket of water and threw it on Socrates. Socrates touched his wet clothes and said humorously, "I know that after thunder, it will rain heavily." "In the eyes of others, Socrates' wife is a beautiful and hot woman. But in Socrates' eyes, the wife is a cute and stubborn pony, he loves everything about her, and before the execution, he also instructed his son to be kind to his mother. He used humor to express his tolerance for his wife, although there were not many words, just a sentence, but it made his wife's anger appear a benign change from "cloudy to cloudy" to "cloudy to sunny", making onlookers laugh happily, and admiring the wisdom of the wise man's superb cultural attainment, artistic accomplishment and unattainable demeanor.

The sea is a hundred rivers, and there is tolerance is great. The reason why the sea is vast is that it has the mind that can accommodate mountains, rivers, lakes and seas, and integrates all things in the world, so that it can have a broad pattern.

Whether you have just entered the society, debuted on the stage of life, or have been working hard in the workplace for many years, whether it is doing things or interacting with people,

Be gracious, which is an important condition for your success.

May you be a personable and principled gentleman.

About author:Zang Jingliang, a native of Jinan, Shandong. He loves words and is obsessed with creation. He has been engaged in publicity and corporate culture in state-owned enterprises for a long time. A small number of literary works are scattered in various media.

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