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There is a saying that people who have not really visited the world are not enough to talk about life, and I think so deeply.
Only people who have tasted all kinds of tastes in the world are qualified to talk about the trade-offs and choices of life, so Dong Qing once said in the program that she prefers to talk to the elderly than to play with her peers, even if it is an ordinary old man, she has years in her eyes.
A common saying among many elderly people is that when you are young, you are not called a blessing, and it is a real blessing to enjoy happiness when you are old.
This view is obviously contrary to the principle of "living in the moment" adhered to by young people today.
Young people always put their timely pleasure on their lips, they follow the trend of the consumerist era, take the current pleasure as the principle, live today and do not want tomorrow, even if their credit cards still owe high loans, they still can't resist their own enthusiastic plans for the next trip.
A recent statistical data shows that in the two years of the epidemic, the proportion of luxury cars and luxury goods consumption in the mainland has not decreased but increased, especially when the consumption of luxury goods in other countries has decreased sharply, and the mainland has increased by 45%.
As the young people on the Internet said, the arrival of the epidemic makes people understand even more, you can never predict tomorrow and accident which will come first, want to buy something quickly, enjoy early and do not suffer losses.
Just look at the present, such a life is happy, but aside from all kinds of carnival and clamor on the Internet, in reality, everyone's life is still living step by step, is it really happy to have fun in time? Not necessarily.
Young people will not understand that the blessings of life must be seen in the second half.
Whether a person has a blessing or not, it is clear at a glance in middle age. The key is not whether you have money, but whether you have the following things, which is your real confidence in dealing with the world.
A: A healthy body is the foundation and guarantee of everything
When people are young, they often do not pay attention to the importance of the body, always sit for a long time, stay up late, eat takeaway, etc., and will not exercise systematically.
Such an unhealthy lifestyle is actually a consumption of life, and when your body sends a signal, it should be paid attention to. If you are really sick, no matter how much money you make, you may not have the opportunity to spend it.
Everyone must understand that a healthy body is the foundation of everything, that the body collapses, and there is nothing left.
If you want everything to run smoothly, it is a real vision to take care of all parts of the body, maintain a healthy and regular schedule, check up and exercise on time.
Two: A harmonious family is a person's greatest support and backing
People with harmonious families often have more blessings, because you can feel more love and warmth.
No matter what setbacks and problems you encounter outside, and no matter how much grievance you have suffered in your heart, as long as you have a family, you will feel that you have belonging and dependence, which is why many people habitually compare home to a harbor, after all, people who have been wandering for a long time will one day dock.
And those who lack love in their hearts and have a disharmonious family, even if they live well by their own efforts, they will still feel that there is a big hole in their hearts, he has no sense of belonging, and the more he goes forward, the easier it is to be confused.
Home is the original place, is a person's original intention, the family is not harmonious, not warm, there is no courage and courage to rush forward.
Three: A satisfactory job can fill many gaps in life
How important is a satisfying job for a woman? It's probably the person you love who determines how happy you are after work, and work determines whether you're happy a third of the time of the day.
If you have a job that satisfies you, you will be happy most of the day.
Some women choose to sacrifice themselves to become housewives after marriage, whether it is film and television dramas or real life, there are too many examples to tell us that housewives generally do not have a good end.
Women out of the workplace, basically equivalent to isolation from society, in the long run, and the husband who works outside the common language is less and less, the maintenance of feelings has become very difficult, women's personal charm is also rapidly declining.
When women are young, they must pave the way for their future, step by step to find the most suitable job for themselves, do not need to be too good, do not need to be paid much, as long as they can give themselves a sense of satisfaction and self-realization, it is a worthwhile job.
Looking at people's lives, the long river of time is not short, do not be blinded by the pleasures in front of you. You know, for a person, whether you are happy after the age of forty is the real test.
I hope that each of us can become a blessed person.
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