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01. Preface
Life is made up of multiple choice questions.
Some people choose to be comfortable, always choose the most self-interested way to live; some people continue to choose, rampage, and want to make their lives have a different color.
Ma Boyong said: "The purpose of walking out of the comfort zone is not to find guilt, but to find a more comfortable zone that you never knew before." ”
Really strong people are very good at taking "detours".
Taking a detour is an experience for yourself. If you have ideals and ambitions in your heart, you should have no remorse. Choose differently, and only then will someone stand on the top of the mountain and look at the vista.
Success does not mean that there is one, and it takes a lot of effort to meet it. Sometimes they even fall directly into the bottom, only by constantly persevering and working hard, they will break a path that suits them.
On the tortuous road forward, you can let yourself have more time to practice, to experience, to turn the process into your own valuable experience, and to let yourself grow in adversity.
02, take a detour, can accumulate experience
Lu You wrote in the poem: "On paper, I finally feel shallow, and I absolutely know that this matter must be carried out." ”
On the road of life, only through experience can we achieve growth.
If you achieve success and reap success too easily, you may be overwhelmed by the applause and cheers around you, and you will not really realize your own shortcomings.
If you are complacent or stop learning, then your ability and achievement will not have new growth, and you will eventually be eliminated.
Taking a detour is actually a learning process.
When you stand at the crossroads of life, you simply cannot judge whether the decision you have made is right or wrong at this moment. Since you have chosen the wrong one, you should strive to improve your ability and return to the right track as soon as possible.
On the road to success, every bump, every obstacle, is constantly tempering people's own will. Challenge people's potential and inspire themselves to become stronger.
Don't be afraid to take a detour, people are constantly trying and making mistakes, constantly summing up experience, improving their own ability and becoming a better self.
Only by taking detours can we achieve a stronger heart and ourselves.
03, taking a detour, is an attempt
After walking through detours and trying, I knew that I could not do it.
In the TV series "Xiao MinJia", Chen Zhuo and Qian Feng have been stable in a company for more than ten years, and when they are almost fifty years old, they have the idea of starting a business.
In the eyes of others, this was a very unwise choice, but they still started the business with a hard heart.
Among them, they have experienced the withdrawal of investors and the difficulty of running a lack of funds, but this attempt will become a very precious experience on their life path.
Fortunately, in the end, the company began to go uphill, and this "detour" was the right one.
People will always have a yearning for their unknown territory, but also with a sense of trepidation and uncertainty, both want to prove themselves, but also afraid of the final defeat.
In fact, the most important thing in life is not how you think, but how you do it, only by trying and experiencing, can you be more clear about your ability.
Everyone has the right to choose their own life path, and only when they really do it will they know whether they can do it.
Sometimes just a little more persistence can make life better.
04, take a detour, can find the right direction
Only by taking the wrong path can we find the right way.
There is no shortage of arrogant and good teachers in life, who have achieved some small achievements and are self-righteous and begin to flutter.
I always think that every decision I make is right, and I think that those who oppose myself are not self-sufficient and unwilling to calm down and think carefully.
The road of life, if it goes too smoothly, it is easy to get carried away.
It is very dangerous in terms of self-development, and only by taking the wrong path can we know which way is right.
Detours actually give life a chance to correct mistakes.
People who have been smooth sailing in the beginning have not been hit and failed, and if they suddenly encounter unexpected setbacks, it is easy to collapse and become depressed.
Only by taking detours and constantly precipitating oneself in adversity can you gradually make yourself mature.
Only by walking through detours can we know how to think carefully, have a long-term vision, and have the courage to ride the wind and waves, and only then can we find a new way out.
05. Summary
On the road of life, don't be afraid to take a detour.
Kant said: "Since I have embarked on this path, nothing should prevent me from going down this road." ”
On the road of life, it will not always be smooth sailing, and it will deviate from the original route when walking. If you confess your destiny, the height of this life can only stop here.
Those who have become big things will take a detour and will not be helpless. Instead, it is to sink the breath, thick and thin. Learn and grow in the detour, accumulate experience, and thus turn this detour into a good road.
On the road of life, don't be afraid to take a detour, growth is pain, not growing is unhappy.
On the road of trial and error, as long as you persist, you will always find a correct path and see the dawn of success again.
Life is a long road, you have to have confidence in yourself. When the strength is strong enough, when the heart is firm enough, no wind or rain can hinder the pace of progress, the life that belongs to you will only become smoother and smoother!
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.