Author: One flower
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Mr. Qian Zhongshu said: "Once middle-aged men and women encounter love, they will be like an old house on fire, and they will be out of control. ”
That is to say, compared with young men and women, middle-aged men and women treat love to a deeper degree of "madness", once they meet the person they like, they will be like moths to the fire, not caring about everything, and not afraid of being enemies with the whole world.
It is not difficult to understand why Su Daqiang in "All Is Good" will try to defy public opinion, break off relations with his children, and also register marriage with Cai Genhua baby. Many people feel that in the face of love, men are crazier and braver than women.
Actually, not really. If you have to compare, women are more obsessed with chasing love than men, especially middle-aged women, looking forward to sweet love, once they like men, they will also fight for themselves.
However, their way of expressing love is more subtle and introverted, and they have decided to "cross the line" with the opposite sex, and they will not directly use the three words "I love you" to show love, and only dare to use some body language to suggest.
Middle-aged women who decide to "cross the line" will use three "body languages" to imply that men should cherish.
The first: keep you overnight
Because of their rich experience in the past, middle-aged women know how to capture a man's heart, and they can stir a man's beating heart more than saying "I love you" in their ears and keeping men to stay overnight.
Once a middle-aged woman decides to "cross the line" and no longer wants to maintain a superficial friendship or colleague relationship with a man, she will plan a dinner party, invite men to her home, taste cooking, and prepare a glass or two of red wine.
After a full meal, the man looked at the watch, the time is not early, planning to leave, the middle-aged woman looked at each other firmly, excused that it was too late, invited him to stay overnight, and then smiled evilly, went directly to the bathroom to put the bath water, the meaning of which is self-evident, men should know how to cherish this hard-won opportunity.
The second: flirting with you in public
From childhood to adulthood, the most we hear is public occasions, to pay attention to proportions.
If a middle-aged woman does not really love a man, in public, she will deliberately keep a distance from the man and not give the people around her the opportunity to misunderstand the relationship between the two people.
But if she decides to "cross the line", no longer wants to hide and suppress her inner feelings, and wants to make further progress with men, she will deliberately flirt with men in public, attract the attention of people around her, and use the mouths of people around her to hint at men.
In this way, even if she is rejected by a man, she will not be too embarrassed, after all, she can casually say "they are fooling around" and directly blame others.
The third: often squeeze your eyebrows
Perhaps, some people will feel that middle-aged women are more mature mentally, in fact, the older the woman, the more prominent the girl's heart. Middle-aged women seem to have a lot of emotional experience, but in fact, they are just a "workplace white", and they will also foolishly search for some unreliable love experiences from the Internet.
For example, if a woman wants to attract a man's attention, she must squeeze her eyebrows and release charm, so that men have nowhere to escape.
As outsiders, we may directly see that this method is unreliable, but middle-aged women who are in love do not know it, and they naively think that squeezing a man's eyebrows and making eyes can be exchanged for love. Therefore, they decided to "cross the line" and often threw flattering glances at men to hint.
In summary, middle-aged women decide to "cross the line", they will use the above three "body language" to frantically hint, capture these details, men can not pretend not to understand, but to know how to cherish.
After middle age, it is not easy to meet a true love, behind the woman's decision to "cross the line", it is also a great psychological struggle, men must know how to cherish this hard-won emotion, because once missed, it is no longer.
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In addition to the above, middle-aged women have decided to "cross the line", what "body language" will be used to imply it? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.