As the saying goes: reach out and don't hit a smiley person, and indeed, no one does it in the face of a person with a big smile on his face. People who tend to smile will receive unexpected benefits. Cardell Carnegie has this description of the smile: It is produced at home, it cannot be bought, it cannot be asked, it cannot be borrowed, it cannot be stolen, because it is useless to anyone until people get it. After it is given to others, it will make you get the favor of others. It is the rest of the weary, the sunshine of the disappointed, the strength of the mourner, and a medicine for the relief of suffering that nature has given to people free of charge. ”
If we want others to treat ourselves with a happy, joyful look, we must first treat others with such a look. Acting is better than words, and smiling at people is to show others, "I like you, you make me happy."
People are easily moved, and what moves a person is not necessarily a huge investment in generous charity. A warm greeting, a warm smile, is enough to sprinkle sunshine in people's hearts.
So how do you do that? At least two things are feasible. Force yourself to smile. If we are alone, we can force ourselves to play the flute, or hum the tune and sing. Make yourself happy, and you can make yourself happy. William James, a professor at Harvard University, said, "Action seems to follow sensation, but in fact action and sensation go hand in hand." So, when we need to be happy, we have to force ourselves to be happy.
Everyone wants to be nice to others, but there is only one way that really works, and that is to smile at others. Then others will smile at us and are willing to associate with themselves. If we want to be masters of interpersonal communication, we should remember: smile as our passport.
