Life must be full of joy. When encountering good things, it is natural to enjoy the joy of success, applause, and a hint of frivolity in your heart.
However, if everything is too late, when you are proud, if you immediately show a radiant appearance, when you treat others, you will inevitably become an unwelcome object in the eyes of others.
Maintaining peace in front of honor will lead to greater progress and will not affect the feelings of others. Avoid causing outside resentment.
Once, a gentleman invited a few friends to dinner at home, and these friends knew each other well. They came together mainly to take advantage of the lively atmosphere to make a friend who was currently in a low mood better.
This friend recently closed the company due to poor management, and his wife was talking to him about divorce because of the pressure of life, and he was really in pain.
Friends who come to dinner know what this friend is currently experiencing, and everyone avoids talking about career-related matters, but one of the friends, because he has made a lot of money at present, drank a bit, and couldn't help but talk about his ability to make money and spend money.
The frustrated friend bowed his head and said nothing. The face was very ugly, one moment to go to the toilet, the next to wash his face, and then left early. As soon as he went out, he said indignantly: "You can make money and you don't have to say so much in front of me!"
Everyone will experience the troughs of life, and they will also encounter unsatisfactory things. At this time, showing off your pride in front of frustrated people is tantamount to sticking a needle into the hearts of others. It hurts others and doesn't do you any good for yourself.
In general, frustrated people are less aggressive, and depression is the most common mentality, but don't think they are just that. After listening to you talk about your pride, they generally have a kind of psychology - resentment. This is a kind of indignation that has penetrated deep into the heart, and you have spoken with a mouthful, but you have unconsciously planted a bomb in the heart of the frustrated person, and you can't scratch it.
The frustration of the person who has hatred for you will not be immediately revealed, because he is powerless to show it, but he will vent his hatred in various ways, such as saying bad things about you, pulling your hind legs, deliberately making enemies of you, and the main purpose is to see how long you are proud, alienate you, avoid meeting you, so as not to hear your pride again, so that you unconsciously lose your friends.