Recently, I was brushed by a paragraph in the circle of friends:
A few words worth pondering in 2021:
1, on the same train, someone infected, someone safe. This is [body immunity]
2 The same isolation, some people do not worry about eating and drinking for a year, some people are financially strapped for a week, this is [financial immunity]
3, the same isolation at home, some people read and study, air courses are very self-disciplined, some people play mahjong games, chaotic chaos to live a life, this is [value immunity]
4, the same disaster, some people are sunny, brave to go forward, some people complain about the world, and even hate society, this is [psychological immunity]
This disaster is a process of great waves and sands, for all people's physique, experience, cognition, human nature, conscience, courage, thoughts, morality, soul, ideal values, etc. are a screening, to overcome accidents and misfortunes, all that needs to be done is to improve all of the above immunity.
Many friends commented: Improve immunity, which is so easy? In this era of fast-paced life and overwhelmed by mortgages and car loans, it is not easy to have a decent life.
Do you feel the same way? Feel like you work hard every day and don't get better? I feel that I have worked so hard, why is life always unsatisfactory?
The reason for this is that most people give up after reaching the level of effort needed to survive, unwilling to allow themselves to be "unnecessary" for survival.
To have a better life, we need to keep going up.
Many people say that the competition is so fierce, the inner volume is so strong, is there still a way up? The answer is yes, the key is to see how much you want to go up.
There is a classic explanation in Uplink: The Replicable Way to Break Through:
How many people have experienced asthma? If you've had this experience and you feel that you don't have enough breath, you take a deep breath and take a big breath, and the only thing you have to do at this time is to get fresh air.
You don't care what's being broadcast on TV, you don't care if someone calls you, you don't care about the trivialities of the party, the only thing you care about is taking in some fresh air while you breathe, that's all.
So, only when your desire for success is like the desire to breathe will you succeed and improve [all kinds of immunity].
01. Persistence anytime, anywhere makes the way up is difficult and simple
Making yourself more valuable is the most basic condition for adults to grow upwards.
Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. Before Bo Le discovered the Maxima, the Maxima was no longer an ordinary horse.
In reality, most people think that work is to do their duty, will not voluntarily work overtime, will not learn additional skills, and spend limited time on short videos and games after work.
"Upward: The Replicable Way to Break Through" points out to the point: Opportunity does not understand the time, and will not just pick nine to five.
Therefore, no matter what the reason, it should not be an excuse to hinder our progress, only by using all the time to improve ourselves, can we seize the opportunity to change the status quo when we meet Bó Lè.
In the TV series "All Is Good", Su Mingyu, who has not yet graduated from college, met his life mentor - Meng Zong because of his part-time selling class. Later, with the help of Mr. Meng, he became a workplace elite, became the master's right hand, and a proper winner in life.
Many people say that Su Mingyu is lucky because she met the life of Bole. In fact, if not, you also have to look at the investment risk and cost performance, and you will also see whether you are worth it.
Because of the reason of the original family, Su Mingyu studied hard since he was a child, took the eldest brother as an example, wanted to get ahead through reading, in addition to making money part-time, in order to learn is also early and greedy, using all the fragmented time to improve himself, every moment is striving for a better life in the future.
Cai Leilei, author of "Upward: The Replicable Way to Breakout", said: "The upward movement sounds difficult, but it is also very simple, that is, 365 days × 24 hours.
Any goal that adds "daily" is bound to sift out a large number of people.
Everything on the way up is as inevitable as eating and sleeping. Simple things are repeated, repeating things are persistently done, and you are the winner.
Sticking to the right things and using all the time to improve yourself will make the way up the road easier.
02. Staying away from ordinary people is the only way to go up
Don't change yourself in order to cater to others, don't constantly adjust your values and behaviors because of other people's criticism, so that you are doomed to achieve nothing.
Okay or not, it's up to you, don't ask the people around you, if you insist on asking, just look at the celebrity deeds, maybe it will give you some inspiration.
There was once a host of the "Wealth Forum" who said that your income is the average of the income of 6 people around you, and many people are curious about how he knows?
It is not difficult to understand that people are clustered in groups and things are grouped. Although on the surface it seems to be only income, in fact, it is more that the three views and the vision determine our situation.
If you want to make 30 million, you go and ask your friends who earn 3,000 a month, and your friends tell you that you are daydreaming, and you give up.
You suddenly want to learn a skill, and the friends around you say, you are so old, what is the use of learning this? Can you still quit your job to do this? As a result, you think about it and feel that what your friend said is reasonable, and you give up.
You want to quit your job for a new job and challenge yourself, only to have your parents say, you are married and have a family, what if you can't find a suitable job? You still work steadily, so stable, no risk, you think about it and think about what your parents said to read, give up.
You want to start a business, you want to take advantage of the fact that you are still young, and as a result, people around you say that starting a business is not easy, it is not as reliable as having a stable job, and as a result, you have dispelled the idea...
"Upward Mobility: The Replicable Way to Break Through" says that after people are put on the traditional definition of "ordinary people", their behavior will begin to lean towards this definition, so they really become ordinary.
Peking University talented woman Liu Yuanyuan, originally also an ordinary high school student, not beautiful nor outstanding, and then did not yield to fate arranged in the third year of high school inspiration to take the Peking University, she ignored the ridicule of others, focused on learning, and later she conquered everyone with the results: I am not beautiful, I am not smart, but I do not want to be an ordinary person.
Later, when I signed up for "Super Speaker" at Peking University, some people said that she was crazy, and some people said that she was not self-sufficient. However, she still chose to ignore the suggestions of others, always believed in herself, and finally won the championship.
There is a kind of no," so that you think you can't do it! Put yourself in which position, you will become the person in which position.
People are the product of the environment, whether online or offline, we should try our best to put ourselves in a better circle, so that we can be better than our previous selves.
If you want to change, you should stay away from the ideas of those "ordinary people", break the curse of ordinary people, jump out of the comfort zone, stick to your position, and get closer to people who are better than yourself.
03. The law of recklessness begins, and you are half successful on the way up
In addition to the upgrading of thinking and cognition, it is more important to have execution in place.
Porridge Zoro said: If you do it beforehand, you will be half successful.
Cai Leilei said: Everyone with strong execution has a habit - to do it immediately.
Take many people who want to lose weight but "lose more and more weight", their slogan is almost the same: after eating this meal, I will start to lose weight, or tomorrow I will start to lose weight. After a year or even three or five years, they will still be the same as before and even gain weight.
In fact, the main reason is that there is no concentration in the heart, no execution. If you decide to do something, or to make a change, an action, start right away, start right away, finish first, and be perfect again.
Don't find it hard to work hard, "doing" is the easiest thing to do.
Ancients Cloud: Empty talk misleads the country, and hard work rejuvenates the country.
Logical Thinking co-founders and CEOs don't spend important life turning points from an experience.
She sneaked into a conference room to listen to other people's training, after the end of the teacher said very well, she went up to communicate with the teacher, a moment of kung fu and rented the venue on the spot to get the teacher, and then found a way to find a student, so recklessly rushed into the field of entrepreneur training.
The thinking behind recklessness is: what I'm going to do, not what I'm going to do.
Luo Zhenyu once said: To do a thing, it is not reliable in the end, you sit at home and think it is useless. Our style is, regardless of three seven twenty-one, the idea comes out and generally feels reliable, do it first!
It starts with ideas, it starts with actions. "Upward: The Replicable Way to Break Through" gives you a very simple upward suggestion, suitable for every ordinary person, that is, every day in the trend of various behaviors closer to the upward a little, even if you can not get any good results immediately, it is also to add weight to the upside in probability.
A lot of times, we put "I want" first, not "I want." However, in 90% of the cases, the first work is stable and profitable.
Take action, starting now.
For our better life, let us go up the road together and be a lifelong ascender.
Write at the end:
Everyone has room to go up, everyone can go up, you have to believe that you can.
Start by upgrading your cognition, adjust your actions, strengthen yourself, give your time to the most worthwhile person, make good money, and remove all obstacles.
The more upward, the more opportunities will be encountered, and the more lazy you are, the more you will be unable to be lazy.