The following is a text version of the content of the forgotten fish scales with the same name, such as the vibrato number and the watermelon video
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Men should read the most is Hemingway, no one, he is known as the toughest writer in human history, the real man, his "The Old Man and the Sea" is dozens of pages thin, won the Nobel Prize in Literature, the world has been praised so far, nothing really can't be done.
But when you are young, when you are frivolous, you can't read at all, you are over 25 years old, you have been beaten by fate, the environment around you has trapped you, you will ring out some complaints and laments around you, saying that there are no resources, no strength, no hope, everyone no longer has fantasies, once envisioned, and then there is no result, ambition is not dead, the heart is gradually lost, but still can't see the road under your feet, no longer have faith, life no longer has miracles.
When you can live like a human being, you will think of this old man in Santiago, think of his struggle with sharks, dozens of pages of bloody rain buried incredible energy, and reveal the truth of how many men's lives. This is the old man and the sea we are going to talk about today.
What a story the old man told to the sea, saying that the old Cuban fisherman, called Santiago, finally caught a big marlin alone after not catching a fish for eighty-four consecutive days, but the fish was so big that he dragged his boat at sea for three days before he was exhausted, and he was killed and tied to the side of the boat, but he was attacked by sharks on the way back, and he fought with wits along the way, and finally only an empty skeleton was left.
It creates the admirable tough guy image of "Santiago", describes a fighting spirit that is indomitable in the face of difficulties, and also reveals a kind of empty truth at the end of life. He said, "A man is not born to be defeated, you can destroy him." But he couldn't beat him. ”
This is san diego's life belief.
So the question is, what is this belief?
What is faith? Self-confidence beyond logic, optimism without reason, is an energy that transcends the level of reason.
Lei Jun stressed in an interview many years ago that it is called self-confidence beyond logic. Live to a certain extent, and you will find that the division of life comes from this strange energy.
Can a boxer who never believes he can take a gold belt? You can say that you believe it and you may not be able to get it, yes, this is also true, do not believe that you must not get it and believe that you do not necessarily get it, there is nothing wrong, it is just a matter of choice, choose to comment, judge, or roll up your sleeves and dry.
Anyway, life will torture you, will give you failures and blows, no matter what equipment you start with, it will try to plant a seed called despair in your heart, let you accept failure, find all kinds of reasons to rationalize failure, let you run away for half a life and come back no longer that teenager. You can summarize a thousand reasons for encouragement and can't refute it, but in the end your trajectory is to call for failure, hide in your comfort zone, and accept the arrival of aging.
The more you get to the back, the more panicked you are, to the new environment, to take on new projects, to meet new lovers, the heart is inevitably filled with the shadow of failure, worry about messing up, worry about insecurity, worry about your own inadequacy, this worry is a kind of inner call, feet on the brakes, always only stare at the rearview mirror, saying that I personally experienced the car next to me, objective, calm, this is very correct, just let you like a extinguished sigh.
We can't trust instinct to live, because the intelligence summed up by our instincts is the habit accumulated in the process of survival in the jungle for thousands of years, and the instinctive conservatism will instinctively collect negative and dangerous information to form a warning system that allows us to survive.
Your life trajectory will move towards mediocrity with your more and more lax paddling, entrepreneurship will fail, lost love will lose half a life, everything has a way out and words, see others fall, say look, I said no, this can always make you invincible in face, morally at the highest point.
When you reach the forty or fifty years of physical decline, you go to the street to pull a few greasy middle-aged men, and you ask him what iron things he has done in his life? Do you have any expertise and pride in providing others with great value? Most people are stupid because they are all mixing, pretending to live, and getting stuck in the dilemma of self-realization and following the trend.
Beliefs are idealistic to them, yes, they are right, and there is a gleam of confusion in their eyes. But at that moment, we have to remember that the old man named Santiago, who had not caught a fish for 85 days, still chose to go to sea.
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We have the fire of the night in our hearts
The journey of the sea of stars
Encounters and spreads
We are the beacon of Changming
Even though the night is lonely, the day is like burning
Be each other's watchmen