On May Day, I watched the classic Oscar-winning movie, "Driving for Miss Daisy."
Warmly tells the story of an old Jewish woman and an old black driver who go from running into each other to caring for each other.
There are many reasons for its awards, such as history, race, friendship, etc., but these are not the points that impressed me.
In these two old people, I saw another life, and thus began to think a little about the old age life.
Two old men
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > different lives shown in the movie</h1>
Miss Daisy, whose film begins in her mid-seventies and ends in her nineties, describes a period of her old age.
During this time, she lived a rich life, was in good condition, materially and spiritually rich, and could be said to have lived out my ideal state of old age.
Driver Hawke, in the United States in the context of the film '60s, 70-year-old black Hawke, was hired to become Daisy's driver.
I was very impressed by the openness and inclusiveness of the society at that time.
Because even today, at least around me, it is rare to see the elderly applying for jobs, so Taobao has also triggered a wave of heated discussion when recruiting elderly employees.
This is certainly because of the traditional idea that most people should enjoy their old age after retirement, and because the whole environment does not support the employment of the elderly.
But with the development of science, the general extension of human life expectancy is an inevitable trend, just like Luo Zhenyu said, each of us must be prepared to meet the hundred-year-old life.
Pink dress
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > centenarian life, are you ready? </h1>
So how can you prepare yourself for your ideal old age? Personally, I think we should start from now on and work in at least the following directions.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" >01 gold</h1>
For life, the economy is the foundation of everything.
Just like Hawke has always lamented that Daisy is a rich old lady. Only when the elderly have money can they not worry about their livelihood, do not rely on the support of their children, and even ask someone to take care of their own lives.
In fact, not only the elderly, which stage of life does not need money.
One hand is material, the other is spiritual
< h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" >02 body</h1>
The body is the capital of the revolution. Without a good body, there is no point in living longer.
In order to move freely when you are old, the body parts have been enduring, or honestly start to develop exercise habits from now on.
With a good body, you can travel long distances
< h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" >03 families</h1>
In the movie, no matter when Daisy makes a phone call, her son will come immediately, even if he is complained, he will laugh it off, which is a good representative of filial piety to his son.
There is also Daisy who is not far away to participate in her brother's birthday, and the scene of the family's happiness and harmony is also very warm.
Writing this, I remembered the news that my son had recently buried his elderly mother alive, and I was overwhelmed with regret.
Home is the softest place in a person's heart, and it needs to be managed with care all the time.
Filial piety to the son is just needed
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" >04 wife</h1>
Three or five confidants, nothing to do prayers, chat, play mahjong (did not expect that the foreign old ladies in the sixties like to play Chinese mahjong).
The meaning of wife is not necessarily husband and wife, or old partner.
Cherish friends at every stage of life, be honest with each other, support each other, and look for a companion who is old and can't finish talking.
Chinese Mahjong
< h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" >05 mentality</h1>
Every appearance of Miss Daisy is exquisitely dressed, well-dressed, and upright. Even an old lady does not have a little twilight appearance, but has her own personality, strong, independent, honest and upright.
It's a pity that she had Alzheimer's disease in her nineties, otherwise she would have grown up gracefully with a life-loving mentality, which is what I hope it is.
Exquisite old lady
< h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" changed >06</h1>
At first, although the mouth did not admit it, the old lady was prejudiced against black people, but later her mentality gradually changed.
In real life, we can see that many old people are stubbornly unwilling to accept new things, like nostalgia, and like to deny.
But even the 89-year-old stock god has learned to hold online shareholder meetings and do PPT this year, and we should remind ourselves to have the mentality of tolerating different opinions and accepting new things.
Communication with friends is essential
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" >07 skills</h1>
Acquire certain skills, either as Daisy would teach, as a hobby, or like Moses could drive, have the ability to work and earn money.
One more skill is like one more window in life.
The heroine of the film, Jessica. Tandy won the Academy Award for Best Actress for this film at the age of eighty, which is not also the public's affirmation of her acting skills.
Pretty heroine
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